Is having sex with your drunk wife a form of sexual abuse?

MatureDJ · Jul 20, 2012

Evidently this woman thinks so ...

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/...ken_sex_with_my_husband_a_form_of_abuse_.html

My husband is kind, supportive, funny, generous, smart, and loving. However, I feel like I must divorce him. Six years ago, when we were in our early 20s and had just fallen in love, after a night of partying and drinking, he woke me up in the middle of the night and started to have sex with me. I was dozing and still drunk and, yes, I took my panties off myself. But when I realized that it was not OK for him to make advances on me in my state, I pushed him away and ran out.

Mr.Positive · Jul 20, 2012

I never read these types of columns, but your post had me curious.

I must say, I was pleasantly surprised by Prudie's response. I guess I was assuming some Feminist BS. Prudie responded perfectly, imo.

Burroughs · Jul 20, 2012

'Living in terror that expressing one’s perfectly normal sexual desire could end one’s marriage, and freedom, is itself a form of abuse. Stop acting like a parody of a gender-studies course catalog and start acting like a loving wife.'

well said

the projection of fear is itself an insult and a form of abuse, the moment I feel the slightest amount of antagonism, suspicion, ill will, or contempt from a female I tell her to fvck off and I leave....I tolerate no sh!t tests of any kind at any time.

Sh!t tests lead to Sh!t nothing else.

never jump through hoops for women ever

Warrior74 · Jul 20, 2012

6 years ago? LOOOL husband is kind supportive funny loving? LOOL sounds like someone is look for an escape route outta beta husband land.

Down Low · Jul 21, 2012

Sheer rhetorical games.

Is having sex with your drunk wife a form of sexual abuse?

Eliminating the bolded equivalencies from both sides of the equation reduces the question to:

Is your drunk wife abuse[d]?

Drunkedness is drug abuse, no question there. So again eliminating the equivalents reduces the question to:

Is [it] your wife?

d!ckmojo · Jul 21, 2012

That's a very neat reduction there, Down Low. It basically answers the question: if [it] IS your wife, then no, its not sexual abuse, its a part of being married.

marmel75 · Jul 22, 2012

That dude might be the poster boy for AFCness...he wanted to turn himself in for "rape" because he banged his wife while she was drunk...get the F out of here. I would have told her, cool, next time I'll leave you here and just go find a drunk girl at the club who would love swallowing my load while she is drunk...

webpiter · Jul 23, 2012

if your hubby is kind, supportive, funny, generous, smart, and loving then why you take the decision after long 6 years ago.

mrRuckus · Aug 3, 2012

I went out with this girl and my buddies on my birthday last year. I got drunk as fvck. She had like one drink all night and drove me home at the end of the night. She came inside and I drunkenly flopped on my couch.

She undressed me and gave me a blow job.

I was sexually assaulted. What is the statute of limitations? I think I want to call this one in.

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why is "blow job" without the space censored? We can't talk about those on a male oriented board about getting laid? Weird.

Married Buried · Aug 3, 2012

What a prude. It's one thing to marry a woman who hates weed but this is ridiculous.

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