Your father will make your life

[GoodMan32]

Autistic and pedantic, a true double header.

I can understand women not matching with him because he LOOKS gay. Doesn't mean he IS gay. Means he doesn't LOOK like the kind of guy they're LOOKING for. Get it? Appearances?

He has good looks (and a tall height)

I don't see why his appearance would turn broads off.

I don't even think he looks gay.

 

[Manure Spherian]

FFS Charles Whitman hasn't been in the news since way before you were born. 99/100 people have no idea who that person is.

Does this even occur to you? Damn son.

BaronofHair has a way of communicating to other men here that if done offline might result in him being violently assaulted.

 

[SW15]

I think that the presence of a father in a male's life as a child has less of an effect on his ability to get pussie as compared to other variables. The individual male's looks, money, status, and personality affect if he can initially attract and retain. The presence/absence of a father in a young boy's can impact money, status, and personality into adolescence and adulthood.

I also think a lot of Baby Boomer fathers presented as married beta males to their Millennial sons. For the Millennial sons that happened to have fathers that stayed married, it actually was somewhat of a disservice. A Millennial male who gets into a relationship cannot expect the same outcome acting beta like a Boomer beta would. Many Boomer betas did get divorced.

I think it is better for young boys to have a father who is active in their lives than one often absent (either absent in a marriage due to work/other reasons or absent due to separation/breakup/divorce from the mother).

 

[Manure Spherian]

I think that the presence of a father in a male's life as a child has less of an effect on his ability to get pussie as compared to other variables. The individual male's looks, money, status, and personality affect if he can initially attract and retain. The presence/absence of a father in a young boy's can impact money, status, and personality into adolescence and adulthood.

I also think a lot of Baby Boomer fathers presented as married beta males to their Millennial sons. For the Millennial sons that happened to have fathers that stayed married, it actually was somewhat of a disservice. A Millennial male who gets into a relationship cannot expect the same outcome acting beta like a Boomer beta would. Many Boomer betas did get divorced.

I think it is better for young boys to have a father who is active in their lives than one often absent (either absent in a marriage due to work/other reasons or absent due to separation/breakup/divorce from the mother).

In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Glover goes over retarded boomer dads and their negative effects on their sons.

 

[SW15]

In No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Glover goes over retarded boomer dads and their negative effects on their sons.

As a whole, I think Boomer dads did a subpar job with their mainly Gen Y/Millennial sons. Poor Boomer parenting isn't the only reason that the Millennial generation as a whole has not done well in life.

Based on what's coming out of Generation Z, the mainly Generation X parents of Generation Z people aren't looking too good right now.

 

[plumber]

Anders Breivek and Charles Whitman dictate that this isn't entirely true

why? what is the connection?

 

[plumber]

That's an issue with your attitude. Experience should teach you not to expect to be a success if you are going to be lazy and entitled.

Pls explain yourself on this one. Don't see how your comment is helpful. Is it an attempt to insult??? Are you capable to detail your point on this?

 

[plumber]

Having just a 6 figure income in a big city in America is basically the average salary there

In addition to this, being good with girls is not something that parents can teach

The parents role is to give their children the enough “capital” to not have any drawbacks due to lack of it not to babysit them

you should be more thankful and take full responsibility for the situation that you had

once you realize this, it sounds like you should be on the right track

Who is supposed to guide and teach the kid ? Is it the neighbors, or the guys on the corner, or ? As your telling it is not the job of the parent.

 

[GoodMan32]

I think that the presence of a father in a male's life as a child has less of an effect on his ability to get pussie as compared to other variables. The individual male's looks, money, status, and personality affect if he can initially attract and retain. The presence/absence of a father in a young boy's can impact money, status, and personality into adolescence and adulthood.

I also think a lot of Baby Boomer fathers presented as married beta males to their Millennial sons. For the Millennial sons that happened to have fathers that stayed married, it actually was somewhat of a disservice. A Millennial male who gets into a relationship cannot expect the same outcome acting beta like a Boomer beta would. Many Boomer betas did get divorced.

I think it is better for young boys to have a father who is active in their lives than one often absent (either absent in a marriage due to work/other reasons or absent due to separation/breakup/divorce from the mother).

My parents were friends with this married couple where the husband is a total beta (and gets bossed around by the overbearing wife). Neither of my parents could stand the wife (and my dad hated the wife so much, he didn't want to associate with that couple at all, even though he really got along with the husband). My mom, on the other hand, insisted they remain friends with the couple (because of how enjoyable/easy to get along with the husband is)

That's one example that really turned me off from the idea of getting married. I don't want to end up like the husband from that couple. Nor do I want to end up like my dad, getting dragged by my wife to social gatherings I don't want to attend.

A few years ago, it reached the point where the wife from that couple became so intense even my mom finally agreed with my dad it's no longer worth it to remain friends with that couple. But that doesn't change the fact my dad wasted 15 years being roped into attending social gatherings he didn't want to attend.

 

[GoodMan32]

As a whole, I think Boomer dads did a subpar job with their mainly Gen Y/Millennial sons. Poor Boomer parenting isn't the only reason that the Millennial generation as a whole has not done well in life.

Based on what's coming out of Generation Z, the mainly Generation X parents of Generation Z people aren't looking too good right now.

As the progeny of parents from the older end of Gen X, it doesn't surprise me one bit the Gen Zers who were raised by the core of Gen X are turning out to be basket cases.

 

[SW15]

my dad wasted 15 years being roped into attending social gatherings he didn't want to attend.

A lot of being a married man is doing stuff in your leisure time that isn't what you as the man want to do.

Unmarried men have more freedom. Unmarried men not in relationships have the most freedom. Unmarried men in committed relationships have some freedom but can also resemble married men.

I think the younger two generations of adults (Gen Y/Millennials and Gen Z) haven't had great examples from their fathers in marriages. They've also seen a lot of divorces too.

 

[BaronOfHair]

FFS Charles Whitman hasn't been in the news since way before you were born. 99/100 people have no idea who that person is

A dearth of intellectual curiosity is flatlining The Post-Industrial West in ways Red China never imagined possible

 

[BaronOfHair]

As a whole, I think Boomer dads did a subpar job with their mainly Gen Y/Millennial sons. Poor Boomer parenting isn't the only reason that the Millennial generation as a whole has not done well in life.

Based on what's coming out of Generation Z, the mainly Generation X parents of Generation Z people aren't looking too good right now.

A larger percentage of humanity is woefully inept at whatever vocation they're engaged in. To learn that this same percentage of our species are sh-tty at raising children is less surprising than discovering that many prison inmates have been compelled to explore their sexuality, without the benefit of consent

 

[Manure Spherian]

That's because you're an autist.

The guy is not bad looking, but like you, I can tell why women would not contact him on a dating site. Though I don’t like speaking negatively about other men I don’t know, there is something weak, odd, and off putting about his face, smile, and body language. There are men who are less physically attractive but who attract women.

 

[Plinco]

Pls explain yourself on this one. Don't see how your comment is helpful. Is it an attempt to insult??? Are you capable to detail your point on this?

getting help from others results in faster improvements.

Is a true statement, assuming that the help is good, however....

yeah, but going it alone is not always fun.

It is always fun. The fact that you admitted to not having fun doing your own thing tells me that you don't enjoy your own agency. You want the work done for you, which also tells me that you are lazy and entitled.

 

[GoodMan32]

A lot of being a married man is doing stuff in your leisure time that isn't what you as the man want to do.

Unmarried men have more freedom. Unmarried men not in relationships have the most freedom. Unmarried men in committed relationships have some freedom but can also resemble married men.

I think the younger two generations of adults (Gen Y/Millennials and Gen Z) haven't had great examples from their fathers in marriages. They've also seen a lot of divorces too.

Yeah. Even though a relationship means a steady supply of cooch (and in some cases, not even that), relationships come with the downside of getting roped into stuff your girlfriend/wife makes you do.

Perhaps that's why the best sex I've ever had was the affair with the married woman. I had the best of both worlds: Steady supply of cooch with no expectation that I'd act as a husband to her (because she already had a husband)

Speaking of our generation seeing lots of divorces, I saw multiple relatives move back in with parents after a divorce (one was pushing 40; the other was pushing 50)

I've also known men over 30 outside my family who had to move back in with parents post-divorce.

These examples of people moving back home post-divorce served as additional material for my case against getting married.

 

[GoodMan32]

That's because you're an autist.
Autists are similar to psychopaths in the sense that they lack the empathy to truly look at something from another perspective.
In your case, you are unable to look at the guy from the perspective of a straight woman.

Ok, fair enough. Apparently a straight woman doesn't want to be with a man who looks gay (even if he isn't)

I get mistaken for gay. Might explain my bad luck with the ladies.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Yeah. Even though a relationship means a steady supply of cooch (and in some cases, not even that), relationships come with the downside of getting roped into stuff your girlfriend/wife makes you do.

Perhaps that's why the best sex I've ever had was the affair with the married woman. I had the best of both worlds: Steady supply of cooch with no expectation that I'd act as a husband to her (because she already had a husband)

Speaking of our generation seeing lots of divorces, I saw multiple relatives move back in with parents after a divorce (one was pushing 40; the other was pushing 50)

I've also known men over 30 outside my family who had to move back in with parents post-divorce.

These examples of people moving back home post-divorce served as additional material for my case against getting married.

What do you want then? You don’t want a girlfriend (clown marriage), you don’t want a wife, yet you say you have major issues keeping you from being a Mac Daddy. You also want no accountability for attending boring events (part of adult life, especially raising kids).

Why not just go to hookers?

 

[GoodMan32]

What do you want then? You don’t want a girlfriend (clown marriage), you don’t want a wife, yet you say you have major issues keeping you from being a Mac Daddy. You also want no accountability for attending boring events (part of adult life, especially raising kids).

Why not just go to hookers?

I want a smash-piece who genuinely desires me (the genuine desire part is one thing you don't get from prostitutes). Also, a smash-piece doesn't charge you for sex.

You're right, attending boring events is part of raising kids. There's a reason I don't have kids (many reasons for that matter)

 

[SW15]

Even though a relationship means a steady supply of cooch (and in some cases, not even that), relationships come with the downside of getting roped into stuff your girlfriend/wife makes you do.

Most men choose extended relationships because it is the easiest way for most men to get regular sex.

Many good player/pickup artist types have extended periods without sex. Notice I said the word good. More mediocre to subpar player/pickup artists have even longer droughts. That tends to weed them out of the lifestyle and into some monogamous relationship.

After a certain amount of time, frequency of sex will drop. The man will get dissatisfied in the relationship. If he's married, he will realize that he's trapped because he'd likely lose some financial assets in divorce court. He is also likely to lose time with his children if he has any.

I saw multiple relatives move back in with parents after a divorce (one was pushing 40; the other was pushing 50)

I've also known men over 30 outside my family who had to move back in with parents post-divorce.

That can happen to men after a divorce.

Unmarried, childless men 30+ can also be forced back into a home of a parent(s) due to job loss.