When Your Wife Lies to You...

[Money & Muscle]

When women are considering thoughts of checking out, they display behavior similar to what your wife has done.

Their wives kept using an IG account that they agreed to deleting, for the sole purpose of homeschooling resources for their children?

 

[Ricky]

Here's the hard truth about women. And this is not some "red pill" dogma or "guru" wisdom. It's based on years of life experience and observing the experiences of other people.

A woman will only respect you if she's afraid of losing you. Full stop, end of story. The moment she senses she has the upper hand in the relationship, respect goes out the window never to return again. This is why marriage is a bad idea in general. It's a financial trap (unless you're a deadbeat with nothing to lose).

Alot of truth to thisZ Most guys give women the upper hand already while dating. Once women sense that they either breakup with him or begrudgingly marry him because they are a beta provider or their egg timer is going on.

 

[All_Kindz_Of_Gainz]

You won’t have trouble finding him, he will be holding her hand as she delivers that king into the world. They start a new family and forget you exist, you name becomes a distant memory. An inside family joke they tell for generations. Your ex wife’s vag is now moulded in the shape of Tyrone. They live happily in your home surviving solely on your alimony.

Wtf man, you used to be cool

 

[Money & Muscle]

Alot of truth to thisZ Most guys give women the upper hand already while dating. Once women sense that they either breakup with him or begrudgingly marry him because they are a beta provider or their egg timer is going on.

I married my wife when I was making 15k yearly and she was 24. Not quite sold on the "beta provider" function or "egg timer" argument.

I'm not saying those things don't exist. They do - in spades - it's just not accurate for my situation. As my income increased, so did my looks.

 

[soulforge]

Here is one thing to consider going forward.... telling a woman you would consider divorcing her, kicking her out, etc. will shake her foundation. There will be cracks. It will improve her behavior for the short term but also cause some mental instability and anxiety. Her (half logical at best) hamster brain won't convince herself that she needs to be accountable for her issues. She will question your commitment and try and put this on you and make it something it's not. Standard female operating procedure.

That insecurity often will have her

Wtf man, you used to be cool

Break ups or being at the verge of a break up is a a pretty traumtic experience

Wtf man, you used to be cool

Honestly man, young men come on SS for guidance and advice.

Some of these dudes are clueless, blue pilled and at the brink of giving up, traumatised by a break up.

I don't understand how some men will literally go out of his way to massively increase his trauma by making these nasty comments.

 

[Money & Muscle]

don't understand how some men will literally go out of his way to massively increase his trauma by making these nasty comments.

Most perpetrators of sexual assault were once victims of sexual assault themselves.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Most perpetrators of sexual assault were once victims of sexual assault themselves.

Actually, most perps of sexual assault used to be 'abused' in their childhood. However, the abuse was, in most cases, not sexual but humiliating beatings et cetera. Something that lowered their self esteem to where they start assaulting women sexually as adolescents/adults to feel power over them. Men who were sexually assaulted in their childhood were mostly raped by males, while their sexual assault turns to women, sometimes because their mothers didn't protect them (or joined in the abuse).

 

[Money & Muscle]

Actually, most perps of sexual assault used to be 'abused' in their childhood. However, the abuse was, in most cases, not sexual but humiliating beatings et cetera. Something that lowered their self esteem to where they start assaulting women sexually as adolescents/adults to feel power over them. Men who were sexually assaulted in their childhood were mostly raped by males, while their sexual assault turns to women, sometimes because their mothers didn't protect them (or joined in the abuse).

I feel bad for @Murk

 

[stringpuller]

It would be very hard to tell what color the baby is in 6 months when she's not pregnant now.

But hey, maybe you're right! If a black baby pops out of that woman - i hope she can find the father because I'll be gone before they cut the umbilical cord.

Ill admit that black skin and green eyes would be cool though.

Green eye olive skin hotties are pretty rare in women these days

 

[stringpuller]

Wtf man, you used to be cool

There is some truth to what he is sayin

 

[Murk]

Ok my delivery was off, I apologise if I caused offence, I find most people posting these kind of BS threads need a wake up call, but like others have said, there is truth in what I posted. I guess going to the lengths of marking your body forever, for me personally, is a big deal.

Wtf man, you used to be cool

I've never been cool.

 

[Money & Muscle]

I find most people posting these kind of BS threads need a wake up call

I understand why you thought I might fit that bill; most people do. My wife has never given me any signals of infidelity, nor has she ever really had an opportunity to - for one reason or another. Maybe she's just extremely good at hiding it, or maybe she's actually been faithful. From my perspective (or that of anyone else in my hypothetical shoes), assuming the latter is the only way to retain sanity and keep your marriage. Now if there were signs of infidelity, that would be reason to investigate.

As I said before, my wife freely gives her phone to me and had answers to every question I asked. She looked scared and answered without hesitation; she's also d*mn near reset the way she acts around me since this event, though it hasn't been very long so more time is needed.

None of these can disprove infidelity, but if there are 0 signs of it, and I treat her as if she's cheated on me - what kind of person does that make me? At any rate, if she's cheating on me - I'm still getting laid like tile and improving my SMV. Wouldn't be terribly difficult to next her.

I guess going to the lengths of marking your body forever, for me personally, is a big deal.

I agree. I would also say that the ring tattoo has not deterred IOIs from other women; if anything, it's increased them.
Would I do it again? Maybe, maybe not. I don't regret getting it, but I would not have done so with an ultimatum, in hindsight.

 

[Pierce.Manhammer]

This is true, to the point where when I first divorced I’d still wear my ring out, when I didn’t care whether or not something occurred that night. Yet it often did…

I would also say that the ring tattoo has not deterred IOIs from other women; if anything, it's increased them.
Would I do it again? Maybe, maybe not. I don't regret getting it, but I would not have done so with an ultimatum, in hindsight.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

This is true, to the point where when I first divorced I’d still wear my ring out, when I didn’t care whether or not something occurred that night. Yet it often did…

There's plenty of women with commitment issues who go after married men who won't start pressing the boyfriend button.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

There's plenty of women with commitment issues who go after married men who won't start pressing the boyfriend button.

They can be recognised by remarks like "I love d1ck, it's just such a shame d1ck often comes with an arsehole attached."