Master Don Juan
- Jul 27, 2003
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Crazy Asian said:my main question is: how exactly does one land into the friend zone?
waiting too long to make a move right?
but i think that's only for people who are afraid of touching the girl, and are not confident.
First of all as nearly everyone else has said, your setting yourself up for failure here due to the mentality you have regarding this girl. And yes, you are DEFINITELY elevating her character due to her looks. Just because she looks good in a pair of jeans, doesn't mean $$$$hit!
Guys end of in the friend zone for a variety of reasons:
-not getting sexual
-not capitalizing on opportunities
-afraid of disappointing her
-always answer when she calls
If she's as hot as your saying, I doubt your the only suitor for her. You need to separate yourself from the herd by showing her that she's just like any other girl. Also in her presence, flirt with other women, get them laughing and attracted to you. Social proof is your #1 tool in your assault of the beautiful woman.
Here's what you should do:
-give her tons of attention for a few minutes....then ignore her completely
-don't always sit by her in your lab class...vary the times in which you arrive to class
-don't turn into a "text friend" with her.
-tease her, flirt with her, stop saying things like "here I feel bad, do you want to sit down??" If she wanted to sit down, she'd sit down!
The funny thing about super hot girls is they just want to be treated like everyone else. However nearly every guy that comes into their life is so in "ahhhh" of their looks that they end up kissssing their @ss like they're royalty and in the process driving the girl away from them.
Finally, just because you have a few other girls your looking at or going on a few casual dates with, DOES NOT make you immune to one-itis. In my opinion you already have one-itis for this byatch. You might need to break away from her for a couple days before this gets bad.
Take control of this situation and go get what you want.
PS: Don't hide your intentions, if you want to take her out, ask her to go out, don't ask her to "study," this isn't an episode of Saved by the Bell bro.