Wow. Just...wow.DonJuan11 said:If you WANT something from a girl, you HAVE TO give her something IN RETURN. She is not going to give you sex because you can get to Level 4 in Grand Theft Auto, she is not going to give you sex because you know how to get free porn on the Internet, she will give it up if she GETS SOMETHING OUT OF IT. Can you make her laugh? Can you stroke her ego? Can you cook like a chef? Can you give her great sex?
You have to LOOK AT IT FROM HER POINT OF VIEW. What does a girl get to be with you? To hold your hand? to hug you? to kiss you? to give sex? She gets a guy who has NO life, NO confidence, NO passion, NO ambition, NO friends, NO money, NO personality, NO looks, but can name all the best porn stars? That is NOT A GOOD TRADE FOR HER.
You wouldn't sell your car without getting something in return for it, so why would a girl give up her body without getting something in return for it?
So sex is something "given up" from a woman to a man, and not something mutually enjoyed?
Is it also "giving up his body" if a man has sex with a woman?
And intimacy (e.g. hand-holding, kissing, etc.) is something that's traded for? What then do women overtly offer in exchange for the man's shows of intimacy?
And how does cooking prowess have anything more to do with sex than does video-game prowess? Unless one is cooking with her or playing video-games with her within a relationship of some sort, I don't see how.
Incidentally, what about homosexual relationships? Is sex something that's "given" from one particular partner to the other?