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The art of conversation is lost on this forum.

Everybody just takes turns saying what they want to say.
 

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The art of conversation is lost on this forum.

Everybody just takes turns saying what they want to say.
You're on a forum full of socially retarded bluepills (for the most part). What do you expect? Lower your expectations, Hombre.

That's a generational thing too. In 2021 I'd say most people are self absorbed, beta, autistic, low EQ. There ain't much that's too impressive out there. It's the Era we are in.
 

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You're on a forum full of socially retarded bluepills (for the most part). What do you expect? Lower your expectations, Hombre.

That's a generational thing too. In 2021 I'd say most people are self absorbed, beta, autistic, low EQ. There ain't much that's too impressive out there. It's the Era we are in.
No argument here.

The next 20 people you say Hi to, or ask how their day was, pay attention to how many of them actually reciprocate and ask something about you.

Most people, if not all, will simply answer you and start talking about themselves.
 

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Men are romantic and idealistic, women are pragmatic and realistic (like insects). Briffault's Law fellas - a woman decides, ultimately, if there's a relationship or not. If the "deal" isn't good, then she's outta there like you never existed.
If this is true (I'm sure it is, I'm just trying to understand how it works), then why are things like "don't be needy", "Be on your purpose" or even something I read recently in the DJ bible "You seek a lady for YOURSELF, you don't seek a lady for her" (Link:https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-a-don-juan.30862/ )? If what you're saying is true, wouldn't the best "deal" for a woman be a man who will devote everything to her and her offspring?
 

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A buddy of mine just called me about a problem he's having with his girlfriend. I gave him my Red pill advice, and he asks me, "How can you be such a d!ck about this? You actually want me to go ghost on her until SHE apologizes to ME?"

I said, absolutely. It's a lot more effective than you chasing after her, asking what you can do to fix things.

He's coming around. Just gonna take some time.
your advice to us is total sense , but he wont follow your advice, however he will:
1) ghost you
2) Call you a woman hater
3) unfriend you on social media.

hes enchanted by her P*ssy. She could be getting rammed by Dredd off pornhub, and he would walk in and hold her hand
 

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If this is true (I'm sure it is, I'm just trying to understand how it works), then why are things like "don't be needy", "Be on your purpose" or even something I read recently in the DJ bible "You seek a lady for YOURSELF, you don't seek a lady for her" (Link:https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-a-don-juan.30862/ )? If what you're saying is true, wouldn't the best "deal" for a woman be a man who will devote everything to her and her offspring?
Because we're men and it's written from our perspective lol...
 

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Because we're men and it's written from our perspective lol...
Yes but if there’s a better way I want to know about it. It might also explain why hot girls are seen with fat ugly or skinny guys that don’t work and have tattered clothes that I’ve seen over the years.
 

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You seem to have snapped.

You're like the friendly guy everyone likes, but now all of a sudden you've snapped, and you're holding everyone hostage in the hometown bank.

Calm down dude.
If my banter is hurting your feelings, then quit quoting my posts over and over, your not a victim, your choosing to be here, choosing to quote, choosing to be offended by ideals other than your own, it's pathetic.
 

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Mine didn't. I must be the pragmatic one. Guess I'm in touch with my feminine side. ;)
 

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If this is true (I'm sure it is, I'm just trying to understand how it works), then why are things like "don't be needy", "Be on your purpose" or even something I read recently in the DJ bible "You seek a lady for YOURSELF, you don't seek a lady for her" (Link:https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-a-don-juan.30862/ )? If what you're saying is true, wouldn't the best "deal" for a woman be a man who will devote everything to her and her offspring?
A good "deal" for a woman, when it comes to hypergamy, is a man who is better than her. So, she needs to be chasing and devoting herself to you, and you must calibrate a relationship where she is working hard to please you and keep you. She must always have a sense of dread that you could leave and find someone better than her.
 

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A good "deal" for a woman, when it comes to hypergamy, is a man who is better than her. So, she needs to be chasing and devoting herself to you, and you must calibrate a relationship where she is working hard to please you and keep you. She must always have a sense of dread that you could leave and find someone better than her.
This is cool. How do you do that?
 

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This is cool. How do you do that?
When you first meet a girl, you are displaying your value. She has to choose you. If she doesn't choose you, or she doesn't have burning desire for you, then you can't calibrate a relationship that's a good "deal" for her. When a woman chooses you then she starts pursuing you. Then you start implementing golden ratios where she is exerting more effort than you. You can then start conditioning her.

You can only do this if a woman chooses you as her man.
 

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When you first meet a girl, you are displaying your value. She has to choose you. If she doesn't choose you, or she doesn't have burning desire for you, then you can't calibrate a relationship that's a good "deal" for her. When a woman chooses you then she starts pursuing you. Then you start implementing golden ratios where she is exerting more effort than you. You can then start conditioning her.

You can only do this if a woman chooses you as her man.
Is that different than a hookup? I thought all girls are looking for a relationship tho. Like if she chooses to sleep with you she is deep down hoping you will be “her man”

oh and any good reading for how to implement golden ratios? Thanks
 

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Is that different than a hookup? I thought all girls are looking for a relationship tho. Like if she chooses to sleep with you she is deep down hoping you will be “her man”

oh and any good reading for how to implement golden ratios? Thanks
Depends on a girl's ability to pair-bond. I meet plenty of girls that I bang who don't want me for a relationship, but just want adventure sex. Basically, if a girl has already experienced deep love for a guy in her past then she's been alpha widowed and it's harder to imprint her mind. She's already been imprinted.

For a girl to really choose you and start simping for you then you have to be better than all of her previous sexual experiences. This can be difficult because nothing can really beat the first time she was blown away by a guy. If she starts to fall for you, then it will be a familiar feeling that she's experienced before and she will immediately go into comparisons, rather than losing herself in the experience. You want a girl who is going to lose herself in you.

Golden Ratios are easy. You get her doing 3 to 1. She initiates meeting 3 times, you initiate meeting 1 time. She initiates sex 3 times, you initiate 1 time. Apply it to everything. It conditions her to chase you and see you as higher value than her. Women who choose you have no issues with this golden ratio, and they actually love it. Women love being with a guy they have to chase.
 

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Depends on a girl's ability to pair-bond. I meet plenty of girls that I bang who don't want me for a relationship, but just want adventure sex. Basically, if a girl has already experienced deep love for a guy in her past then she's been alpha widowed and it's harder to imprint her mind. She's already been imprinted.

For a girl to really choose you and start simping for you then you have to be better than all of her previous sexual experiences. This can be difficult because nothing can really beat the first time she was blown away by a guy. If she starts to fall for you, then it will be a familiar feeling that she's experienced before and she will immediately go into comparisons, rather than losing herself in the experience. You want a girl who is going to lose herself in you.

Golden Ratios are easy. You get her doing 3 to 1. She initiates meeting 3 times, you initiate meeting 1 time. She initiates sex 3 times, you initiate 1 time. Apply it to everything. It conditions her to chase you and see you as higher value than her. Women who choose you have no issues with this golden ratio, and they actually love it. Women love being with a guy they have to chase.
Ok cool thank you
 

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There are 3 members of this forum who repeatedly ask one-liner questions, leading other posters to believe they genuinely want help. When, in fact, I believe they're just stay-at-home Incels who get some kind of satisfaction from watching other posters give them thoughtful answers.

I'm onto you 3, and will not be responding any more to any of your posts.
 

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Women move on quickly because they have no emotional attachment to men, the way men do to women.

Remember men, women commit to DEALS. They don't commit to other individuals. They commit to what's best for them. Look at Jennifer Lopez, 4 years with Alex Rodriguez, got engaged, families loved each other. Then in 24 hours with Ben Affleck. Why? Because he was a better DEAL for her.

If you want women, be the best deal for them. Not the best person.
I disagree with this. How is Ben Affleck a better deal when Alex is worth more money and equally as famous as Ben? Also theres tons of women that go for guys straight outta prison that have little to offer. You should know this is you are really a Bad Boy.
 

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I disagree with this. How is Ben Affleck a better deal when Alex is worth more money and equally as famous as Ben? Also theres tons of women that go for guys straight outta prison that have little to offer. You should know this is you are really a Bad Boy.
Ben has Game and he's a badboy. Girls like a guy with spikes. Also, Ben was with Jennifer first (when she was in her prime, too) so he'll always have that edge over any future guy.

Check them out in Jennifer's music video and tell me that you'd be comfortable dating Lopez knowing that Affleck was her dreamboat at one point.

 

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I disagree with this. How is Ben Affleck a better deal when Alex is worth more money and equally as famous as Ben? Also theres tons of women that go for guys straight outta prison that have little to offer. You should know this is you are really a Bad Boy.
I wouldn't read too much into celebrity hookups. Ben and Alex can each have women younger and hotter than Lopez. She probably was jilted by A-Rod and made herself available to her ex with the highest Q-score - publicly, as an ego massager. The real world is basically high school.

It should tell you all you need to know about why a girl "moves on" so quickly.
 
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