What the HELL is my problem!!!! I'm I back to AFC??!!!!

[Tantric]

If you guys have read some of my recent posts, you'll know that i'm in a new school, and i've been macking quite a few girls. The issue i am finding is that EVERY GIRL IS FRIENDLY TO ME!!! So as a result, i cannot tell the IL of any of these girls!

I'm getting fairly well-known in school (only about 40 students with a ratio of girls to guys, 4:1) and some of the classes are quite small (6-10 students). I'm getting positive vibes from most chicks, but finding that after class and it's time to go, the vibes are gone, and they are in their own world. So part of me belives that they are only being friendly and chatting it up for the sake of being friendly...after all, we're all in the same class.

In one of my previous posts, a fellow DJ stated that the ONLY way to tell the IL of a girl, is to # close, then ask her out. Which makes COMPLETE sense...the only problem is that I really don't give a shyte right now if i DO # close...is that AFC?

I ended a fvck buddy situation about 3 weeks ago, and rather than going out and getting #'s, all i want to do is be alone...not alone in a literal sense, but i really don't want to start dating or getting into aother fvck buddy situation...well...at least not yet .

I moved here to concentrate on school, and although there are 3 girls who i have an interest in, this feeling not "sensing" their interest level and me wanting to be "alone", is preventing me from closing any of them.

Is that AFC?

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Tantric
In one of my previous posts, a fellow DJ stated that the ONLY way to tell the IL of a girl, is to # close, then ask her out.

Kino and eye contact are better indicators.

 

[Tantric]

thanks wheelin

i should have worded that better...

I'm getting a bit of kino in return form most of the girls, but it ends up being that typical "hit" that girls do. This usually happens after i say somehting ****y or neg the HB's. Things is..after class it sems like it goes back to "ignoring" or something...

you're right on that point though...

how would you take it if some chick seems like she's into you throughout class, then at the end, does the complete opposite?

would you kick back the next day and see what SHE does? eg). see if she approached first? Or keep up the macking?

 

[Page]

Originally posted by Tantric
If you guys have read some of my recent posts, you'll know that i'm in a new school, and i've been macking quite a few girls. The issue i am finding is that EVERY GIRL IS FRIENDLY TO ME!!! So as a result, i cannot tell the IL of any of these girls!


>So, try and close as many as you want to.



I'm getting fairly well-known in school (only about 40 students with a ratio of girls to guys, 4:1) and some of the classes are quite small (6-10 students). I'm getting positive vibes from most chicks, but finding that after class and it's time to go, the vibes are gone, and they are in their own world. So part of me belives that they are only being friendly and chatting it up for the sake of being friendly...after all, we're all in the same class.


>again, try and close them, and apply kino + eye contact as well. These chicks are showing what I call pseudo-interest level, which is a slight indicator of actual Il, but nothing definite by any means. I usually scan for pseudo-IL in a chick before I approach.

In one of my previous posts, a fellow DJ stated that the ONLY way to tell the IL of a girl, is to # close, then ask her out. Which makes COMPLETE sense...the only problem is that I really don't give a shyte right now if i DO # close...is that AFC?

>Not really. Maybe you just don't care. There were times for me when i was so busy I didn't give a fvck if I met any chicks or not. I doubt that showing desperation is a problem with you.

I ended a fvck buddy situation about 3 weeks ago, and rather than going out and getting #'s, all i want to do is be alone...not alone in a literal sense, but i really don't want to start dating or getting into aother fvck buddy situation...well...at least not yet .

>There's nothing wrong with that. You know what you want-- you value solitude over sex at the moment. It's actually good to be in such control over yourself that you can focus on your life foremost and have women on your own terms.

I moved here to concentrate on school, and although there are 3 girls who i have an interest in, this feeling not "sensing" their interest level and me wanting to be "alone", is preventing me from closing any of them.

>do you really WANT to close them? If i was in your situation,m If I actually wanted to get with these chicks, I would have done it already. To me, it sounds like you are waiting for something else to come along, whatever it may be. It's really up to you.

Is that AFC?

>no.

 

[Tantric]

thanks Page...

I don't know if I'm necessarily "waiting" for something...if i am it beats the HELL out of me what it is...

Hardest thing for me right now is that all my "relationships" have been in the fvck budy realm...so to be honest i haven't "Dated" anyone before...at least not in the normal sense. Maybe it's a fear thing?

Well, i'm in dance class tomorrow, and the HB9 who i macked quite well yesterday will be there. It ends at lunch, so maybe i'll get her to take me out, he he ...get the number after. Part of me wants to plan everything out, but i know that'll probably fuk me over in the end.

Thanks for the input.