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schttrj

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firstly let me tell my process i follow though i believe im a NATURAL:

attraction ---> chemistry -----> seduction

ok, here is a prob. i dont know if naturals have any kinda prob, but i have a weak point in my game. first of all, i am not at all experienced in approaching and at many times, if i have pushed my comfort zone, i have not met with success except when talking with a girl was just as natural as talking to the next guy i was with. basically, situation was a big factor in opening. now, since my attraction style was like if i saw a girl i would give her flirting eye locks but i would not approach to talk with her. the normal james bond style, where u make eye contact, she makes eye contact, you smile, she smiles and then you go and deliver an opener, just doesnt work for me. i really dont feel comfortable in doing that. but ya, one thing, i believe in prizability if u know what it means and i make it work when it comes to creating attraction. ok, now a funny thing should be said here, i am quite a bit arrogant about my personality and looks and i really think that i deserve a HB > 8.5 but another thing, since i am financially a prince, i m insecure if i would be able to maintain them, ya know it. so, i dont even care for the girls below 7.5 or something and i have them falling for me now and then. one thing is for sure, if i stay silent then also i can attract and if i am talking naturally not with the intention of attracting someone, then also i can attract. hey guys, i think i have most of the qualities of a DJ if not all. now u can imagine the situation, i see a HB, i dont approach, she has to start talking with me and unfortunately, i dont open easily, so u see here im being teh prize but that is affecting my game in a way that i dont approach like a girl and kind of take time to open and play a bit hard to get when she approaches me. how can u keep the prizability even wehn u make the move? and here i am talking about the opening when u first meet a girl. i live in a conservative society, just for info, where a guy comes over to talk with a girl and he is hitting on her, girls know that. but i cannot let myself down like that. gosh! just think u make eye contact with a girl and u approach her instantly u r showing that u take her as a potential mate, so u think she is of ur level and if ur apparent value (ur appearnace, dress, monetary displays) are not good, she would take u to be a lower level. u get me? tell me waht u think.
 

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i really think that i deserve a HB > 8.5
So does everyone else.
i live in a conservative society
Looks like we have something in common. But, living in a conservative society does not mean that you can't approch girls.There are tons of girls everywhere.
just think u make eye contact with a girl and u approach her instantly u r showing that u take her as a potential mate
Do u live in a small village or in a city? Hot girls in the cities gets hit a lot and most even have boyfriends.
i dont open easily, so u see here im being teh prize but that is affecting my game in a way that i dont approach like a girl and kind of take time to open and play a bit hard to get when she approaches me. how can u keep the prizability even wehn u make the move?
i m insecure if i would be able to maintain them
Being the prize actually means that u can't treat her like a god.
i think i have most of the qualities of a DJ if not all.
Examples please.
i believe im a NATURAL
If u were trully a natural, u wouldn't be here.
tell me waht u think.
U should-
1. re-read posts made by Pook.
2. destroy your ego, its holding u back.
3. apply everything that u lean here in real life.
 

WesCottII

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schttrj said:
firstly let me tell my process i follow though i believe im a NATURAL:

attraction ---> chemistry -----> seduction

ok, here is a prob. i dont know if naturals have any kinda prob, but i have a weak point in my game. first of all, i am not at all experienced in approaching and at many times, if i have pushed my comfort zone, i have not met with success except when talking with a girl was just as natural as talking to the next guy i was with. basically, situation was a big factor in opening. now, since my attraction style was like if i saw a girl i would give her flirting eye locks but i would not approach to talk with her. the normal james bond style, where u make eye contact, she makes eye contact, you smile, she smiles and then you go and deliver an opener, just doesnt work for me. i really dont feel comfortable in doing that. but ya, one thing, i believe in prizability if u know what it means and i make it work when it comes to creating attraction. ok, now a funny thing should be said here, i am quite a bit arrogant about my personality and looks and i really think that i deserve a HB > 8.5 but another thing, since i am financially a prince, i m insecure if i would be able to maintain them, ya know it. so, i dont even care for the girls below 7.5 or something and i have them falling for me now and then. one thing is for sure, if i stay silent then also i can attract and if i am talking naturally not with the intention of attracting someone, then also i can attract. hey guys, i think i have most of the qualities of a DJ if not all. now u can imagine the situation, i see a HB, i dont approach, she has to start talking with me and unfortunately, i dont open easily, so u see here im being teh prize but that is affecting my game in a way that i dont approach like a girl and kind of take time to open and play a bit hard to get when she approaches me. how can u keep the prizability even wehn u make the move? and here i am talking about the opening when u first meet a girl. i live in a conservative society, just for info, where a guy comes over to talk with a girl and he is hitting on her, girls know that. but i cannot let myself down like that. gosh! just think u make eye contact with a girl and u approach her instantly u r showing that u take her as a potential mate, so u think she is of ur level and if ur apparent value (ur appearnace, dress, monetary displays) are not good, she would take u to be a lower level. u get me? tell me waht u think.

Naturals don't theorize.

You have to make it appear you're going in for any other reason other than sex. Come in under the radar. "have you got the time?", "I can only stay a few minutes"
 

schttrj

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i dont know then but i think even some naturals need to improve their game because at a moment, if he is getting 7 out of 10 without even making any move, he needs to do something about it to make it 9 out of 10. and examples is when u see me actually talk or act infront of a girl. i would rather not give any examples bcoz maybe im being a bit egoistic here. but i think we are all members of the masculine gender and we are all here for a single purpose.

well, i live in a metro city but that my culture is a conservative one i believe. i didnt get the approach thing actually @ moon ram, i know they get hit on and tahts why i think if we should approach. starting a small convo with anyone is cool but not everytime u can approach the one u target, so just thought if i had a better alternative.

well, when i say im natural, im doing most of teh things once i get it on but the opening thing is what kills me. still now, i have never approached anyone but still got girls approaching me or giving me hints, adn i learnt all these theories when i came here ha ha. and theories say u have to approach, since girls are not meant to approach. gosh! im so confused. i would really like someone's help, not just a general reply but a little more specific.
 
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