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I'm a fat girl magnet, I seriously can't stop attracting fat girls

lazikia

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I attract so many fat girls it's ridiculous. I know lots of fat girls are aggressive and assertive, so I should expect to be hit on by them, but I attract way much more fat girls than most guys do. None of my guy friends are constantly getting hit on by fat girls non-stop. I would say at least 100 fat girls have had a crush on me and at least 1,000 fat girls have hit on me. And the worst part is that most of them haven't had anything at all in common with me.

Other people have told me that I either attract so many fat girls because I'm really skinny and the fat girl wants to be skinny, thus she desires my body type. Others have said it's because I'm too nice looking and that fat girl thinks I won't be mean to her. I'm not necessarily nice to fat girls, I just have a nice guy look that I can't get rid of even if I get hundreds of tattoos.

I am tall and skinny, but I lift like crazy and eat 8 meals a day, including lots of protein. I'm not freakishly skinny but my body frame is pretty skinny, but like I said I am working on my body at least. Is there anything else I can do to keep the fatties away from me?
 

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YES! There's one BIG thing you can do to keep the fatties away if you don't want them - MAKE ME YOUR WINGMAN! Dude I love fat chicks! Well, the hot fat chicks anyway. You know, BBWs. not the ugly ones.

If you're in the OC, send me a PM, and let's see if we can wing.

If you don't live in the OC, then there's 2 things you can do (besides working out):

1. Find another wingman who's a bona-fide chubby chaser (that lucky bastard.... there's an intolerable shortage of fatties where I live)

2. Sarge the fat girls! No I'm not joking. You don't have to sex them... just sarge them until you get to the point that they introduce you to their circle of friends (they ALL have skinny friends, trust me...) and then just mack the skinny chicks. If you play your cards right, the fat chicks will think you're a cool dude and tell their friends you're the sh*t! So you already have an advantage.

In fact, fat chicks always tend to be the "mother hens" in any group of girls, they are the ones who usually kockblock and try to "protect" their friends from "player" types. If you get a fat chick on your side, she's already social proof, so you've got a much better shot at the skinnies (or the "model" types if that's what you prefer to call them... to me they're just popsicle sticks).

- Hot Ice Casanova
~the #1 Chubby Chaser in the Don Juaniverse~
 
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I've banged a few BBW's in my time and it was the best sex of my life each time. It's true, fat chicks try harder. If I was wingman, I'd take them off your hands easily. I suggest you dip your pen into their ink sometime. Sex is sex after all. :box:
 

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This often happens to men on the path.
 

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i used to have this problem.

when i used to hover around 60-70 kgs (130-154pounds) mark i noticed this a lot especially when i was getting to the low end of that range. ever since i started gymming it no fat chick has ever looked at me again. i like it that way. i would say it was around when i got to the 80kg (176 lbs) mark when i noticed no more fat chicks trying to chat me up or have a go at me.
 

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lazikia said:
Other people have told me that I either attract so many fat girls because I'm really skinny and the fat girl wants to be skinny, thus she desires my body type.
WOW...

I've never heard anything like that before in my ENTIRE LIFE.


I don't even know what to say to that.
 

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Igetit! said:
WOW...

I've never heard anything like that before in my ENTIRE LIFE.


I don't even know what to say to that.
So you disagree?
 

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Hot Ice Casanova said:
1. Find another wingman who's a bona-fide chubby chaser (that lucky bastard.... there's an intolerable shortage of fatties where I live)
The problem with this is that the fat girl is usually so adamant about going for me that doesn't even acknowledge my friends or people I'm with. It's like I'm the only guy that exists and the only one for her, even though I find her absolutely disgusting she doesn't seem to care.
 

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I think its a combination of being good BUT nice looking and not to intimidating.

Meaning, you probably are not ripped, have a nice looking face and could use some extra pounds.

Its happened to me. I think I've broken free of that phase though. Just get bigger and a little rougher looking.
 

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st_99 said:
Its happened to me. I think I've broken free of that phase though. Just get bigger and a little rougher looking.
How do I get "rougher looking"? By getting into a gangfight?
 

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I think for fat girls, skinny guys are no real threat to their ego. If you had a better body the know hotter girls would be after you. Your post reminded me of something I read in the book of pook.


What every skinny guy should know.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=60002


155

I started out around 155 pounds at 6’3 height. This meant that I was very skinny. I was also considered a nice looking guy. Women loved me being tall.

At this point, I had to deal with a lot of fat chicks hitting on me. These girls were BIG and I wanted nothing to do with them. Ugly girls also would come to me. This was me not doing anything. This was what my body was attracting all alone. If I wanted to get a cuter girl, I had to work for it.

I have problems talking to women, not because I am scared or boring, but because I sense the women think I am ‘below’ them. And the truth is that they do.

I date average women.

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Already, things have changed. The fat/ugly women still go for me but they don’t think I’m as easy. They want to enter oneitis with me. The ‘unworthy’ girls category would now all be staring at me. To the beautiful women, I’m just a typical guy. Cute girls now enjoy talking to me.

I still date average women and now some cute women

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“You are looking very good,” my older female manager told me. The fat/ugly women no longer hit on me (thank goodness!) and people (out of the blue) are asking why I don’t have a girlfriend. Average girls are beginning to stare.

I date only cute women with some very attractive ones mixed in.

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Average girls are now hitting on me. Very attractive women are checking me out. At this stage, every woman is happy to talk to me. They all secretly wonder if I’m gay.

I date more very attractive women but still have the cute ones.

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OK, when you don’t have a girlfriend at this stage, the ladies will whisper, “Is he gay?” all the time. One girl got bold about it and asked me point blankly, “Pook, you are cute and all. So why don’t you have a girlfriend?” I was stunned by her bluntness (rare among women).

Average women consider me out of their league. Cute ones try to become my ‘friend’.
I date only very attractive women. Beautiful women are still a bit of an anomalie.

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When you get to this stage, something very strange happens. All the attention and staring women gave you is gone (mostly). Ugly/Fat women will despise you as will the average women. Most girls will be scared of you (cute girls, very attractive girls)

Let me give you some examples. One Very Beautiful girl was in several of my classes. I start talking to her and she has plenty of time to leave. But she doesn’t… she stays to keep talking to me. The girls now notice me, but are a bit scared to talk and act around me.

One cute girl is like a leech to me in one of my classes. She must sit right next to me, must ‘borrow my notes’, must talk to me 20 minutes after class everyday…

One Very Beautiful woman was a fitness instructor at my gym (think ‘well muscled’ with nice strong legs (those strong thighs come in handy with her dealings with the Pook-man!)). Every time I saw this girl, she always had a ‘satellite’ boy around her. Who does she end up with? Me.

Or the ultimate example: there was a girl I was in oneitis that drove me to this webpage. As I got bigger, her reactions to me changed as well. At 155, I was ‘average’. At 175, she knew something was up. I got her at 195.

Now I date some Very Attractive women but most are Very Beautiful Women.

I know many of you guys are saying the same thing, “I get beautiful women too and I am skinny!” But the thing is, all these examples here is based on attraction on the body alone. I am NOT working to get these women. My body is doing 99% of the attracting. I can just be a statue and get a response. (But of course, you have to take action. This is based on doing zilch.)

Rather than work hard to get one woman, why not work hard on yourself and get all the women? I don’t work hard to get women, I work hard on my dreams which gets the women automatically.







http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
 

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Igetit! said:
WOW...

I've never heard anything like that before in my ENTIRE LIFE.

I don't even know what to say to that.
I'm big and tall guy. (read...a few extra pounds hahaha).

I'm a ****ing huge magnet for chicks who are 110lbs- dripping wet.

It's really weird, almost like I have a neon sign above my head that says "midget tiny girls come and get it". There isn't any game involved at all, they just run at me. I'm not bragging, I'm not up on myself, I'm just another guy trying to figure it out but it's like a curse I can't change. I like girls with curves all over as well as any other man but no matter how well I do in general they're always standoffish.

Big girls avoid me like the plague....I haven't dated a girl over 130lbs since I can even remember but it's weird, girls over that weight shut down when I talk to them but ones lighter than that are completely the opposite. They'll have junk in the trunk and the other assets but overall they're very light.

I don't bother with big girls anymore, not because they're not attractive, but because they'll start disqualifying themselves and stop any chance of something more. Something about my inner personality or looks must be causing this because it happens too frequently and consistently as well. They're also the only women who are rude to me...this is something I need to puzzle out to advance myself.
 

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Shocker..

Dude I'm really surprised by what I'm reading here. I find the opposite is true. I've put on about 30 lbs of upper body muscle since high school and as I've gotten bigger I've seen a positive correlation in the larger girls becoming more promiscuous... Not just fat girls, but bigger girls (taller thicker, like 5'10). I'm not gona lie to you I've boned some of them.

I've discussed this in depth with one of my room mates who I go to the gym with and we're convinced it's because we're bigger they feel smaller, and sexier.
 

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Are you bathing in bacon grease?

Seriously though, like 60 percent of women are overweight or obese, they're taking over. Next time you see a hot chick about to shovel a bunch of sh!t in her face make her stop for all of mankind.
 

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You've never met at least one sexy fat chick? Like Chris Rock said in reference to fat women..."there's some good pussy under this gut!" There's two or three fat women I'd fuck right now you lucky motherfucker!
 

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For those of you who are telling to have sex with a fat girl, trust me I couldn't get an erection with a fat girl. I've tried masturbating to fat girl porn in the past and I couldn't even come close to getting it up.
 

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At least you get fat girls. I only ever get hit on by gay guys!!
 

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I used to get hit on by fat girls a lot, and I'm really skinny too (although it was probably because I was shy, fat girls seem to care less if you're shy)...maybe they think you're in their league so they don't bother hitting on really attractive dudes? Or maybe it's only a small number of fat girls and even less cute girls, and you just think fat girls have a thing for you as a result....

I'm curious to know how you keep up with your 8 meals a day thing...I'm trying to eat 6 a day right now, I set alarms to go off six times a day and eat when the alarms go off. 8 meals sounds even more crazy, how do you do it without centering your whole life around constant eating?
 
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