I think that's more complicated than that.
Some females are better upbringed and respect traditional/conservative values and they are a mix that I could describe as "HQ Beta" or "Domesticated Alpha" - guy that can deal with a lot of issues, has his matters under control, excels at job, can be a good provider, father, husband etc. the list goes on - these are definitely not the females that are heavily addicted to male attention and - usually - not top in the "looks" tier (but every mature guy should know that looks is not the most important aspect about female - even if subjective passing of "looks requirements"is a precondition for first several dates and eventually a relationship.
Now, there is nothing wrong in being beta - I am for sure not alpha - I am either beta or mix of beta and omega - when I was younger I was wannabe sigma but if was self-delusion as I was never that attractive, that independent and that self-sufficient.
I am also against statement that "omega males" are incels - incels are their own category (due to strong social skills deficiency due to internal or external factors) while every type of male (alpha, beta, delta, gamma, omega, sigma etc.) can bring a lot of valuable input into the society.
Now, there are sexy and smart (or relatively sexy and relatively smart - if you care too much of others opinions) females that will be interested in you irrespective of your personality type - I think there was research that stated that every person will have approx 4 to 7 persons in all his social circles during lifetime that will give him or her a clean shot for serious relationship or green lights for possibly LTR-related dating - which is a gift from Mother Nature tbh.
The issue that a lot of men & women have now is fixation on self-improvement and pursuing endless opportunities for meeting new persons (and not to be tied with the worse option too much) - the effect of this are "situationships" (relationships w/o commitment among young people) as well as various dating strategies or relationship strategies that allow at least one person in relationship to have a possibility to date (and effectively have sex) with other people.
That's also Mother Nature in work - but at some point you need to know when to stop going after unknown unicorn or prince charming and evaluate your true possibilities to attract another person - when I was 34 I finally understood already that I need to look for a person that I like and can trust (not only a person that I find hot) and I have amended my criteria and take correction and exclude my attention for the most attractive physical types as they screamed entitled and high maintenance but also heavy previous relationships baggage - the result was spectacular - not only I found great 27y old female that was much more attractive IRL than on of poor quality and resolution photos she had I have also met someone that finds me very attractive and matches me well especially with her character.
Both men and females are currently tied to this idea that they should get "the best" of the best and will not accept mediocrity - my view is that they do not understand themselves and others, they forgot what are the qualities of perfect partner and do not really understand what is the best for them - they also cannot objectively assess mediocrity.
Poor character is prevalent with physically attractive people. Same goes for entitlement, narcissistic behaviour, lack of empathy towards others, hedonistic approach to life etc.
If one says that female is 10/10 because of her looks I can only smirk and go my own way. There are very attractive people out there that are in every possible situation not a material for partners for anybody yet as a society that is swimming deep in pool of consumptionism all we are interested in are looks and money.
Sometimes I wonder how I need to raise my daughter in such a superficial and - to this extent - evil world.
I think that current culture (in particular movies) promote narcissistic and egoistic behaviours and society brought the crisis of "working man" value / "decent beta" on itself - both normal men and women were bombarded so long both by society and their parents that they need to be exceptional and something else than ordinary that it took incredibly heavy toll on whole social structure and issues people have nowadays with personal lives are just the part of larger problem.
I personally know at least two guys that have dating issues (one - connected with too high expectations Vs his objective attractiveness - other is dysfunctional but wants to perceive himself as lone wolf and tries to date with females that are totally not naturally synchronised with his type of character) I also know females that could have great guys (and at some point were objectively cool females, definitely attractive wifey materials) that choose c**k-carousel hoping to have fun and wait for a decent guy in the mean time - they now got too old and their dating pool and negative effects of c**ck carousel have taken the toll on their character - therefore now they would not even be able to date the guys they kept at "waiting line" 15 years ago.
The art of life is also about appreciating normal, standard relationships, personalities, trying to look past what's superficial, knowing when to stop chasing unrealistic expectations, knowing your limits, knowing what's objectively good and what is wrong - a lot of persons nowadays prefer illusion (in particular created with help of social medias) than reality.
