I definitely don't recommend banging gym employees. First, it is usually easier to pick up women while they are not on the job (same goes for strippers, waitresses, bartenders, and other retail workers). However, if you can get past that and actually pick up up while they are on the clock, if things go sour (which they eventually will at some point, and often sooner than later), you'll end up having to find a new gym.I have had a multiple lays with women from the gym even during covid. Hooked up with two workers from the gym (I do not and I repeat do not recommend!)
When you're looking to approach in public, you'll quickly learn that most women will have a boyfriend/fiance/husband at any point in time. A lot of these women you won't end up approaching. The married ones you'll usually screen out with a quick glance at their hands, though sometimes this method is imperfect, especially at a gym. A lot of the ones you don't get good IOIs from are women with boyfriends and fiances when they are reasonably satisfied with the relationship. Now, Millennial (1982-1996) women are notoriously poor at signaling as compared to past generations so you're probably going to need to approach women without IOIs at some point in life. With that said, when you do get IOIs, the approach will be easier. It's just that IOIs are getting less frequent.It is a little harder because there is a lot of competition. I go to a big commercial gym and the women are unreal and a dime a dozen. I find it easiest to approach in the gym actually. No pua bs, just laid back genuine, simple talk...if they aren’t “in love” or thier boyfriend isn’t with them it’s very easy if they find you attractive.
I became a daygame focused guy in the early 2010s and I'm totally fine with approaching in the gym. I found grocery stores and gym fitness classes the easiest places to do approaches. I had a more difficult time in the mall, in bookstores, or generally on the street (college campus approaching would be the same as street approaching). Recreational walking/hiking paths are a little easier than street game.
Your fitness level matters more in gym approaching than anywhere else, though I'd make the point that your fitness level has to be high if you are pursuing elite level looking women in any venue.Step one: be in shape and good looking. (Haha)
step two: if they send you a choosing signal approach ASAP like you don’t give a sh!t who’s watching. (I’ve banged a few with literally no choosing signals at all but once I talk to them, reveal my face it’s almost always been a shoe in) (I also met this female two
Weeks ago at the gym, had a good conversation, she was complimenting me on my appearance, her body language showed attraction, she approached me! She started asking me the meaning of my tattoos, blah blah blah. I gave her my number and....she never texted me or called. It’s happens)
Step three: tell them you’d like to grab coffee or whatever you like to do and give her you number
If she texts/calls cool, if not, cool.
Just this last week I met this female with a literally hb10 body, pretty cute face, every dude in the gym just stares at her. I talk to her like Ive known her, was pretty forward, kinoed her (this may or may not work but for me it did this time) and now having coffee with her this week.
Agree fully on Step 2.
Step 3 is where I ask them specifically to do something with me and usually set a time for it. I get their number from the interaction.