Master Don Juan
- Apr 24, 2002
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- monrovia, CA
Danger said:I have walked both sides of the fence in regards to alpha/beta (again using terms that are not best to use). Or in other words, I have been the aloof jerk, and the nice guy.
While this may not convince you, I can personally attest to you to the difference in opportunities presented to me dependent upon which role I was filling at the time.
Regardless of the desires of the nerd guy, and I think you are right in that he is ecstatic to have even one girl......the desires I am focused on in my points is the desire of the woman. We would be hard pressed to find an 18 year old scrawny computer nerd impregnating even ONE girl in comparison to the jerk guy with the motorcycle, let alone impregnating four. I used four to further illustrate my point. But I think it is no secret that the nerds get $hit as far as girls while the "exciting boys" get a lot more. The pregnancy rates would bear this theory out just as well as anyone who recalls their youth or high school.
I agree completely. You remind me of the saying "You never divorce the woman you married".
I find this interesting and I have thought about it to a degree in the past.
I am becoming more of the belief that each region of the US (and world) can be quite different in regards to how they act. Everything you state here as your experience with women is the complete opposite of what I have experienced here in the Northeast US.
Perhaps, you could find one in 15 girls up here married by 22, but I doubt you would even get that number. And the carousel is running at top speed up here. I know a lot of girls who finally get married right as they turn 28-32, and I know enough about their history or have been involved with them to now the carousel is exactly what they were riding.
Part of your other post, about women desperate for a real man, leads to the point we often argue about. MRA. The problem is that our society routinely punishes and ridicules real men. But then, we could have different definitions of what "real men" actually are.
more than anything, once guys learn about the CC, it becomes a cure all. no game? CC's fault. came off as too needy? CC. afraid to esculate? CC.
CC becomes the answer to all your problems and that's not right.