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Master Don Juan
Its natural to project things you believe about yourself on others, we all do it. So if you're a positive guy, you always believe others are capable of change for the better, such as having a positive outlook on sex and love.( . )( . ) said:Of course not, but slickster was being serious as far as I could tell unless my sarcasm detector is off.
"Kimberleah" is an internet handle, a few sentences in a contentious topic, and everyone reacts with their own preconceptions to fill in the blanks. Nobody here knows a real person - we all project images of ourselves on the internet, not who we really are since the picture is doomed to be incomplete.
You can't avoid making projections or assumptions, but its best to be aware of the limits of your own perception. Its also a great way to learn about other people -- dating a girl who believes the best of you with your failures as exceptions, is different than a girl who believes the worst of you with your best moments as aberrations.