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Women and anxiety

syche871

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There is absolutely an incredible explosion of anxiety issues in women. why? I'm not sure but social media has been shown to correlate with anxiety. it cost me to be a lot less aggressive than I was prior to the extreme smartphone era because the more aggressive you are the more likely you are to trigger that stuff.
It’s in their dna to be fearful and anxious which is why hey choose confident alpha males
 

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I once took steroids in the military and had to take women's fertility pills to come off the cycle. The pills have been known to make guys feel overly emotional. It mimics a woman's PMS cycle. It made me more emotional than I was used to. It wasn't anxiety at all. It's more like you feel an emotion and you dwell on it and get high off it. That's how women are. That's why they are so quick to join a mob mentality and burn someone at the stake. They feed off that emotion - whatever it is.

It could be someone coming to work late because he has family issues. The women will be quick to pounce on him and tear him a new one - until a reasonable male manager comes in and tells everyone to calm the hell down. Women actually have no character. When they see a weakness, they will dwell on it. To complain about a guy's weakness/wrongdoing is one of women's favorite times to have an emotional outburst. They love turning molehills into mountains. They get high off it. This is why apologizing never works. All you are doing is amplifying her emotions. She will be even more mad at you - as if she was high on meth. The argument will just escalate until she gets her emotional fix.

This is why women are not fit to be leaders of any kind. There's no logic behind their emotional outbursts. A guy could be recovering from the conronavirus and a female boss would say something stupid like "Well, I just finished having a baby. And I still managed to finish my work."

This is also why society should never cater to women (like America). All it does is creates outraged womanhood. Nowadays, women are outraged over EVERYTHING. Even sh1t that are completely inconsequential.

Remember guys - emotions are like meth to women. If they find some type of outlet for emotional outrage, they will take full advantage of it. They would even gather in groups to amplify that emotional outburst. They would even victimize themselves to elevate the emotions. They will never let an opportunity go to waste. And the more logic you throw at them, the louder and more emotional they get. Because women's logic is "The more outraged and emotional I get = the more right I am."

The more you understand the true nature of women and how annoying they are and can be (in a society that fosters outraged womanhood), the more you will realize romance is petty and should be a small focus in your life.

Not only does our society fail to keep outraged womanhood in check, it ENCOURAGES it.

The typical social group nowadays is an outraged woman surrounded by her simps. If you have any type of backbone, you will find yourself annoyed by how many guys support childish female behavior.

The best thing to do is always to avoid reacting. But it has nothing to do with being "alpha" and showing "strength." It's more like you are too much of an adult to participate in her childish outbursts.

It doesn't SERVE anything. A complete waste of time and energy.

Women do not want to find solutions. They want to FEEL the outrage. That in itself is the end goal. And that's why the countries that treat women like children produces the best women.

And the countries that fosters outraged womanhood produces the most toxic women.
 
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BackInTheGame78

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If you've read any of my posts, you will know I don't like blaming women for things that both men and women do equally. But the more dating I do and the more relationships I get into, the more I find that every woman I end up dating seems to have massive amounts of anxiety. I can't decide if it's just the women I attract and am drawn to, or if it's most women, or all women. We all know women are emotional creatures, so it makes sense that they are on the whole more anxious than men, but are most of them like 8+/10 anxious wrecks? Because that's what I see. I even see it in my platonic female friends.

The first purpose of my asking isn't to complain about women, but to try and figure out if I'm personally attracting them or drawn to them because if that is the case, it's something I want to address in myself.

The second purpose is to find out how those of you who have been successful with LTRs (even 3 months) deal with it successfully. Anymore, when I see anxiety and if it begins to ruin the enjoyment for me, I simply increase distance and see them less and less until we are either broken up or she is conditioned to understand that if she wants to spend time with me, she is going to have to change her attitude. But I also wonder how much communication should go along with that. I used to communicate a lot about it. These days I don't - I just find an excuse to get out and distance myself and avoid them. Not sure that's the healthiest way either, but if I had to pick between more vs less communication, I'm definitely leaning toward less. I noticed with my ex-wife as things went down-hill, NO amount of communication helped. So now I feel, why bother. I've also read a bit from David Deida on this topic - mostly relating to how to interpret the very different ways women communicate their emotions/feelings/concerns.... often they act/say one thing when what's bothering them is something else ("what she wants is not what she says"). Some of the examples he gives make a lot of sense, but I haven't seen enough examples from him to really zero-in on the pattern/mindset required to see things through that lens of clarity. So instead I default to simply distancing myself and backing away.
Yup....have noticed the same. My last GF ended up having it so bad she pushed everyone out of her life. Me, her family, friends, everyone and just shutdown like she had PTSD...problem was her ex and his trying to turn her life into a living hell and turn the kids against her. It sucked because it was the best relationship either of us ever had. Just amazing in every way. But her mind destroyed it in under a month. Crazy how fast it can creep in out of seemingly nowhere.
 

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good post. never show emotions. Be cold. Be the man. Women are smarter than 99% of men. Be the 1% of men that know how to handle women and never hand your power away.
You will have a lot of 3-6 month relationships in your life and wonder why women suddenly dump you out of the blue. Good luck with that approach.
 
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