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I have to admit it crosses my mind an awful lot. Yesterday I was around a bunch of women at work and for some reason almost EVERYTHING seemed sexual to me. It's not always like that though. There are definitely other things in life besides sex, and I think if a guy can't control his impulses he has some self discipline problems.Perhaps im strange, but i don't walk around all day thinking about sex. I rarely think about it....
This is similar to a point I made in another thread about women and their multiple screaming orgasms. Do men have screaming orgasms? Not as often as women do.How many of you have seen a woman in such a horny state that it's just absurd???? (hopefully a lot of you).... How many of you have been in such a horny state that you felt it could compare to the state she was in??? (not me! i've never been in such a state that i shudder when being touched and orgasm just from being whispered too.)
Careful, bukowski, you're liable to get called a white knight for suggesting that women have sexual desires. Don't you know they only fake interest in sex in order to manipulate men?Women can experience sexual desire, and sexual ecstasy on a level I CANNOT comprehend or explain.
Perhaps it is not a linear scale.Are you guys going to sit here and tell me my desire for sex is 17Xs that of a woman????
That's a pickup theory contradiction (one of many).If you believe women don't desire sex as much as you - that is putting her desiring you sexually on a pedestal! No?
Because this is how quick sex happens. Women can Most Definitely tell if you're having sex. They react Instantaneously to seeing you, EVEN If, they've Never seen you before in their life! This happened to me yesterday after a total fvcked out weekend.zekko said:Also, if women aren't driven by sex, then what is the point of Being Sexual, of being the Sexual Guy?
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I agree and disagree:Rollo Tomassi said:
- I do agree there is a completely wrong comparison, the female sexual peak of 30ish is usually compared to the male sexual peak of 18, the latter being based on much more biological performance/fertility/being able to keep getting it up after ejaculation etc.CuriousGirl said:Also, on the "women's sexual peak at 30/40/etc" I believe that's less to do with hormones, and more to do with confidence and experience and learning about your body, being comfortable in your body and in the bedroom. That's why the age is changing/decreasing, because women are more open about sex than they used to be and much more open to masturbation, they will peak quicker because they are getting confident quicker and learning to orgasm at earlier ages etc. And it doesn't just stop at learning to orgasm, there's more and more! I've always taken 'sexual peak' to mean more than just being horny and stuff, I've been masturbating for about 5 or 6 years and I'm still learning more and more about my body and my arousal etc, and that's not even with sex so imagine how it can develop when I'm in a relationship and getting lots of sex? It's quite exciting knowing you're not at your peak and there's more to come.
You're gonna sit here and tell me a male hits his sexual peak at 18? I began mine at 12 and it stayed the same ever since. I'm ALWAYS wanting to **** something.CuriousGirl said:I agree and disagree:
- I do agree there is a completely wrong comparison, the female sexual peak of 30ish is usually compared to the male sexual peak of 18, the latter being based on much more biological performance/fertility/being able to keep getting it up after ejaculation etc.
...also I would add there's not so much of an emphasis on a man's sexual peak, when you ask someone why they would say 18 it's probably with what I just mentioned in mind and that's all.
- personally I think there is a sexual peak with women but when you ask what is the sexual peak it's different things. I firmly believe it's what I've previously mentioned, not a biological change in hormones but purely a much more experienced understanding of her body/orgasm/sex, and this gives you confidence in the bedroom and outside the bedroom.
-I think body confidence is quite an issue in sex for women, and as women become more comfortable in their own skin they let loose in sex too.
-On top of this I think it is somewhat linked in with the confidence in who you are, where you come from and where you're going in life that is again acquired by age and experience.
- I think women's sexual peak will depend on the individual and can be changeable, but generally is around the late 20s early 30s for in the former and present generations because of all of the above and particularly what I mentioned in my previous post about the open-ness of sex and masturbation. I also think for women it's got a lot to do with the development of her sexuality in relation to her confidence and the rest of her life experience.
You're only 26 though. But I think (correct me if I'm wrong) for a lot of guys it can start to go downhill in terms of amount of time you can get it up after ejaculating etc, completely biological (and different for different guys)..I think that is what a lot of people define male sexual peak as, the male body's prime for being able to have as much sex as possible (quantity over quality). Whereas a female's sexual peak is maybe more quality over quantity, it's more of a reflection of being in the prime of her life rather than the prime of her body. With the female sexual peak there's a much bigger relation to being good and confident in bed.C-quenced said:You're gonna sit here and tell me a male hits his sexual peak at 18? I began mine at 12 and it stayed the same ever since. I'm ALWAYS wanting to **** something.
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now what type of guy would you 'gals' be interestedin or attracted too? you are never too old for the 'stupid' gamesSoliCat said:...
Another point is this, someone above in one post said something about sex being less important as we get older. For a substantial number of women entering peri-menopause this could not be farther from the truth. Sad to say just as things are falling to bits/drooping/drying up etc...lol....many of us want it more than ever. Hormones are surging and we feel like randy teenage boys trapped in a middle aged woman's body...hahaha...I guess there are those of you men who might say 'oh well sucked in, bad karma for all the headaches your pretended to have', I might even agree with you there.
But I would also say that if you are at all inclined give us older girls a go and you might be surprised. Some of us have stayed in pretty good shape and at least we're past the stupid game playing. Unless it's games of the fun kind...
I agree! That relates to this: "Getting turned on overrides women's natural disgust response to sex making them more willing to do things they otherwise wouldn't."PappyS said:This thread is funny. If women were as horny as men are, we'd be living on a porn film set right now. Men and women would be copulating everywhere non-stop. The fact that men have to do all this other stuff to get laid (get game, get rich, study PUA material, acquire material status symbols like expensive cars, learn to dance, fly overseas, pay for it, get married, go on dates, etc. etc. etc.) proves the point.