Recent content by Adz--

Day: Cant remember Thought I'd share an update. Cant remember how long NC has been, around 3/5 months?. Anyway, things have gotten a lot better, she hasn't reached out and neither have I. My life is a lot better now than it was when I first started NC. Sorted out my diet and lost a lot of...

Yes, I agree a lot of the older strategies haven’t held up well at all. Which ones can still be used/ still work in this era? I’ve been thinking of this lately and I’ve come to the same conclusion. Essentially I think it breaks down into a few things: 1) SMV: to increase A) work out/ gym B)...

Day 60 something As per the rules, i read my all my NC posts. From day 1 till now I can definitely say that there’s been a massive growth and improvement in terms of my mental state, more balanced emotions, better understanding and all round much better me. I was definitely going through the...

Yep, sex with BPD/toxic/Crazy girls is mostly great. But the cost of it is your mental sanity. Honestly man, sounds like a car crash waiting to happen, good thing you got out before things took a turn for the worst

Yeah she sounds it. Most of that sounds like it stems from the sh*tty upbringing and been reinforced by all the other events and trying to get dopamine highs through messed up scenarios. Honestly brother it sounds like you dodged a bullet. The bitter part about BPD's are that their behaviour...

It's been a while since I've posted on SS. Been actively reading threads over the years every now and then. So my abbreviations are from the old days of SS. After coming out of a LTR and observing the dating world, apps, friends, acquaintances, social media etc. I've noticed that the culture and...

Yepp on many occasions, the girl was a walking BPD red flag and the whole time through dating her nothing was stable for long. Ironically like yourself when I did put her in her place she always loved it and thrived of it. That's how these psychos get you hooked and wanting more through their...

Simple studs go a long way for a clean look, can match the studs with a classy watch, rings and/ or neck chain. Yes even better if you lift, I got most compliments when I was lifting. Downsides: Depending on what region in the country you are you may get labelled as gay or get men try it on...

I have something similar to that in black that I currently use on one ear, on the other ear I have something completely different. Something similar to the image below. Guys can pull off pretty much any ear stud except for hoop/ dangly ones those look feminine IMO.

Yeah, I have, I've had numerous compliments from women over the years and works as conversational piece. Depending on what style of ear stud you go for can work for different tastes/ images/ settings. adz--

Day 46: Last couple of days have been more down than up. Getting thoughts of the ex, in terms of memories and sh*t. Every time I catch my self I keep saying to myself that I give power to what I put into my mind and having my ex in my mind is something I don't want to give power to. I'll be...

Day 38: Over the weekend I took some time off from work and studying and travelled down to where I went for university for my other friends graduation for a couple of nights, and then went out. One of my own goals were to start talking to women again and bring my confidence out again. It was a...

Day 27: Took a week of from studying & work. Travelled out to a different city to catch up with some old friends and go to a graduation also banged an old plate that I had spinning when I was in university, which was fun. Spoke about my ex with one of my friends which basically told me to "Get...

01. I lost my frame, put her on a pedestal and probably developed Oneitis for her, thinking she was different and kept distant contact with her most likely for pride and ego (I messed up badly on that part) 02. I removed her from a lot of things but not those, most likely Because of the same...

After a long time away from the fold I'm back.. Short back drop: Had a plate that became a LTR, whilst at university, moved for my job became a long distance LTR, lasted 3 months after I moved then we broke up start of April. I broke all the NC rules and stayed friends and it only made things...