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When do you go down (on her) ??

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Just curious to what your responses may be...

So let me start this off:

I will only go down on a girl if she is extremely gorgeous or we have been together for a while.

I know some guys love it, some hate it...I am not crazy about it though just about every girl i have been with is shaved so I have not had to deal with the jungle.

If I do decide to go down on the girl i do like to use my finger(s) and tounge.

Though I will accept (any try get) head as soon as offered.
 

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i love to go down on my girlfriend, but i'd like to lick a blondie's bush:)
 

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I love going down on girls i use fingers and tounge. Most of the time they have there first orgasm 5 min in. As for what kind of girls they have to:
-Be hot
-Be shaved
-Smell nice and be clean
-Not had sex for the past 48 hours

I learnt my technique off a porn magazine and it has never failed its great as foreplay PLUS once you give a girl good head she will give you the best sex of your life ;)
 

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
First off the girl must be hot as hell.

Second she must be completely shaved.

And she must give me head before even thinking about me goin' down on her... I've only done it to two girls. My recent X and this girl from 4 years ago.
aaaah...from the mouth of babes...twice?...

you will learn that it is much wiser to go down on HER first, and do a fantastic job! 1) it tells her that you want to please her first, and 2) if she has any sense about her, and she WANTS more of the oral, she will do a great job on you.

guys that want the oral first are perceived as "selfish" in bed. that's the last thing you want, you want to be perceived as a "giver". she will give back. if she doesn't look for someone else.

Puzzy Eating 101--Step by Step For The Younger Cats :)
yeah, use the fingers, tongue, and everything else. make out with her thighs...both of them...brush your face and lips across her puzzy and breath hard on it (she will flip out)...rub it back and forth with all four fingers flat on it, and in small circles. work on the thighs some more...really work the thighs! when she starts squirming and the puzzy and hips start moving TO YOUR FACE, begging for the tongue, THEN go for it. she's ready at that point, and so are you! make sure it's really really wet and messy.

a hot trick that always gets them...when she's looking at you and you are down there with the tongue, spread it out a little bit, and dump a big gob of saliva right on it...right on the top of it...let it drip down, then lick all the way up, from bottom to top, and just hit the cl!t. make sure she sees this. just say to her, "watch this". and do it two or three more times.

when she starts really moaning and groaning with the cl!t action and grooving her hips, DO NOT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING. keep it going until she flips out, or when she cracks your head like a walnut. after she comes, just make out with it while she's coming down--you gotta bring her down properly because chicks' orgasams are long--even after she's had a jolting orgasm, she's still having it. pull on her lips with your lips, suck on it, kiss it, tongue it, rub it, lick it.

basically, seduce her puzzy. gotta be patient. most guys just dive right in. bad move since a woman has to get warmed up. worse move is to dive right onto the cl!t...most likely you're gonna hurt her.

you give a chick oral the right way, and she will never leave you. :) trust me, i've broken up with chicks, only to have them come back later for the oral action. 1) either she will brag to all of her friends about how awesome your oral skills are, and you will get an awesome "rep" or 2) she will tell no one because she wants you all to herself. either way, you win.

especially so with older chicks, since they know what good oral is and isn't. very few guys know how to eat puzzy the right way because most guys don't really really love it. this is probably the number one complaint for women about men's sexual "skills". most dudes say they're so great at it, but few are.

and if you're still having problems, get yourself some hot lezbo porn and take notes. lezbo's know how to eat puzzy! duh. why do you think a lot of women are bi? they're fed up with lame ass dudes.

happy munching! :)

ps: why are they censoring "cl!t"?
 
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ive never gone down on a girl.
 

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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
you will learn that it is much wiser to go down on HER first, and do a fantastic job! 1) it tells her that you want to please her first, and 2) if she has any sense about her, and she WANTS more of the oral, she will do a great job on you.

guys that want the oral first are perceived as "selfish" in bed. that's the last thing you want, you want to be perceived as a "giver". she will give back. if she doesn't look for someone else.

Puzzy Eating 101--Step by Step For The Younger Cats :)
yeah, use the fingers, tongue, and everything else. make out with her thighs...both of them...brush your face and lips across her puzzy and breath hard on it (she will flip out)...rub it back and forth with all four fingers flat on it, and in small circles. work on the thighs some more...really work the thighs! when she starts squirming and the puzzy and hips start moving TO YOUR FACE, begging for the tongue, THEN go for it. she's ready at that point, and so are you! make sure it's really really wet and messy.

a hot trick that always gets them...when she's looking at you and you are down there with the tongue, spread it out a little bit, and dump a big gob of saliva right on it...right on the top of it...let it drip down, then lick all the way up, from bottom to top, and just hit the cl!t. make sure she sees this. just say to her, "watch this". and do it two or three more times.

when she starts really moaning and groaning with the cl!t action and grooving her hips, DO NOT STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING. keep it going until she flips out, or when she cracks your head like a walnut. after she comes, just make out with it while she's coming down--you gotta bring her down properly because chicks' orgasams are long--even after she's had a jolting orgasm, she's still having it. pull on her lips with your lips, suck on it, kiss it, tongue it, rub it, lick it.

basically, seduce her puzzy. gotta be patient. most guys just dive right in. bad move since a woman has to get warmed up. worse move is to dive right onto the cl!t...most likely you're gonna hurt her.

you give a chick oral the right way, and she will never leave you. :) trust me, i've broken up with chicks, only to have them come back later for the oral action. 1) either she will brag to all of her friends about how awesome your oral skills are, and you will get an awesome "rep" or 2) she will tell no one because she wants you all to herself. either way, you win.

especially so with older chicks, since they know what good oral is and isn't. very few guys know how to eat puzzy the right way because most guys don't really really love it. this is probably the number one complaint for women about men's sexual "skills". most dudes say they're so great at it, but few are.

and if you're still having problems, get yourself some hot lezbo porn and take notes. lezbo's know how to eat puzzy! duh. why do you think a lot of women are bi? they're fed up with lame ass dudes.

happy munching! :)

ps: why are they censoring "cl!t"?
A-FVCKING-MAZING ULRICK!

very nice post...now only if you have some pictures to follow the step by step of it...:D :D
 

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When she says "I'm not ****ing you tonight."

Works like a charm.
 

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Each to his own, but I'd never go down on a b!tch I just met. Nor will I go down on a girl I don't plan on staying with. I give my gf oral sex all the time, but that's because I know she's clean.

I linked an article bellow that sums up 61 medical studies, and some of the highlights include:

19 of the 41 of syphillis. patients only engaged in oral sex.
11 of the 42 guys with gonorrhea only form of sexual contact was the oral sex they gave to their girls.

Herpes:

The practice of oral sex appears to be changing who has
what type of herpes. Persons performing oral sex can
transmit either HSV-1 or HSV-2 to susceptible (ie, nonimmune)
partners if they are shedding virus. Conversely,
persons performing oral sex may be exposed to either
HSV-1 or HSV-2 if their partner is shedding and they
are susceptible. New infections acquired in this manner
may be either genital or oral/pharyngeal. Of STD clinic
attendees in Seattle with positive HSV cultures,
those who had experienced receptive oral sex during
the preceding two months were 3 times more likely (OR 2.8, 95% CI 1.9-4.3) to have HSV-1 than HSV-2
infections.
HIV (there's actually a huge page on this, but I didn't want to link the whole thing), here's one interesting part:

Spitzer and Weiner reported a 60
year-old diabetic male with erectile dysfunction and new onset
HIV infection. His only sexual contact besides his HIV (-) wife was
a single prostitute whom he visited over a two-year period; only
receptive and active oral sex was performed during these
liaisons.
The link: http://www.medinstitute.org/Spring 2003.pdf#search='oral%20sex%20stds'

My whole point is, if I don't know her well enough to f*ck her without a condom, I don't go down on her. Guys who go down on every girl that they just met are just asking for diseases.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter




19 of the 41 of syphillis. patients only engaged in oral sex.
11 of the 42 guys with gonorrhea only form of sexual contact was the oral sex they gave to their girls.

were the other 22/41, and 31/42 people engaged in sexual intercourse???

but yes you do bring up a valuable point.

My guess though is that out of the 20 total people from the 2 stats from above most were women. I can't give you any statatistics but women are much more likely to go down on a guy then vice-verse.
 

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What do you say to a girl if you're hooking up with her and she wants you to go down on her, but you don't, without it being awkward? It may be especially weird if she's already given you head. And I mean something other than just "no" when I'm wondering what to say.
 

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she would have to be super super hot, and shaved. I agree with the others.
 

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sounds like all you young guys are pretty much discouraged by it, as though it were a chore. if you don't get good at it, you will be lumped together with all of the lame dudes that mid twenties and older chicks talk about--endlessly. all's cool though, younger chicks don't really understand it, and many don't enjoy it too much either.

in due course.
 

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I wouldn't do it on a slut, or girl I just picked up. If I know the girl's innocent then yeah. Also the girl has to be clean overall.. you know a CLEAN girl when you see one.
 

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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
sounds like all you young guys are pretty much discouraged by it, as though it were a chore. if you don't get good at it, you will be lumped together with all of the lame dudes that mid twenties and older chicks talk about--endlessly. all's cool though, younger chicks don't really understand it, and many don't enjoy it too much either.

in due course.
I'm not discouraged by it nor do I think it's a chore. Like I said, I eat my GF out all the time.

I just refuse to do it for some broad I just met. I'm not desperate to impress to the point I'll risk my health with some girl who I prolly wouldn't wanna stay longer with then 2-3 weeks anyway. I've read some of your posts in the Mature Man Ulrick, and from the way you talk, you seem to be really into the online field. I hope you're not going down on every girl you meet online, lol. Some of those girls have passed around more often then a basketball in Steve Nash's hands. If that's how you wanna live your life, do what makes you happy, just make sure you're getting tested.

Also man, while your tip is right on the spot, it looks like a copy and paste off some sex website people can find through google. You are hyping cunnilingus to be some near impossible task, when it really isn't. If a girl likes being eaten out, and is comfortable with you, giving her a ****oral O is easy. From my experiance, it's 20% technique, 80% psychological.

Which is the reason I assume most guys go down right away on girls they just met. They feel more confident that they can give her a ****oral one over a vaginal one, and just want to make a good impression on their first night with the broad. It's not worth putting your health at risk over man. If you can give her several vaginals on your first night with her, she wont even notice that you didn't eat her out and you'll be protected. You can save the oral for girls you know are clean.
 

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For something so easy to be good at and put you at the top of her list in terms of best lovers she'd had.

You younger guys really do make it sound like a chore.

Stop fvcking wingeing about it and learn to love it and be good at it so us older men have to stop making you young guys look bad.

Ive been a pvssy muncher since i was 15
 

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Originally posted by nw1512
For something so easy to be good at and put you at the top of her list in terms of best lovers she'd had.

You younger guys really do make it sound like a chore.

Stop fvcking wingeing about it and learn to love it and be good at it so us older men have to stop making you young guys look bad.

Ive been a pvssy muncher since i was 15
Is this another Ulrick username? If not, you're 24 man, why are you talking like you're 40 with all that "us older men" sh!t lol?
 

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trust me mate theres a huge difference in experience between 25 and 18
 

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Of course there is, but there is a difference between being 24 and being 40. No need to get defensive, I just made a joke about the whole "us older men" part. Since when is 24 considered an old man? I'm 26 and I don't see myself as an older man yet lol.

All I'm saying is, just act your age, no need to pretend to be something you're not bro.

Peace.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
Is this another Ulrick username? If not, you're 24 man, why are you talking like you're 40 with all that "us older men" sh!t lol?
say what? you have no business accusing me of using another username, such as your POSER_SUPREME hero frequently does.

MoM, your posts and replies have a POSER vibe about them, and thus have become distasteful.

congratulations. you are amongst the very few that is on my ignore list.
 
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