“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Online dating: ask her out in the first message

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alboh

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I haven't been on here in a very long time, but I thought I'd share one tip I've learned in the always-treacherous world of online dating. My old approach when I found a girl I liked was to message her with some questions, go back and forth a few times, then finally ask her out. But I found this incredibly boring and awkward.

Then I tried something new - asking a girl out in the first e-mail. I'll write something like Hey, you seem really interesting. We should go out for drinks sometime soon ;). Well, usually I make it a bit longer than that.

My success rate is much, much higher with this strategy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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what if she starts giving you 'i wanna know you better before meeting?' what do you think - is this pure BS or give her something and ask later again?
 
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It works as long as you have given a good enough reason for them to meet you, it's their call on whether it's good enough though.
 
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Yep, you'll get more success asking women out in the first email than waiting for a dozen or so - assuming your profile is up to scratch. But I think you'd get even more success asking them out in the third email. Too few emails = worrying for a girl, as she doesn't have a real impression of you yet. Too many emails = boring for a girl, she has loads of emails already, you're dragging it out. As usual, 'virtue is the mean between two extremes'.
 
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If a girl emails you first, its a no-brainer to reply with plans for a date.

If you email a girl first, its best to request the date after she replies.

Also, state that you are interested in meeting people in the real world on your profile. Do not waiver from this
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I decided to try out eharmony and so far It has worked descent. Setup a date for tonight and have 6 other numbers and that was just from this week. I started it up on Monday. i had to sift through a ton of women though to find the girls I wanted to take out. It's about one good women for every 5 with kids. There are good looking women on it also but majority are ugs.

I limit myself to 2 emails and it's working great. On the second email I just say send me your number and I'll give you a call. It's worked all but once so far.
 
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