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    Why is our culture is so obsessed with monogamy....

    @Sexysuave: I can see where you are coming from with this. I suppose its to each his/her own. I can see the reasons why people (both men and women) cheat, why most guys end up wanting something on the side, and I can see why it might have been tolerated back in the day. However, if we remove...
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    Guilt from cheating on LTR

    @sexysuave: Are you serious? Every neuron in my fvcking head just wrote a suicide note. Telling her is the pvssified thing to do? Really? Either way he is going to hurt. Not telling her means living with the guilt, and knowing that he going against his own standards which makes him a...
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    Guilt from cheating on LTR

    I'm sorry sofomore but your inexperience and your confusion is really shinning. The MOST AFC thing you could do is be too afraid of telling her the truth. You are BEING a pvssy if you don't tell her. Not telling her does not make you a DJ, a DJ is able to admit his mistakes and move on. I've...
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    Why is our culture is so obsessed with monogamy....

    I find that most single people I meet who claim to enjoy screwing random women, admit that they wish they could find a steady girlfriend for whatever reason but don't believe they will find one. Yet I find friends who are in relationships who wish they were single and could enjoy a different set...
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    Guilt from cheating on LTR

    Before some of you point out that he is only 20 and it shouldn't matter and get all bi**hy. It is never too early to start bettering yourself. If you don't understand that, then you are missing 95% of what it takes to get a decent girl and not just a slut.
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    Guilt from cheating on LTR

    Haha, some people speak about women as if they are creatures that fall into a single or perhaps a few categories. Sofomore, women are people too. If your girlfriend cheated on you, would you want to know? I hope the answer is yes, because as a man and a logical human being, you should take...
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    Why is our culture is so obsessed with monogamy....

    ^^ Agreed. Self fulfilling prophesies are real occurrences. If you believe you will never find love and be monogamous, yet believe in it, you will not get what you seek. I completely disagree with the thread starter. I believe I have found my life partner, yet we struggle to find other...
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    "A Man is Only as Faithful as His Options"

    Some very interesting responses here, especially by sstype. I'm in a LTR at the moment and I'd be lying if I said I have had no temptations. After nearly 3 years neither of us have drifted even once. My partner and I are very open, and we are very honest with each other-- to the point where...
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    Anyone ever been in a relationship for more than 2 years?

    For the most part I agree with sexysuave. I've had 2 LTRs and I'm currently on my second one. The first girl I was with for about... 5 or 6 months and it was basically for the sex. She was a pretty bad person, a loose cannon, no moral compass, and craved sex constantly. I've been with my...
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    Reciprocation Issue

    Just had the discussion with her. It's all good for now. We've wiped the slate clean covering the last 3 weeks and we're not to bring any of the details or specific arguments into play from now. Prior to this she agreed that she should have been thinking a little deeper about the situation we're...
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    Reciprocation Issue

    @ thevilelittletroll: I'm in the middle east. No access to porn, no public houses, no golf courses. just work, food, a room with a bed and terrible internet connection. Don't pretend to know what I'm going through, it doesn't bring you any more dignity than you already have dignity. I...
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    Reciprocation Issue

    Thanks anyway joverby. @ Mahoney: I plan on delivering what I have to say about my situation calmly. The last time I told her how I felt calmly she said she didn't know what to do about it. A few days later and nothing changed. We didn't end up talking for a few days because i had work...
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    Reciprocation Issue

    I have been with this girl for almost 3 years now, and have lived together almost 2 years. I have been relocated on the other side of the world for over 2 months for working purposes and to take a step to securing our financial future so we can start a family in about 2 years. As you can tell...
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