Originally posted by MinDFreeZ
Well trust me, all of these things have gone through my mind... it was actually more of a "fling" for her to be with me for the last couple months.. I just showed her excitement.. She's very responsible, but theres actually more to the story.. she never knew she could have kids, doctors told her the possibility of conceiving was very low due to the fact that her body does not usually produce the hormones she needs... she was on birth control to kind of 'induce' the periods that she usually only got twice a year...
so she thinks of this as a "miracle baby" although we both know its really bad timing..... I've try every angle possible to make sure that I don't end up paying child support forever... it's looking good, but she's getting very emotional.. shes not the type to get an abortion, she's so against it that there's no chance.. and If i bring it up, that's just asking for her to no longer talk to me, and to make me pay child support in the future....... I'd rather continue trying to please her and support her, other than pay child support when I'm 20 years old.
Man I feel bad for you. It's too late now to say "You should have known better"...so all you can do now is somehow find a way to talk to her about abortions. Mention that it is half your responsibility too, since it took 2 to make her pregnant.
And, I'm sorry to tell you this, but no matter what, if she has that kid you WILL be paying child support. Whether you "continue tring to please her and support her" or whether you piss her off and she decides to take you to court. Either way, you will be paying out the ass.
I feel for you man, I do. I was just in this situation a few weeks ago.
You need to try to find a way to talk to her.
If you're really desperate, a last minute effort would be somehow finding an RU-486 pill. Which will abort a fetus up to 7 weeks and somehow slipping it into her drink. Failing that, pray for a miscarriage. Failing that, prepare to live in poverty until you're 40. Hopefully it doesn't come to that though.
I'll also mention that time is of the essence here. Don't wait because every week that passes she will grow more attached to her "Miracle baby" and less likely to abort. Also, the abortion procedures become much more expensive and invasive past 10 or 12 weeks.