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Your relationship with Yourself is the most important one you'll ever form or maintain. It may be hard for you to be 'alone' if you can't tolerate your owncompany, but the compromises/sacrifices you make just to be with someone else, may not be worth the toll it takes on you.
A healthy relationship means being equally comfortable giving and receiving. If it gives you joy and satisfaction to give to others, why would you want to deprive them of this experience? Even the tide of the ocean routinely goes out to sea, but it must come back to shore, or we'd have no beaches.
Truth involves the congruency between words and actions. If someone's always telling you how successful, talented or confident they are, maybe there's a reason they're needing to convince you of it.
You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear. If you sense early-on in a relationship, that the person you're dating doesn't meet your needs (you're frowning more than smiling), move on--and find someone who does!
You are reflexively attracted to people who match your level of emotional development. If you're bitching about your spouse or lover, you'd better take a deeper look at yourself.
Childhood experiences always predict the nature of adult relationships; show me where you are, and I'll know where you've been
Infatuation isn't about falling in love with someone else... it's about falling in love with You, under the adoring gaze of another.
So many people marry by default. They 'settle,' because they're afraid to be alone with themselves. Divorce is the antidote for disastrous choices.
"Just as nature takes every obstacle, every impediment, and works around it - turns it to its purposes, incorporates it into itself - so, too, a rational being can turn each setback into raw material and use it to achieve its goal."
I don't really believe in marriage anymore, but I just saw wedding where the couple met at Planet Fitness. You can meet women ANYWHERE
AMS: Ask for their availability(don't fail that Availability Test), put the ball in THEIR court, no feminine texts
Before you think the world is lame and bad, look In the mirror. If you think the world is good and fun, you are likely good and fun. The world is merely a reflection of who you are. If everyone thinks like this, we can create REAL change.