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Women have "abundance mindset" because they are literally living in abundance in the West, surrounded by thirsty cucked blue-pill-poossy-beggars.

Move your oneitis-ass to Manila and we will soon see who's getting the Oneitis (hint: not the men).

It's a basic supply and demand issue.

The issue of Oneitis male faggotry in the West is solely a male problem. Men need to start governing and shaming poossy-begging, which lowers the value of all men.

Did Genghis Khan ever suffer from Oneitis? I think not.
Yep, that's why I said, "Men catch oneitis usually due to lack of options above all else." But lack of options can be perceived as opposed to real - that's the tragedy of it.

I don't need to move to Manila for a woman to catch Oneitis for me. It's happened to me many times, and it's not rare, at least for me. All any man has to do is flip the paradigm in his head. No poossy-begging as you said.

As for Genghis Khan, in fact he did. He confessed that there was one true unrequited love that drove him to conquer half the world in her name.
 

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One of the premises of the redpill is that a mans mating strategy is to spread his seed with as women as possible, while a womans strategy is to pair bond with one mate

I actually believe the total opposite is true

Men are more likely to want to pair bond because it gives them a constant access to sex and ensures their genes survival. When relationships break down they hit men tremendously hard for this reason

Women on the hand are naturally flirty with everyone and sexually flexible, spinning plates comes naturally to them, they don't have to learn how to do it. When a womans relationship breaks down, she is rarely hurt but instead single and ready to "mingle"

I don't believe women catch oneitis nearly as much as men do. They are enamored by the top guys yes, but I don't think they love them

I also believe this is the reason women don't like clingy guys and instead go for indifferent guys, because they always want the freedom to swing from branch to branch
Not my experience. I want to just casually date. I don't even want a GF. However, every woman I meet wants exclusive, LT relationship. Always have a side-chick(s). That way, if the relationship breaks down, you move on. I don't think men have to learn to spin plates. They just have to learn to manage the plates. All my current plates are vaguely aware of each other. I need to learn to calibrate this better. You're right about them going for indifferent guys though.
 
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Then how come marriage and life long partnerships are prevalent everywhere else in the world?

The West is the only place where men are encouraged NOT to have oneitis. It's openly practiced everywhere else

You wanna talk begging? If you are a girl walking down the streets of India, Italy or Nigeria... they will literally throw wedding rings at you

But everyone in redpill acts like its the white mans fault. There's something wrong with the white man and the west. Never the women.

I'm not buying it
that isn't popular here to blame the men
 

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The Coolidge effect is the renewal of sexual behavior after the presentation of a novel sexual partner and possibly occurs as the result of habituation and dishabituation processes. This re-motivation to copulate is well studied in males and is commonly related to sexual satiety, which involves several neurobiological changes in steroid receptors and their mRNA expression in the CNS. On the other hand, there are few reports studying sexual novelty in females and have been limited to behavioral aspects.

thank you kindly, this is interesting to me.
I would love to be a study subject.
Its my feeling that I've suppressed my drive so thoroughly because of maintaining jobs where I work with men that I've become dishabituated to responding to their pheromones.

Its my feeling that I have to drastically change my daily life in order to refine more of my femininity.

Translate: I'm not going to find a satisfying LTR until I retire early and practice coquetry full time, lol, lol
thanks again
 

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Then how come marriage and life long partnerships are prevalent everywhere else in the world?

The West is the only place where men are encouraged NOT to have oneitis. It's openly practiced everywhere else

You wanna talk begging? If you are a girl walking down the streets of India, Italy or Nigeria... they will literally throw wedding rings at you

But everyone in redpill acts like its the white mans fault. There's something wrong with the white man and the west. Never the women.

I'm not buying it
You're got it wrong, in the west, men are encouraged to accept the masculinity of women, they call it freedom, meanwhile in the east, we men call it for what it actually is, emasculation of the males which transforms males into men who doesn't take responsibility.

They tend to blame women when they themselves don't display male leadership which is synonymous to masculinity.

I'm not sure abt Italy but I'm sure about Nigeria and India, men are the prize there and acts accordingly, in many parts of Asia dowry is given to a prospective bride since it's an exchange from one man (the father) to another man (the groom). The more lands, properties, etc the bride has the more one has to exchange, something along that line.

Both men and women understand their role well in the East, the only difference I can see since I've also lived in Europe is that the men (as compared to the east) are woefully privileged, lazy and doesn't generally take responsibility.
 

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thank you kindly, this is interesting to me.
I would love to be a study subject.
Its my feeling that I've suppressed my drive so thoroughly because of maintaining jobs where I work with men that I've become dishabituated to responding to their pheromones.

Its my feeling that I have to drastically change my daily life in order to refine more of my femininity.

Translate: I'm not going to find a satisfying LTR until I retire early and practice coquetry full time, lol, lol
thanks again
So seems like your female.

I guess it's difficult with females because in general they have a much lower sex drive. So I guess you are right a stress free environment might help a lot to create the right environment.

Actually I think it's true for men as well.
 

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So seems like your female.

I guess it's difficult with females because in general they have a much lower sex drive. So I guess you are right a stress free environment might help a lot to create the right environment.

Actually I think it's true for men as well.
I was kind of getting at the fact that I've stifled my drive in order not to be flirtateous at work. I'd lose my credibility and trust because of the nature of the work.

Wouldn't have to worry about stifling anything if I didn't have to maintain image in a certain environment.
 

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I was kind of getting at the fact that I've stifled my drive in order not to be flirtateous at work. I'd lose my credibility and trust because of the nature of the work.

Wouldn't have to worry about stifling anything if I didn't have to maintain image in a certain environment.
Ok I see
 

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I was kind of getting at the fact that I've stifled my drive in order not to be flirtateous at work. I'd lose my credibility and trust because of the nature of the work.

Wouldn't have to worry about stifling anything if I didn't have to maintain image in a certain environment.
Btw I have a question. Do you have any idea about a forum for females that is the female version of sosuave?

My guess is there is not much there but I still wanted to ask.
 

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Btw I have a question. Do you have any idea about a forum for females that is the female version of sosuave?

My guess is there is not much there but I still wanted to ask.
none.
I've asked in a previous post here.
Is it your opinion that a female poster should lie and hide her gender? Is there a mandatory "check this box if you're male, check this box if you're female, check this box if you're other" when registering for this site?
Is it permissible to have fluid sexual orientation to want to learn more about dating women?
Final question, can you accept I think like a man at a larger percentage of time than the average female?

Read through all my posts: most of them posted around the time of my permanent split mid Feb....easy enough to tell I need the support this forum provides and I try my best to payback too.
Funny how your writing demeanor changed.
 

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none.
I've asked in a previous post here.
Is it your opinion that a female poster should lie and hide her gender? Is there a mandatory "check this box if you're male, check this box if you're female, check this box if you're other" when registering for this site?
Is it permissible to have fluid sexual orientation to want to learn more about dating women?
Final question, can you accept I think like a man at a larger percentage of time than the average female?

Read through all my posts: most of them posted around the time of my permanent split mid Feb....easy enough to tell I need the support this forum provides and I try my best to payback too.
Funny how your writing demeanor changed.


No I have no problem with a female poster here.

I guess we have here a misunderstanding. When I asked you if
there are no forums for women it was not ment that you should go there.
It was for my personal interest into the matter.

In general women don't have forums like this. They have but they differ quite
a bit. So I thought maybe you know more. Could be that you are better informed.
 

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When I asked you if
there are no forums for women it was not ment that you should go there.
It was for my personal interest into the matter.

In general women don't have forums like this. They have but they differ quite
a bit. So I thought maybe you know more. Could be that you are better informed.
The only one that I know right off the top of my head is a women's redpill discussion forum on Reddit. But as with anything with Reddit, it can have it's own pro's and con's to it.

 

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The only one that I know right off the top of my head is a women's redpill discussion forum on Reddit. But as with anything with Reddit, it can have it's own pro's and con's to it.

I did register on reddit two weeks ago but then thought better of it as its just another form of sm.
 

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Well you tried it at least
just clicking on the subreddit here was interesting with a list of feminine youtubers available-I love those women dearly, nglScreenshot_2020-06-27-12-58-14.png
 

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