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She went out with her work for some awards thing, texts me at 7pm she’s going out for drinks after, I text, “nice” she says she will call me when she’s leaving I text “ok”.

10.45pm I’m getting into bed so I call her, no answer, calls me straight back, she’s smashed, walking to the train station with some guy from work. I feel like telling her to fvck off but I tell her to get home safe and I hang up. She calls me back when on the train, babbling, like you know when someone is way past drunk. I tell her to get a cab home, she refuses, tells me she’s not drunk, my blood starts boiling. She tells me it was free drinks that’s why she is so drunk.

I can’t help but be disgusted. That kind of behaviour reminded me of myself 5-10 years ago. How she got so drunk in front of work colleagues is embarrassing enough, but I have my girlfriend smashed making her way home alone and then driving. I told her it’s over, she’s untrustworthy and unreliable and to not contact me again. I should have waited until she was sober maybe, I’m just fuming, this trashy low quality behaviour. She said she never goes out, I made a ****ing thread about her going out 2-3 weeks ago with her friend and texting me at 2am did I not? I should prob order her a cab, but at this point she’s made her own bed she loves to drink drive I find it selfish and disgusting.

Time to let her go finally.
 

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Yikes, sorry man. Sounds like it’s time to wash your hands of this. Seems like you know what’s acceptable and what’s not - good for you. Sorry you had to deal with that, just don’t give in after a couple weeks and take her back.
 

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Sorry to hear that. Glad you stood your ground.
 

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Murk brother, we've been over this topic many times this year.

If I would have to explain to a new member such as this Serpent girl why(most) women are like children I would be hard pressed to come up with real life examples. But when you are in a LTR with one you will be able to see the micro details clearly.

There will be many more altercations and situations that leave you baffled. A woman like this needs a white knight, who would get out of bed to drive where ever and pick her up. Other option is she immediately adjusts her behaviour, but I doubt that will happen anytime soon.

What is left at this point is the question why do you stay? You said she has some good qualities and then there's this. What outweighs what is the question; at this point is no longer a battle between you and her ,but it's a battle between Murk and Murk.
 
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That's not only irresponsible behavior for herself but it's reprehensible behavior with her blatant disregard for other people's lives she could effect if she gets in an accident and kills someone.

No joke, I would go off on her, tell her to get her sh!t together, stop being selfish by putting other people's lives at risk and tell her never contact me again.

I have absolutely no tolerance for that type of stuff. I know people who were killed by drunk drivers or had family members killed by drunk drivers. Inexcusable these days with so many options for getting home.
 

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The guy walking her to the train probably wants to bang her -- and she is aware of it.

This GF sounds like she is disrespecting you. Out late at night and drinking with other men -- does this sound acceptable to you? This is before you even get into the part about her having poor judgment and driving that drunk.

On to the next, OP. I hope you follow through and drop her.
 
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That's not only irresponsible behavior for herself but it's reprehensible behavior with her blatant disregard for other people's lives she could effect if she gets in an accident and kills someone.

No joke, I would go off on her, tell her to get her sh!t together, stop being selfish by putting other people's lives at risk and tell her never contact me again.

I have absolutely no tolerance for that type of stuff. I know people who were killed by drunk drivers or had family members killed by drunk drivers. Inexcusable these days with so many options for getting home.
She called this morning about 9 hours ago and I did go off, I told her she could kill someone with how drunk she was, she's done this multiple times. She kind of realised the severity and kept apologising, I told her she has no self control and no self discipline. I told her when she calls me drunk like that, I care for her less - I used the exact words some guy recommended on here. She didn't like that. She said she wouldn't be going out drinking if we lived together or had a kid together or were engaged - I told her I won't commit to someone who behaves like that. She didn't like that either.

I told her to stop calling me I'm busy not spoken to her since.
 

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She went out with her work for some awards thing, texts me at 7pm she’s going out for drinks after, I text, “nice” she says she will call me when she’s leaving I text “ok”.

10.45pm I’m getting into bed so I call her, no answer, calls me straight back, she’s smashed, walking to the train station with some guy from work. I feel like telling her to fvck off but I tell her to get home safe and I hang up. She calls me back when on the train, babbling, like you know when someone is way past drunk. I tell her to get a cab home, she refuses, tells me she’s not drunk, my blood starts boiling. She tells me it was free drinks that’s why she is so drunk.

I can’t help but be disgusted. That kind of behaviour reminded me of myself 5-10 years ago. How she got so drunk in front of work colleagues is embarrassing enough, but I have my girlfriend smashed making her way home alone and then driving. I told her it’s over, she’s untrustworthy and unreliable and to not contact me again. I should have waited until she was sober maybe, I’m just fuming, this trashy low quality behaviour. She said she never goes out, I made a ****ing thread about her going out 2-3 weeks ago with her friend and texting me at 2am did I not? I should prob order her a cab, but at this point she’s made her own bed she loves to drink drive I find it selfish and disgusting.

Time to let her go finally.
Went through this in my 20s. I reacted just like you in reality I should have had plates and side chics over when she was out. She likely is already getting railed man.
Either have the skin to play it back or move like you are.
I missed some golden oppertunities reacting like you did but hey its a personal choice.

"Yea babe im fine take your time, dont drive if you cant get a cab just crash at your friends"

And take advantage of having other girls around.
This is the only counter to it besides just walking away. Im a sinister prick so I shod have screwed her sister lol

The hard truth is to get better at their antics we got to learn to be indifferent to this stuff. Not in word but action.

I dont react at all. If she gets hurt or in trouble thats her problem to be quite honest. I have lived this. Play or get out thats all their is.
 

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@sarnant the forgettable 18 year old that's only here to be kind to us and learn about men... accidentally DM'ed me instead of posting in this thread;

Lmao I just saw that you broke up with your girlfriend, she probably cheated on you because you're too ugly to satisfy her. You're probably not very tall and have weak muscle mass
 

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@sarnant the forgettable 18 year old that's only here to be kind to us and learn about men... accidentally DM'ed me instead of posting in this thread;
How convenient that you forgot to mention all the swipes you made at my appearance first. How are you 33 acting like an immature high school boy? :lol: And imagine calling me forgettable. You wouldn't be able to pull me or any other hot 18 year old if your life depended on it. Good riddance, I'm putting this clown on ignore.
 
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How convenient that you forgot to mention all the swipes you made at my appearance first. How are you 33 acting like an immature high school boy? :lol: And imagine calling me forgettable. You wouldn't be able to pull me or any other hot 18 year old if your life depended on it. Good riddance, I'm putting this clown on ignore.
Sweetheart you're not hot, like Kevin Samuels said "You're average at best"
 

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She went out with her work for some awards thing, texts me at 7pm she’s going out for drinks after, I text, “nice” she says she will call me when she’s leaving I text “ok”.

10.45pm I’m getting into bed so I call her, no answer, calls me straight back, she’s smashed, walking to the train station with some guy from work. I feel like telling her to fvck off but I tell her to get home safe and I hang up. She calls me back when on the train, babbling, like you know when someone is way past drunk. I tell her to get a cab home, she refuses, tells me she’s not drunk, my blood starts boiling. She tells me it was free drinks that’s why she is so drunk.

I can’t help but be disgusted. That kind of behaviour reminded me of myself 5-10 years ago. How she got so drunk in front of work colleagues is embarrassing enough, but I have my girlfriend smashed making her way home alone and then driving. I told her it’s over, she’s untrustworthy and unreliable and to not contact me again. I should have waited until she was sober maybe, I’m just fuming, this trashy low quality behaviour. She said she never goes out, I made a ****ing thread about her going out 2-3 weeks ago with her friend and texting me at 2am did I not? I should prob order her a cab, but at this point she’s made her own bed she loves to drink drive I find it selfish and disgusting.

Time to let her go finally.
Drop her man, you deserve better. Better women will come along
 

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Sweetheart you're not hot, like Kevin Samuels said "You're average at best"
Aww are you mad that I said that you guys could never pull a girl like me? 18 years old, long tanned legs, 5'8 120 lbs and 36C. It's okay, we all have different definitions of what's hot. I just happen to be the stereotypical kind of "hot." Yours might be the chubby girl who self-identifies as curvy, short as hell, with fake long eyelashes and lip filler...
 

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Aww are you mad that I said that you guys could never pull a girl like me? 18 years old, long tanned legs, 5'8 120 lbs and 36C. It's okay, we all have different definitions of what's hot. I just happen to be the stereotypical kind of "hot." Yours might be the chubby girl who self-identifies as curvy, short as hell, with fake long eyelashes and lip filler...
Its funny that you keep stating your measurements to make us change our minds, like looking for our approval.

A "hot" girl like you should be having a lot of fun with hot guys, not being in a forum with a bunch of scrotes like us, how low you see yourself, arguing with a bunch of losers like us. Pathetic
 

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Its funny that you keep stating your measurements to make us change our minds, like looking for our approval.

A "hot" girl like you should be having a lot of fun with hot guys, not being in a forum with a bunch of scrotes like us, how low you see yourself, arguing with a bunch of losers like us. Pathetic
I am and these guys are typically 18-21, go to U of Tampa, tattoos and jacked, one of them has his own place, they're typically 6'-6'6 and get me weed and alcohol. I just thought it was entertaining to see the extent of how you and Murk are getting triggered to my reasonable posts.
 
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I am and these guys are typically 18-21, go to U of Tampa, tattoos and jacked, one of them has his own place, they're typically 6'-6'4 and get me weed and alcohol. I just thought it was entertaining to see the extent of how you and Murk are getting triggered to my reasonable posts.
You're a ****ing dweeb not a hot girl lol

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I am and these guys are typically 18-21, go to U of Tampa, tattoos and jacked, one of them has his own place, they're typically 6'-6'4 and get me weed and alcohol. I just thought it was entertaining to see the extent of how you and Murk are getting triggered to my reasonable posts.
Nice!
 

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You're a ****ing dweeb not a hot girl lol

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I'm the stereotypical version of hot, like what most guys think is hot, not your version. Like I said you and Pedrito probably think the "hottest" girl is chubby but says she's curvy, 4'10, and lil midget legs, some false eyelashes. I have a lot more flattering photos than this one it was just me and my friends. I look the thinnest in the photo which I'm proud of. And the guys I'm talking to are ten times hotter, more jacked, and probably tower over you.
 

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You're a ****ing dweeb not a hot girl lol

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She's obviously enjoying the attention, just ignore her, you know women can't stand being ignored.

Regarding your gf, I think if you continue letting slide that attitude from her, she will keep losing respect for you. Its hard to let her go, but at this point there's no other solution bro.
 
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