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Pan87

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And I could say you are coming from the classic extreme Red Pill mindset that wants to see everything in black and white. If you need that to process your relationships with females, then that is fine. Calling me "purple pill" doesn't change anything that I said. Some of the best DJs on here have pursued exclusive relationships after becoming red pilled. That is neither here nor there, but this idea that you suddenly are "weak" because you are in an LTR is just plain silly.

You have a tendency to compartmentalize/label things so you can write them off and not respond to the merits. You're better than that. For the record I think you give good advice on here -- but on this we will have to agree to disagree.
I am an extreme RedPill in that I pursue the objective Truth to the extreme. I am a radical truth teller.

RedPill is not seeing things in black and white. It is about removing any subjectivity and idealism. Remove dreams of how you hope the world should be, and instead stare squarely into the realities of life and female nature no matter how bitter it tastes.

You gotta be brave. The Truth is a lonely warrior.
 

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Guys sh1t test each other all the time. It's called busting your balls.
the response is to either ignore or confront. never to cry and beg.
 

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Okay, but what do you do when the chick starts to get tired of you not committing? You know, she's dropped hints, she's asked for it several times, and maybe she even gives you an ultimatum....

"Family Man, I really care about you, but I can't wait around forever. I want a commitment. If you can't give it to me, I'm leaving."

What to do?
more to that question.

- does she want kids with you.
- does she want status of married for image.
- does she want to be with you no matter what.
- does she work outside the house.
- how long is she exclusive.
- will you be happy if she is the only one AND she stays loyal, if you care.
- are you exclusive to her or spinning other plates.

probably other questions also.

The ultimatum is an issue, and what does that mean. Is it from control or fear or something else?

If you know the answers to such questions, your response will become clear to you.
 

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Women are hormonal creatures. pms week anything you did or didn't do will be used against you. Best to be supportive if cohabiting or busy if not. I don't think all bad behaviour can be put down to shiat testing

Re OP I'm afraid from very long experience if it feels shaky it means it's over. Hide cash work on yourself and pull the pin.
 

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How would you handle it?
This is how I did it. Buy small digital audio recorder. They make them the size of a USB stick. next you need to put it someplace and record something "interesting" happening while you aren't around. I taped mine under the passenger seat of the family car.

Next you listen to the footage. This is the hard part. brace yourself!
 
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