Time flies, it's been almost a year now, just about a month away. Do I still think about my ex? Yes at times, more and more recently for some odd reason. Do I miss her as my significant other? Not at all, do I miss her as a friend, yeah to be honest. She was pretty cool and I had a lot of fun times with her. However, there is one thing for sure, if you want to see the struggles of someone trying to cope with having lost someone they really thought was important, go ahead and read my previous posts, and I can honestly tell you first hand, after the first two or three months, its like she never existed. She does cross my mind every now and then, maybe once a week or so. However it is not destructive at all, and I am able to focus on my day and come home to the most beautiful girl I've ever met, so for all of you struggling, thinking about how hard it is to make it another day, take it from me, someone who has been through it and will give you the honest truth. -Jared (Day 318).
For those of you wondering why I even bothered coming back onto this forum, its because I know how much this helped me. Without this forum i'm not sure where I would have been, the people on here who gave me the toughest love, told me to stop being a pansy, ignore her and focus on becoming a better me. These people have actually had a huge impact on my life, and I'm so grateful I found this site. Everyone please keep your hopes up and focus on pleasing you, not anyone else!