Why not being alpha isn’t a problem...

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"Why not understanding what an alpha is and is not, isn’t a problem.."

FIXT.
 
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Good advice is to give it to her every so slightly less than she needs - sex is not a bargaining chip as I can take it or leave it these days - it’s not a hold on me, if she decides no, I’ll happily have a fap. Perhaps not less than she needs, but just don’t be all on it 24/7 as it will become a chore to her and a tool of control. It’s quite empowering if she says “not in mood” then I can happily say “ok” and not be all morose about it
If you’re giving it to her right, and nailing other aspects of the relationship, she will be very receptive to a lot of sex. But it is a good note not to be on it 24/7.
Seeking sexual validation can be the demise in many relationships; this is where the tool of control and chore mindset comes in for some women.
Supply and demand. Show a need and people will hold that over another, because any need outside of oneself shows weakness and lack of an internal validating system; this speaks much to the bigger topic at hand.
 
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These are the girls that pop out a few kids and realize they hate their life and their spouse
Hahahahaha, man was that funny! really cracked me up hahahaha. Love this line :rofl:
 
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So, all the chaps I would consider “alpha” I see from my school....

Nearly all of them I see are married to women who bagged them in early 20s.

I see their profiles and see the old woman next to them.

I’m most definitely a sigma male. Not a beta butt kisser, most people who’ve known me describe me as a bit of a hermit or recluse. I’m too charming to be a weirdo, but I’ve always “marched to the beat of a different drum”

I know a few of my kind, and all of them are the same as me- with a much younger woman.

I never had the luxury of a solid reputation in my youth. Consequently, I wasn’t pinned down. I had my fair share of girls. I just wasn’t much of a social entity so I never had that girl bait social status.

So, in the long run, being too desirable can be a bad thing. Sure, those guys got the hot girl at school. Being a few notches down actually made things easier.

Western women age - a lot. A lot of the guys who ended up with women their same age. They look better than they did at 25, but their wives - Jesus. A woman at 35 just isn’t a woman at 21.

Didn't you say earlier you were fat?
 

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The word Alpha that's used in this forum is skewed, you're trying to take on traits that's naturally not yours and you'll come off as fakes.

I rather you guys use dominant, that truly reflects each and every one's potential.

Albert Einstein is a most dominant physicist.

Micheal Jackson is a dominant singer.

Martin Luther King is a dominant philosopher.

If you need to learn assertiveness etc, then just be masculine or learn masculinity traits.

Masculinity is a learned trait.
 
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you're trying to take on traits that's naturally not yours and you'll come off as fakes
Nah.

If you think of it like setting tops at certain height, and then you will see people around you - those who viiwed you in old frame, how they view you, and you treat them accordingly. Nothing is fake or phonny. The view of the would around you have changed. You shall be as you think.

Alpha is when others to you, not you for others, that's beta.

There is after all such thing is alpha.
 
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