Women who act cold after sex...

[Iceberg]

I've had some type (oral, handjob, whatever)of sex with this girl 5 or 6 times over the past 2 or 3 weeks. So, it's obvious the girl doesn't dislike me. What's curious is she gets quiet and somewhat distant after sex. I'm thinking she assumes I only want her for the booty so she just tries not to get too attached. But that's just my own humble opinion considering I've only called her twice out of all our encounters.

Any of you guys ever experience this? What's this girl's story?

 

[b's nuts]

maybe she just wants you for the booty

 

[Iceberg]

Originally posted by b's nuts
maybe she just wants you for the booty

I don't know, man. She invited me to the shore to chill with her and some of her friends last Friday. There was no booty opportunities there, since there wasn't a shorehouse or a chance to separate ourselves from the friends....

 

[b's nuts]

hmm, maybe not then. Try and make her feel comfortable after, for my gf, i always offer her a cigarette, glass of water (which she usually needs ), and she has even commented on how comfortable she is around me after sex, and wasn't with some of her previous bf's. but yeah, try and make her feel comfortable, tell her how great she was, what ever it takes.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Maybe you aint hittin in right. You gotta put her ass to sleep. That means you need to hit it so good that she can't even *** anymore and passes out afterwards.

Handjobs....Oral....too one sided. My I like to please them first then take my pleasure out of their hides...sometimes even mutual climax if they have been good.

When you've put a woman in a state of exhaustion from nutting all of her orgasms out and she can't even do it anymore ...she will no longer be so cold but snoring instead!

 

[Iceberg]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Maybe you aint hittin in right. You gotta put her ass to sleep. That means you need to hit it so good that she can't even *** anymore and passes out afterwards.

Handjobs....Oral....too one sided. My I like to please them first then take my pleasure out of their hides...sometimes even mutual climax if they have been good.

When you've put a woman in a state of exhaustion from nutting all of her orgasms out and she can't even do it anymore ...she will no longer be so cold but snoring instead!

It ain't that either. She keeps coming back, right? Not to mention I'm quite sure she cummed(came) Saturday when I went down on her. I could feel the muscle spasms up in her pootang. She was snoring right afterwards. You know what you're talking about Player_Supreme, but I don't think you're right on this one. Do I need a girl's opinion on this?

 

[Starman]

She gets quiet and you are complaining?? what do you want her to do?? cuddle?? or talk about the direction of your relationship??

My take is if she isnt putting out the sex..she is feeling some sort of guilt after the deed..and feels ashamed of herself..

either that or she is one of those psycho chicks who have issues with sex and self esteem..is she goth? bipolar? borderline?

or last but not least..maybe she has some STD..and is afraid to tell you..

I had a girl like this..

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Iceberg
It ain't that either. She keeps coming back, right? Not to mention I'm quite sure she cummed(came) Saturday when I went down on her. I could feel the muscle spasms up in her pootang. She was snoring right afterwards. You know what you're talking about Player_Supreme, but I don't think you're right on this one. Do I need a girl's opinion on this?

Sorry, I thought I said "Maybe" your not hitting it right. Well I can't help ya...this must be some kinda relationship thingy...uhh yeah maybe the girls can help...or maybe you should just use good old fashioned communications...."baby whatsa matta"

 

[Player_Supreme]

She gets quiet and you are complaining?? what do you want her to do?? cuddle?? or talk about the direction of your relationship??

LOL

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Originally posted by Iceberg
I've had some type (oral, handjob, whatever)of sex with this girl 5 or 6 times over the past 2 or 3 weeks. So, it's obvious the girl doesn't dislike me. What's curious is she gets quiet and somewhat distant after sex. I'm thinking she assumes I only want her for the booty so she just tries not to get too attached. But that's just my own humble opinion considering I've only called her twice out of all our encounters.

Any of you guys ever experience this? What's this girl's story?

There are a few things that could be bothering her. Maybe she is feeling distant because she needs some serious attention after the s3x, like spooning and you aren't up for that. Maybe she thinks she is rushing into the s3x but she enjoys it as well, so she is confused.

There are a few things, don't be the typical guy and not say anything or just assume, talk TO HER!

If you think this chick is just a booty call, then treat it as such. No need to get into a mess with a crazy chick!

Just play and have fun, this is ONLY one broad!

M.A.C.

 

[seeVip]

Sounds like you were having plain sex or oral sex whatever. By plain I mean, without the passion, the kissing and the proper enjoyment. Normally if you do it right the girls will have a big grin on their face and want to kiss you and just after-play with you for awhile. Comon dude your a DJ you gotta make some smooth moves to make it linger in her head.

I may be wrong, but soudns to me like the ordinary wham bam thank you mam. Gotta pleasure here and keep it itense, know what i mean?