when you're on a date and she asks u if you're seeing anyone else or have a gf.. what should you say?
if you're evasive she'll take it as a bad sign that you are.. if you say you are then she feels like she isn't special then won't see you. it's like a lose lose situation. what is the best response for this?
Hey man,why are you on the defensive? You make it seem as if she has you backed into a corner with no way out,or as you put it,in a lose-lose situation.
It's as if you're at a police station in a smoke filled room with two detectives standing over you interogating you,asking you question after question trying to get you to crack and confess something.
Jump up out of that chair and throw her into it. Turn the tables on her. Get out of her frame and suck her into yours. Start asking her some questions.Let me give you a example of what to do if she asks you if you seeing someone:
Her: Hey,are you seeing anyone else right now?
You: Wooah,Wooah,hold up a second. Ain't that a bit personal? I mean this is just a first date. I don't even know you yet,and you're ALREADY
talking about relationships? If you want to go there,alright cool,let's go there. Are YOU seeing anybody right now? Are YOU in a relationship with somebody?
What,are you feeling guilty or something?
That's all you have to do. Flip it around on her. Instead of you being with your back against the wall with no way out,put it on her. Maybe then she'll shut up about serious relationship topics and just enjoy the date.