What should I text this attractive modern chick next?

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It seems like you are pretty active on the forum, 4 years of membership, a few hundred posts. Now I wonder, with all that, how can you not have learned anything in the time you've spent here?
Let me tell you honestly, you need to instantly move on from this and stop embarrasing yourself. By the looks of things I was wondering if this was a troll post.
This girl is showing no interest, you have 0 chances, (I hope you're not really 38), the girl looks 20, you are talking about a "beautiful friendship" with her, your mentality is completely wrong, and you need to get back to the drawing board and read some more quality material on the forum and forget about her.
Lol haha……Im not obsessed with her. Im just curious how some of you guys would have approached the situation. Theres more than one way to skin a cat.

Right now Im in South East Asia and my Tinder blew up and Im getting matches daily…..I just wanted some Mexican food that’s all.

But yeah, you’re right…I need to move on and focus on the local girls where Im at.
 

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I texted her again…we exchanged pleasantries and greetings over our Halloween plan.

Dude…I think there might be some interest there, or she wouldn’t be responding back to my texts. Im talking to other women and having a good time here in The Philippines. And plus were friends on facebook, so she can definitely see my ‘intriguing’ stories….

I think Im just gonna take it slow and keep talking to her. I need some tacos, beans and mexican rice too! lol



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No wonder women these days are afraid to go on dates

Y’all simps need to stop giving attention away for chump change
 

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I texted her again…we exchanged pleasantries and greetings over our Halloween plan.

Dude…I think there might be some interest there, or she wouldn’t be responding back to my texts. Im talking to other women and having a good time here in The Philippines. And plus were friends on facebook, so she can definitely see my ‘intriguing’ stories….

I think Im just gonna take it slow and keep talking to her. I need some tacos, beans and mexican rice too! lol



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So you're just gonna ignore everybody's advice and continue to be weird by replying to her Instagram story even after she doesn't respond to your messages, I see.

This guy is a perfect example of why you shouldn't pay attention to reaction score on this forum when considering who to take your advice from - more points does not equal more skill.
 

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So you're just gonna ignore everybody's advice and continue to be weird by replying to her Instagram story even after she doesn't respond to your messages, I see.

This guy is a perfect example of why you shouldn't pay attention to reaction score on this forum when considering who to take your advice from - more points does not equal more skill.

What you fail to acknowledge is Im not here strictly for the women….Im here to bond with Men who are bachelors like you and me over a variety of topics thats more important than women…..

I admit Im no Casanova but Ive given advice how a man should be at peace with himself despite not having any women in his life, Ive given spiritual advise in the pursuit of happiness and contentment without needing any woman’s approval which is far more important than getting tail in my opinion. I’ve also talked about a wide range of topics in this board from philosophy, politics, religion, sports, entertainment etc.

As far as women are concerned, Im in The Philippines on a long term vacation right now and Im getting matches daily on my Tinder and actively seeking women in real life social situations here. This chick is not my number one option. Definitely not, why settle for take out, when theres a homecook meal waiting for you back home.

Heres a pic of a hot half latina and half filipina for ya….my ideal woman, because I grew up with both cultures.



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What you fail to acknowledge is Im not here strictly for the women….Im here to bond with Men who are bachelors like you and me over a variety of topics thats more important than women…..
This is a pickup forum...self-improvement in all aspects of life is important, but this entire forum focuses on ONE area, which you seem to be blatantly ignoring.

I admit Im no Casanova but Ive given advice how a man should be at peace with himself despite not having any women in his life
How can you? YOU aren't even at peace with it...that's why you're spamming this girl with messages despite the fact that she's ignoring you and almost every single reply here being "don't".

As far as women are concerned, Im in The Philippines on a long term vacation right now and Im getting matches daily on my Tinder and actively seeking women in real life social situations here. This chick is not my number one option. Definitely not, why settle for take out, when theres a homecook meal waiting for you back home.
So you're a passport bro...have you ever considered WHY you need to go all the way over there to find women? Is it perhaps because you lack social awareness and wanted to have an easier time?

Also, matches on Tinder mean nothing. Dates and lays mean something. Probably about half of Tinder are bots, another 30-40% are ugly women, and maybe 10% are decently attractive. Bragging about lots of matches as an American in a third world country really isn't the flex you think it is.
 

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This woman is not engaging you - and frankly you’re not engaging her either. You’re not using open ended questions, you’re not saying anything interesting or comical, you need something a little edgier. It’s okay, just learn and move along to another. The goal of these dialogues is to intrigue, grab a real phone number, get on a call, and then get on a date. It’s not good to be deep into written dialogue.
 

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So you're just gonna ignore everybody's advice and continue to be weird by replying to her Instagram story even after she doesn't respond to your messages, I see.

This guy is a perfect example of why you shouldn't pay attention to reaction score on this forum when considering who to take your advice from - more points does not equal more skill.
This falls under the category:

Desperate Dudes Do Desperate Things.
 
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