That's the main difference in a nutshell between guys that are in a relationship with an attractive woman and guys that are single
When you see even just a moderately attractive woman (let's say a 6.5) that is showing you IOI's, do you think "Oh, here is my lucky break" or "Why would she be interested in me when she can have any guy?"
You need to stop this thinking right now; you have to constantly remind yourself you are a catch and "stop feeling sorry for yourself"!
Ask yourself How many guys shorter, fatter, balder and uglier did you see in the past month walking around with a cute woman on their arm while you go home with nothing? I bet you saw your fair share
I know a lot of us (myself included) like to live in the past and feel sorry for ourselves for our lack of success with women and try and wear it as a badge of honor or feel we are the victim of circumstance and throw a pity party.
Stop it! Self-pity feels good, but all it will do is feed the vicious cycle you are stuck in
You are a great catch!
When you see even just a moderately attractive woman (let's say a 6.5) that is showing you IOI's, do you think "Oh, here is my lucky break" or "Why would she be interested in me when she can have any guy?"
You need to stop this thinking right now; you have to constantly remind yourself you are a catch and "stop feeling sorry for yourself"!
Ask yourself How many guys shorter, fatter, balder and uglier did you see in the past month walking around with a cute woman on their arm while you go home with nothing? I bet you saw your fair share
I know a lot of us (myself included) like to live in the past and feel sorry for ourselves for our lack of success with women and try and wear it as a badge of honor or feel we are the victim of circumstance and throw a pity party.
Stop it! Self-pity feels good, but all it will do is feed the vicious cycle you are stuck in
You are a great catch!
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