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What size for shoulder deltoid from deltoid is considered broad?

and biceps/arms flexed and unflexed big?

for someone who is 1.85m / 6ft1
 

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My shoulder to shoulder width was 57 inches at my peak. Down to about 54 or 55 now. Waist at that time was 34
 

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It's less about size and more about ratios.

I'd focus more on losing fat than pure size. If you have big shoulders but a 34, 36" waist it's not even worth it unless you're massive.
 

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isn’t the golden ratio not used just whether It is aesthetically pleasing? I know dudes who don’t fit into this ratio schema but look bigger and better then guys who would fit in it.

my shoulders are 52 inch and waist 33 inch. I’m bulking (192lbs)] though in a cut 2-4 inch lesser In waist i assume and maybe 1-2inch less on shoulder
 

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isn’t the golden ratio not used just whether It is aesthetically pleasing? I know dudes who don’t fit into this ratio schema but look bigger and better then guys who would fit in it.

my shoulders are 52 inch and waist 33 inch. I’m bulking (192lbs)] though in a cut 2-4 inch lesser In waist i assume and maybe 1-2inch less on shoulder
Why are you trying to get big? Most guys end up doing it to impress other men. It's homoerotic simping. Not saying that's you.

Good ratios not only look better imo, but they're a significantly stronger indicator of good health. Waist size is absolutely critical and it should never be over 32, maybe 34" if have a large frame naturally.

And just to be clear, women highly prefer golden ratio over "big" in majority of cases.
 
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Dudes that are absolutely jacked do it for themselves... If one was doing it for other people they wouldn't make it. It takes too much dedication, discipline, and consistency to be able to do it for vanity.
There's no such thing as doing something for yourself, that's like women who claim they wear $200 yoga pants and sephora makeup "for themselves".

They do it to compete with other men.
 

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There's no such thing as doing something for yourself.
So you eat delicious food for someone else? When you're alone and someone is trying to victimize you, you're defending yourself for someone else? What about having an orgasm? You do that for someone else?
 

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So you eat delicious food for someone else? When you're alone and someone is trying to victimize you, you're defending yourself for someone else? What about having an orgasm? You do that for someone else?
Should have clarified, but I meant there is no such thing as a "self improvement" for yourself. It's almost always with an ulterior motive, though I suppose you can find some exceptions.
 

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Why are you trying to get big? Most guys end up doing it to impress other men. It's homoerotic simping. Not saying that's you.

Good ratios not only look better imo, but they're a significantly stronger indicator of good health. Waist size is absolutely critical and it should never be over 32, maybe 34" if have a large frame naturally.

And just to be clear, women highly prefer golden ratio over "big" in majority of cases.
My waist was anywhere from 32-36" depending on my weight but my chest and back more than made up for it...at my peak condition I had a back that went out past my shoulders which were already extremely broad and thick. Think Brahma Bull. Back width was 17-18 inches wider than my waist, I had a ridiculous V, especially when seen from behind as my back looked like it was a broad side of a barn.

Ratio isn't as good these days but my back is still at least 13-14 inches wide than my waist.
 

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My waist was anywhere from 32-36" depending on my weight but my chest and back more than made up for it...at my peak condition I had a back that went out past my shoulders which were already extremely broad and thick. Think Brahma Bull. Back width was 17-18 inches wider than my waist, I had a ridiculous V, especially when seen from behind as my back looked like it was a broad side of a barn.

Ratio isn't as good these days but my back is still at least 13-14 inches wide than my waist.
Lol bro doesn’t fit into public toilet doors
 

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That's only for bodybuilders in shows. I'd like to get as big and cut as possible to get more women.
Yes same here too. Mainly to look good (big confidence boost), but also for women, but since I’m skinny now I miss the mental sharpness I have had while being muscular and my overall fitness. I get tired physically very easy now. I don’t care about other men
 
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