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This is a new one for me.

How does this rate in terms of interest level? High? Medium? No big deal?

The reason this confuses me is b/c I have never had this happen. I really don't know what to think.

I'm guessing that she just wants to show off her cooking skills. I dunno..

:confused:
 
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Count yourself as a lucky boy because interest levels do not come any higher than this. (assuming you are her only guest that evening)

"Come over to my place for dinner" usually means in ******** "Come over to my place for sex - but under the pretence of having a meal first"
 
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Well it seems like your dealing with a DonJuanita.

She knows the way through your heart is trough your stomach.

My Advice: When you're at her place, sit back, relax and enjoy being seduced...
 
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You're as good as in. Make sure you compliment her on the meal, even if you don't mean it.
 
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Ok she is willing to:
1. go buy a bunch of food
2. spend hours preparing it
3. invite you into her home.
4. get dressed up to receive you in her home
a. make up/hair...at least an hour
b. clothes...and time picking what she wants to wear...even jeans.
5. wine
6. entertainment after dinner

all this and you ask about interest level? no big deal? What more do you need a brick up side ya head...with a note tied to it saying "wake up"?
 
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Yes..my point is:

To GUYS it sounds like IL can't get any higher...

To WOMEN..it might be like...

yeah..check out my cooking..no big deal...ho hum..

See what I'm saying..??

What does dinner mean in '********'?
 
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I knew a girl once..who spent all day in the kitchen making this guy dinner..he came over..and said "Im going out to get a burrito! I'll be back!"

She was in LOVE with him after that
 
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Originally posted by 8ball
Yes..my point is:

To GUYS it sounds like IL can't get any higher...

To WOMEN..it might be like...

yeah..check out my cooking..no big deal...ho hum..

See what I'm saying..??

What does dinner mean in '********'?
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It means, "Hi, I want to invite you over, you put your feet up, and I'm gonna knock you up some grub."

:D
 
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Originally posted by 8ball
Yes..my point is:

To GUYS it sounds like IL can't get any higher...

To WOMEN..it might be like...

yeah..check out my cooking..no big deal...ho hum..

See what I'm saying..??

What does dinner mean in '********'?
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it means if her toes dont curl, eyes roll back and her body doesnt shake like a paint mixer, she wont be inviting you back for dinner.
 
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I forgot to add to my post:

And if she wants to show off her cooking to YOU...what does that mean? You can't be this slow 8ball...come on man.

why would a woman want to show off her cooking if she isn't a little bit interested?

would you cook for a woman just to show off your cooking if you weren't interested?

Think back to cave man times... cave man hungry...woman cooks for brave hunter...hunter eat..say food good...woman proud...loves great hunter much....later on they zug zug....
 
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ShortyBrown is a female..correct?

She basically says: 'Come over, put your feet up & eat'.

Nothing more than that.

No big deal.

Men are WAY off on this, as I suspected.

( No offence guys. )

:p
 
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Originally posted by 8ball
ShortyBrown is a female..correct?

She basically says: 'Come over, put your feet up & eat'.

Nothing more than that.

No big deal.

Men are WAY off on this, as I suspected.

( No offence guys. )

:p
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I am definetely a girl. A girl cooking equates to a girl making an effort!! go with it. What kinda bloke turns down free food anyway? ;)
 
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I'm not turning it down.

Not by any stretch of the imagination.

I just wanted to know how it ranked according to a woman's interest.
 
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Originally posted by 8ball
I'm not turning it down.

Not by any stretch of the imagination.

I just wanted to know how it ranked according to a woman's interest.
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Oh sorry, I was only joking!!! yes it definetely means that she's more than interested :D
 
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Definite high interest level. Definitely. Possibly an invitation to sex (as Howie said) but not necessarily... (as ShortyBrown said it might just be free food)... but she is still definitely making a big effort and trying to impress you... both good signs.
 
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the way i see it. if a woman doesn't cook for her man then at some point you have to next her. this is good for you. she is someone you want to keep.
 
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high High HIGH IL!

She's putting all that effort in to someone she doesn't like ?
I don't think so!

Compliment her on the dinner... then lay her on the table and dig in, desert is served :D
 
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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Definite high interest level. Definitely. Possibly an invitation to sex (as Howie said) but not necessarily...
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You're right... sex not an absolute certaintly - but it is if she says "I'll come over to your place and cook you dinner." :cool:
 
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Dude...why does it matter? In either case you're going to accept, and I assume, go for the lay. Make sure you're sexually aggressive and persist until you're rejected hard.

"make the ho say no"

-Dan
 
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SuperMAN x has seen the light...

8Ball please.....you got to be kidding me if you dont get her signs...

Definitely her Il is high but who cares ..we are in a different ball park now....

( . )( . ) has always great advice ..one of the few real DJ's of this site listen to him

Let me just put it like this..sex that night is upto you......unless she is setting you up for games and playing games with your mind...but thats all good..

Listen to Superman...be agressive..no one cant criticize you for this..is a man instinct and she will understand even if she was a decent woman and gets insulted...WE HAVE TEH RIGHT TO ASSUME SEX UNLESS REJECTED BADLY....

Dont come with mr nice guy look.....you should be going there to eat her pvssy not her meal.....If you dont go for it you are going to look like a wuzz... Follow my advice if you like but it would do you greatly...

A Dj who has been there done that..

Tiburon
 
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