Where Do You Meet Women?

[Money & Muscle]

*Inspired by Mall Game is Dead thread*

I've never done pickup or actively approached women, but I'm running Rules of The Game because that needs to get fixed.

Between work, school, lifting, and travel - I'm left with very little time or opportunities to chat with women, which I will need to do to get over my AA/Fear of Rejection and complete the challenges. I intend to do every challenge except physically going on a date with another woman as I'm married and would rather not go that far. Flirting and getting numbers is about as far as I'll go, so save your moralizing - I'm not going to be cheating.
I'm doing this so if my marriage goes to sh*t - I won't be starting from scratch learning to talk to women in my 30s (something that I needed to know in my teens) after being zeroed out.

Anyways, where do you guys go to meet women? What's your opener?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Grocery stores are a good one...especially produce aisles...so many easy openers there...

 

[CornbreadFed]

And you wonder why your marriage is failing

 

[Money & Muscle]

And you wonder why your marriage is failing

Flirting and getting numbers is about as far as I'll go, so save your moralizing - I'm not going to be cheating.

Just for you

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I live in a city that is best viewed as a pedestrian or a cyclist, so lots of slow-moving women wandering around. Plus shops, libraries, book stores, specialty shops and tiny cafes. Outdoor terraces, parks, squares, boulevards, piers, ferries, open air theatres.

And I don't have an opener, but mostly I let them know I'm open to kinky sex and discreet.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Just for you

It’s not just morales, you just look like a complete clown right now.

 

[Money & Muscle]

It’s not just morales, you just look like a complete clown right now.

cool, so where do you meet women at?

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

For me it dance events, salsa, bachata, merengue. Its typically filled with women, women love to dance. Imagine a jacked guy like you dancing.

 

[Money & Muscle]

Imagine a jacked guy like you dancing.

Can we not do that?

I should probably learn to dance

 

[AntoniousIV]

*Inspired by Mall Game is Dead thread*

I've never done pickup or actively approached women, but I'm running Rules of The Game because that needs to get fixed.

Between work, school, lifting, and travel - I'm left with very little time or opportunities to chat with women, which I will need to do to get over my AA/Fear of Rejection and complete the challenges. I intend to do every challenge except physically going on a date with another woman as I'm married and would rather not go that far. Flirting and getting numbers is about as far as I'll go, so save your moralizing - I'm not going to be cheating.
I'm doing this so if my marriage goes to sh*t - I won't be starting from scratch learning to talk to women in my 30s (something that I needed to know in my teens) after being zeroed out.

Anyways, where do you guys go to meet women? What's your opener?

Instagram is a good place. You just setup your account and you can easily find women on there, and it's very easy to type on a phone.

 

[Money & Muscle]

Instagram is a good place. You just setup your account and you can easily find women on there, and it's very easy to type on a phone.

Oh the irony

 

[Bingo-Player]

having done over 100 approaches this year with around 80% of them resulting in either rejections or mediocre responses I can tell you if you want to successfully open a woman you either need a prop or something within the environment to play off

Bars are one of the only places where its socially acceptable to just randomly directly hit on girls

Anywhere else and you run the risk of quickly gaining the dreaded "creep" tag

Women are hyper aware of cold approach and most do not like it

Ive done a lot of gym approaches this year and my best ones have revolved around asking genuine questions

 

[SW15]

where do you guys go to meet women? What's your opener?

Over the years, I have used nearly every traditional daygame venue possible. I've used nightlife venues, dance classes, Meetup.com groups, and co-ed sports leagues.

I generally use an observational opener and go from there. In nightlife venues, I have used the standard opener from Roosh's "Bang" book.

If your avatar is your physique, you won't need to do much. You could do well on the swipe apps and on Instagram. In real life, I would recommend focusing on gyms and fitness classes. That would play to your strengths.

 

[obelisk]

What about timing for venues like malls? Do you find women more receptive during periods when it's busier or slower times of the day with less crowds?

 

[The Duke]

@Money & Muscle

You were very concerned about your wife was using Instagram to talk to some guy from, yet you are going out to hit on girls and collect phone numbers. (just for practice)

Do you plan on handing your phone to your wife when she suspects you of doing something you shouldn't be? What's fair is fair, right? Your wife didn't have a problem handing her phone over to you.

Morals aside, you talk out both sides of your mouth and contradict yourself. Do you realize that?

You will struggle with any woman until you improve whats inside. Compensating for your deficiencies by spending time in the gym won't get you there.

You fear your wife is cheating on you. You fear you won't have any pu$$y when your wife leaves you. Stop living in fear, work on strengthening your frame.

 

[Money & Muscle]

If your avatar is your physique, you won't need to do much.

it is. I've been approached by multiple women... and men lol. I've noticed IOIs where I'd never really gotten them before looking like this.

In real life, I would recommend focusing on gyms and fitness classes. That would play to your strengths.

It wouldn't be weird to approach and get rejected a woman in a gym where I frequent? Asking honestly. I've seriously only ever approached like 3 girls and IDK if calling it an "approach" is an accurate term for it.

 

[Money & Muscle]

You were very concerned about your wife was using Instagram to talk to some guy from, yet you are going out to hit on girls and collect phone numbers. (just for practice)

This is accurate. I didn't think my wife was doing anything shady on IG and if I'd discovered anything along those lines - I would not have kept her around.

Do you plan on handing your phone to your wife when she suspects you of doing something you shouldn't be? What's fair is fair, right? Your wife didn't have a problem handing her phone over to you.

If my marriage goes to sh*t, I would like to be prepared to handle life outside of marriage. Is that unreasonable?

I also have a very serious aversion to rejection that I need to get over if I'm ever to raise a son to be the kind of man this world needs.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

It wouldn't be weird to approach and get rejected a woman in a gym where I frequent? Asking honestly. I've seriously only ever approached like 3 girls and IDK if calling it an "approach" is an accurate term for it.

Yes, it would be weird to do that in the gym where they know you. Better get a second 'Game Gym' where you train to pick up women.

If you are already member of Gym A, sometimes Gym B will let you train for free if you hint that you might want to change gyms. That way, you can check out multiple gyms without leaving a financial paper trail for your wife to find.

Bonus: you can use the 'I'm looking to change gyms' also to chat up women at the gym. "You look like a regular here, would you recommend this gym to me?"

 

[Money & Muscle]

Yes, it would be weird to do that in the gym where they know you. Better get a second 'Game Gym' where you train to pick up women.

If you are already member of Gym A, sometimes Gym B will let you train for free if you hint that you might want to change gyms. That way, you can check out multiple gyms without leaving a financial paper trail for your wife to find.

I already have 2 gym member ships and my wife only ever goes to one of them (sometimes). I could do this in the one she doesn't go to, but that is also the gym I train in more... feck.

I may just game during the random days I go at non-standard times so I see a different crowd.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I may just game during the random days I go at non-standard times so I see a different crowd.

Or you can learn to game more subtly, so they don't think you're on the prowl, but just a warm and friendly regular.