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Would you rather screw slvts -- or get into a LTR with a loyal woman you deflowered?

What would you rather do?

  • Screw a multitude of slvts all day, every day

  • Commit to a loyal woman where you took her virginity


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logicallefty

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When a man can lock a woman down at a young age and keep the right frame so she would never dream of leaving him, that’s the ultimate winner right there. She almost needs to be scared to leave. Not quite scared but almost to that point. Taking her V card is a bonus on top of that. I think a lot of men make the same mistake that I made. Get the girl at the young age. I was 18 she was 16. Popped the cherry. Married her. But I not have a solid enough frame to keep her locked down. So she bailed.
 

pipeman84

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However in real life I'm pretty confident that taking a quick sex approach primarily weeds out low interest girls and boring ones.
and the high quality, LTR/wife material ones. :) To weed out the low interest ones is enough to follow Doc Love's 2nd date rule...no kiss by the end of second date or cheek kiss, next. But many people on this forum next if she doesn't have sex by the 2nd date:rolleyes:. It comes down to the guy having a clear intention before approaching the girl...is it with the intention of LTR (where you're very selective ie a sniper approach and where quick sex means you've misjudged her potential) or sex (where you approach almost anyone ie machine-gun approach and you're quick to next if she doesn't put out fast)
A girl who only knows about sex from the internet might end up thinking that guys are supposed to have 10 inches and last for an hour.
I don't mean Pornhub, I mean YouTube.
 

zekko

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I was 18 she was 16. Popped the cherry. Married her. But I not have a solid enough frame to keep her locked down. So she bailed.
A lot of long lasting married couples that I know have been together since high school. But it must be hard to keep her when she goes through those early 20s years when she is at peak attractiveness, and there is the big pull to go party.
 

AttackFormation

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Neither... these are both mental prisons, madonna-***** complex.
 

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and the high quality, LTR/wife material ones. :)
I don't follow the mainstream school of thought that somehow being more reluctant to have sex or being a less sexual person is a sign of quality or value. I think most people's ideal relationship has lots of wild sex in it.

I can see the logic for a guy who is very high value himself and therefore needs to test his woman to make sure she isn't a slvt for every 6 foot tall millionaire before he takes her out to an exclusive club full of them.

To weed out the low interest ones is enough to follow Doc Love's 2nd date rule...no kiss by the end of second date or cheek kiss, next. But many people on this forum next if she doesn't have sex by the 2nd date:rolleyes:
I agree with you here, I think only 2 dates is too short. But I assume the people saying that have so many dates they don't have time for girls that aren't putting out.

That rule is an interesting one, I've never heard that before but it sounds like a good tip.

It comes down to the guy having a clear intention before approaching the girl...is it with the intention of LTR (where you're very selective ie a sniper approach and where quick sex means you've misjudged her potential) or sex (where you approach almost anyone ie machine-gun approach and you're quick to next if she doesn't put out fast)
This is also pretty interesting, I've never seen it broken down like this but I see your logic. I've been doing the latter approach without even realizing this.
 

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