yellowspeed
Don Juan
Ok, go easy on me guys, I really need some constructive criticism here.
Well the week before last, on Mon., me and two of my friends went into a resturaunt to have dinner before we started a 3 day evening class. I was not looking to meet anyone, just have dinner. Well we go in and wait to be seated by the hostess who is an easy 9 maybe a 10, freakin HOT, one of those girls I'd never think of approaching, but only admire from afar.
That Tues. we go back again, partially cause the foods good and we can drewl over her again. Well one of my friends happens to know our waitress this night pretty good and asks her if she would mention him to the hostess. She does this and comes back a few minutes later and says she just giggled. We all laughed and finished our dinner.
On our way out, one of the other waitresses runs up to me and hands me a piece of paper with the hostesses phone # and name on it
, and says "I think she wanted me to give this to YOU." I have NEVER gotten a phone # from a girl this hot especially without asking for it, in my life! This should have been my 1st clue this was not what was not going to go the way I wanted it. If it's to good to be true, it probably is.
Well later in the car we are all thinking that the waitress must have made a mistake and given it to the wrong person, after all I never asked for it. So my friend calls his waitress friend to find out and she says yep it's for me alright. Well I'm just high as kite now! I can't believe I got a # from a girl this hot just by sitting there!
So I plan on waiting the mandatory 48 hrs before calling cause I definatly don't want to ef this up, but that Wed. my friends decide on going back a second time, I'm just along for the ride so I have to go.
This time she is our waitress so I think "what the hell" I don't want to just ignore her so I invite her to sit with us so we can talk but shes busy and declines. I can understand that but the whole time we're there shes smiling at me (she has the prettiest smile) and and both me and my friends definatly caught her staring at me a few times, very obvious, not waitress stuff. We're about to leave and I wave bye to her and she gives me that gorgeus smile again and waves.
The next day, Thurs, I decide it's time to give her a call. When she answers she sounds very excited that I had called but she was just headed to work so she had to go, but she asked if I was coming in that night to have dinner. I told her I couldn't, I had to work also, so she tells me to call her the next day, Fri, at a specific time.
I call her Fri and talked to her for a few minutes. Basicaly I was asking her things about her but it was ruff cause she seemed like she was the shy quiet type, like me which I was attempting to overcome and doing pretty damn well since I was the one asking her the questions but still there was a few akward dead air moments, but nothing major. I was just trying to think of things to ask her. The convo only lasted for about 5 min, I never got a chance to ask her out because her mom interrupted. Thats OK I'll call her again some other time.
I waited till Tues of the following week to call her and this time I was going to set something up, but she wasn't home so I left my name and # with her mom to have her give me a call.
Come Wed night she still had not returned my call so decided to pop in to have dinner with my friend who originally asked her. when we step in she sees me and immediatly gives me that killer smile again. She again is our waitress so I figure I'll take this oppurtunity to ask her out in person. so when she asks for my order i asked her if she wanted to go out. I can't remember exactly what I said but I thought it was pretty damn smooth. All I got was that damn "ahhhh" noise girls do when they see a baby or a kitten or something. Never did get a yes or no, I thought she maybe shy with me asking her in the middle of the restuarant and my buddy sitting there so I told her to think about that order or something like that. When we leave, I'm stepping out the door when my buddy taps me on the shoulder and tells me shes waving at me. when I turn around shes waving bye and giving me that damn smile again. So now we're outside and me and my friend come up with an idea I now think was probably the most retarded thing I've done. We go over to the gas station next door and buy on of those cheesy fake roses (didn't have real ones) and put it on her car windshield. She seemed like the type to melt over that kinda stuff.
The next day, this past Thurs. I call one more time, and this time it's her dad that answers so I leave my phone # again and tell him to have her call me back which she still has not done.
So now I think I'm being played for a chump and figure I should forget her and move on. I still can't understand how women can be hot then cold so fast.
So what do you guys think I should do now? What did you think I did wrong? Thanks for your constructive criticism, please go easy on me.
Well the week before last, on Mon., me and two of my friends went into a resturaunt to have dinner before we started a 3 day evening class. I was not looking to meet anyone, just have dinner. Well we go in and wait to be seated by the hostess who is an easy 9 maybe a 10, freakin HOT, one of those girls I'd never think of approaching, but only admire from afar.
That Tues. we go back again, partially cause the foods good and we can drewl over her again. Well one of my friends happens to know our waitress this night pretty good and asks her if she would mention him to the hostess. She does this and comes back a few minutes later and says she just giggled. We all laughed and finished our dinner.
On our way out, one of the other waitresses runs up to me and hands me a piece of paper with the hostesses phone # and name on it
, and says "I think she wanted me to give this to YOU." I have NEVER gotten a phone # from a girl this hot especially without asking for it, in my life! This should have been my 1st clue this was not what was not going to go the way I wanted it. If it's to good to be true, it probably is.Well later in the car we are all thinking that the waitress must have made a mistake and given it to the wrong person, after all I never asked for it. So my friend calls his waitress friend to find out and she says yep it's for me alright. Well I'm just high as kite now! I can't believe I got a # from a girl this hot just by sitting there!
So I plan on waiting the mandatory 48 hrs before calling cause I definatly don't want to ef this up, but that Wed. my friends decide on going back a second time, I'm just along for the ride so I have to go.
This time she is our waitress so I think "what the hell" I don't want to just ignore her so I invite her to sit with us so we can talk but shes busy and declines. I can understand that but the whole time we're there shes smiling at me (she has the prettiest smile) and and both me and my friends definatly caught her staring at me a few times, very obvious, not waitress stuff. We're about to leave and I wave bye to her and she gives me that gorgeus smile again and waves.
The next day, Thurs, I decide it's time to give her a call. When she answers she sounds very excited that I had called but she was just headed to work so she had to go, but she asked if I was coming in that night to have dinner. I told her I couldn't, I had to work also, so she tells me to call her the next day, Fri, at a specific time.
I call her Fri and talked to her for a few minutes. Basicaly I was asking her things about her but it was ruff cause she seemed like she was the shy quiet type, like me which I was attempting to overcome and doing pretty damn well since I was the one asking her the questions but still there was a few akward dead air moments, but nothing major. I was just trying to think of things to ask her. The convo only lasted for about 5 min, I never got a chance to ask her out because her mom interrupted. Thats OK I'll call her again some other time.
I waited till Tues of the following week to call her and this time I was going to set something up, but she wasn't home so I left my name and # with her mom to have her give me a call.
Come Wed night she still had not returned my call so decided to pop in to have dinner with my friend who originally asked her. when we step in she sees me and immediatly gives me that killer smile again. She again is our waitress so I figure I'll take this oppurtunity to ask her out in person. so when she asks for my order i asked her if she wanted to go out. I can't remember exactly what I said but I thought it was pretty damn smooth. All I got was that damn "ahhhh" noise girls do when they see a baby or a kitten or something. Never did get a yes or no, I thought she maybe shy with me asking her in the middle of the restuarant and my buddy sitting there so I told her to think about that order or something like that. When we leave, I'm stepping out the door when my buddy taps me on the shoulder and tells me shes waving at me. when I turn around shes waving bye and giving me that damn smile again. So now we're outside and me and my friend come up with an idea I now think was probably the most retarded thing I've done. We go over to the gas station next door and buy on of those cheesy fake roses (didn't have real ones) and put it on her car windshield. She seemed like the type to melt over that kinda stuff.
The next day, this past Thurs. I call one more time, and this time it's her dad that answers so I leave my phone # again and tell him to have her call me back which she still has not done.
So now I think I'm being played for a chump and figure I should forget her and move on. I still can't understand how women can be hot then cold so fast.
So what do you guys think I should do now? What did you think I did wrong? Thanks for your constructive criticism, please go easy on me.