BPH
Master Don Juan
Always good to see people who are willing to listen and act on advice rather than come here to have their woes validated, good on you.I went on vacation and did what you said. I used to read books about picking up women. But as I went out, I realized that most books are actually useless.
I thought I had social phobia. Actually, I don't have as many phobias as I thought. I wasn't just going out
Still, I didn't like Club-style environments very much.
Staying in my small city after the holidays will be boring and lonely, but at least I realized that the problem is not books and theoretical knowledge.
It is better to go and talk instead of reading books on how to approach women. Even if the result is negative, it's better
Thank you man.
As far as approaching women, yeah, you're just gonna suck at it for a while, but then you get good at having conversations, reading nonverbal cues, flirting, knowing when to isolate her, etc. And you won't have to think about it, it'll just come natural.
As far as your city, the easy fix is to just move somewhere else after you're done school. But if it's really that bad, you might have to do what I do and just really go out of your way to meet women.
In either case, glad I could help.