Glassguy
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Read that again. And again. And again.
*Chick dumps you. Resurfaces after 2 or 3 weeks and throws you bread crumbs. You bang her. You're winning....right? Wrong. She goes back to hot/cold. You're confused. How could she treat me this way? Because you told her that you would be there waiting for her when she got tired of riding Chad's dic during the 2 weeks you were "broke up". Chad got tired of her emotional mess and now she is running back to you because you let her. Guess what will happen when the next better option comes along? Thats right, she will do the same exact thing and "Need more space" again.
*You are talking to a chick and she ghosts you. A month or two later you hear from her out of the blue. You are jumping up and down with joy because she came back! Everything is good.......right? You set up a date and she flakes. So you say "How dare her flake on me!". Guess what? You taught her that you are low value when she got you re-interested again with little to no effort. You told her through your actions that YOU WOULD ASK how high if she said to jump.
YOU set the standards for how women and all other people treat you.
YOU set the tone on how you handle disrespectful behavior.
Nobody else but you.
I had a chick hmu this week after falling off the face of the earth a few months ago. I get a snap from her: "Hey whats up?". Not much I say. She goes on to ask if I deleted her on fb. "Sure did". She seemed amazed that a man would do such a thing since she sees herself as a princess.
"Listen princess, I know that you are waiting on me to ask you out for drinks again. That isnt going to happen. However, if you want to come over next weekend and hang out at my house we might be able to arrange something".
To that she went full bytch mode. Accusing me of trying to use her for sex. Well duh. She already proved she isnt dating material. She wants to get mad? Who cares. She wants to act like she deserves a dinner date? Cool......go get it from someone else.
Men- start holding these women to a higher standard in their actions and how they treat you. Do not put up with disrespect, especially from a chick that has literally done nothing for you in the beginning of the dating process. You will instantly increase your self value which is all that you can control anyways.
*Chick dumps you. Resurfaces after 2 or 3 weeks and throws you bread crumbs. You bang her. You're winning....right? Wrong. She goes back to hot/cold. You're confused. How could she treat me this way? Because you told her that you would be there waiting for her when she got tired of riding Chad's dic during the 2 weeks you were "broke up". Chad got tired of her emotional mess and now she is running back to you because you let her. Guess what will happen when the next better option comes along? Thats right, she will do the same exact thing and "Need more space" again.
*You are talking to a chick and she ghosts you. A month or two later you hear from her out of the blue. You are jumping up and down with joy because she came back! Everything is good.......right? You set up a date and she flakes. So you say "How dare her flake on me!". Guess what? You taught her that you are low value when she got you re-interested again with little to no effort. You told her through your actions that YOU WOULD ASK how high if she said to jump.
YOU set the standards for how women and all other people treat you.
YOU set the tone on how you handle disrespectful behavior.
Nobody else but you.
I had a chick hmu this week after falling off the face of the earth a few months ago. I get a snap from her: "Hey whats up?". Not much I say. She goes on to ask if I deleted her on fb. "Sure did". She seemed amazed that a man would do such a thing since she sees herself as a princess.
"Listen princess, I know that you are waiting on me to ask you out for drinks again. That isnt going to happen. However, if you want to come over next weekend and hang out at my house we might be able to arrange something".
To that she went full bytch mode. Accusing me of trying to use her for sex. Well duh. She already proved she isnt dating material. She wants to get mad? Who cares. She wants to act like she deserves a dinner date? Cool......go get it from someone else.
Men- start holding these women to a higher standard in their actions and how they treat you. Do not put up with disrespect, especially from a chick that has literally done nothing for you in the beginning of the dating process. You will instantly increase your self value which is all that you can control anyways.