@jdb you kind of are a little yes....
I'm getting at your neediness. from what you wrote earlier "the transition in between girls is hard" or something
like that.
Going by that, it sounds like life is laborious for you between girlfriends......
when really women should be just complimentary to an already interesting, successful and
happy life.
Instead of needing a girlfriend. You create a happy single life so good.....that you have to
ask yourself "jesus christ, where would I fit a relationship into my life??"
....when you're there......if you can honestly ask yourself that....there's no longer a need....
granted there might be a
want...just the same as you might want a cat or a dog.....
If you have a need......there are holes in your psyche that need filling...
For example....if you need a girlfriend to take away the loneliness. Get used to being on your own.
Spend time in solitude. Spend time in reflection. Come to love your alone time....
....no more feeling lonely.........no more hole......no more need.....
You've got to figure out what the holes are.