“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bawb14

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Okay I think I already knwo the answer to this question but...

This girl I was chillen with, was fun we walked around in a park we sat in benches N like cuddled and **** and went to the mall and we layed around on all the little futton and beds and stuff, but like she DID keep mentioning her Ex, like six times and every time, "oh im sorry am I mentioning my ex too much". Now wtf is that. If that's not a "Move-On" sign, what is. Although, the breakup was recent(2 weeks) do i move on, or do i try with this girl again, she seemed to give a few IOI's and such tho. Thanks elder's,

-Bawb!:nervous:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Adam B

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Just be assertive and tell her that her ex is towards the bottom of your list of things you would like to hear about. When she starts talking about him, just yawn. Or, if you wanna be more straight forward, tell her you really don't want to hear about it.
 

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I agree with Adam. You don't have to ditch her. Tell her you don't want to talk about her ex. If she runs away you are better of without her, but I'm certain she wont. Have some other girls as options though.
 

VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Just be careful. Don't get attached or anything. Sounds like she isn't over him (meaning you're a rebound). What are the details of their break-up?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Sammo

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Chances are she is just testing you to see how you respond. No matter what you do make sure you give her no sign that you care.

Rule of thumb when chicks start talking about their ex - pretend they never said anything at all. Ignore it. She will then start questioning where she stands with you (which is a good thing). Wether she is still caught up on him or is testing you makes no difference, as always act as if she is interested and the belief ussually fulfills itself ;)

Hope that helped.
 
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