What are a list of negative feminine traits a men should not have?

[TheManMasenko]

Here’s my list,


Mental masturbation
Bad attitude
Overthink/complicated/over eager
No desire/miss opportunity
Worried about aftermath
Comparing myself
Talking about past experience (sex/trauma)


What’s your list?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

From what I hear, women hate boring complacent men the most.

 

[Stanley]

Passive Aggressiveness

 

[pranshu]

what is mental masturbation??

 

[soulforge]

Passive Aggressiveness

I am very much leaning towards this... I think this idea of never speaking your mind, or calling someone out... Simply staying quiet and withdrawing attention etc etc, it's all passive aggressive behaviour.

 

[TheManMasenko]

what is mental masturbation??

Boosting about yourself + explaining to her your strengths as an individual.

 

[catsmeow2]

I am very much leaning towards this... I think this idea of never speaking your mind, or calling someone out... Simply staying quiet and withdrawing attention etc etc, it's all passive aggressive behaviour.

You mean utilizing silence and distance?

I don't think that's always passive aggressive but fair enough if you do.

In some cases, it can be effective, in others better to have it out.

Pick your battles.

If you're calling her out on every little thing, you risk coming off as an overbearing domineering (different from dominant) brute.

It's insecure and weak which is how I always viewed it.

Sometimes it's effective to give her a few days to wonder, consider what she did wrong, and come back and apologize.

As evidenced in your recent thread when you basically said nothing and your girl came back on her own and apologized.

Words are not always necessary to get the message across.

JMO

 

[soulforge]

You mean utilizing silence and distance?

I don't think that's always passive aggressive but fair enough if you do.

In some cases, it can be effective, in others better to have it out.

Pick your battles.

If you're calling her out on every little thing, you risk coming off as an overbearing domineering (different from dominant) brute.

It's insecure and weak which is how I always viewed it. Giving her a few days to wonder allows her to come back and apologize.

As evidenced in your recent thread when you basically said nothing and your girl came back on her own and apologized.

JMO

Yeh I think it depends on the situation. Pick your battles, some cases require a conv and some apply s&d

 

[Howiestern]

what is mental masturbation??

An overly analytical conversation that is basically useless in the practical world. Every single possible scenario gets discussed and exploited. All the chest thumpers needing an ego stroke typically show up. They happen quite often on SoSuave.

 

[Smok1nAce]

what is mental masturbation??

Basically lying to yourself. And if you dont know what that is you might have a personality disorder.

I would add Blaming Women for your problems.

I dont think this is talked about like it should. I think to many men blame women and society for their problems without even assesing the problem and why its a problem. Its under the realm of being a coward.

 

[Gamisch]

Jealousy. Jealously = anger when you think about it. You cant be jealous without anger, just like you cant have a fire without smoke. The irony is 99% of the time male jealousy is actually anger towards one self. Another man makes you feel like you are less for whatever reason, thus you get angry with yourself for lacking in that department.

Under the umbrella of jealousy you can also find being revengeful/ vengeful. Another feminine trait that looks extremely bad on a man. A man must be able to let go and indeed " pick his battles wisely ".

Overthinking is another bad feminine trait that men have. A man must rather be a decisionmaker than a overthinker. In the presence of a woman this must be shown when doing simple shyte like picking a restaurant, a menu, a movie ect. When dealing with women generally its should be shown by firmly standing on your ground and not being afraid to express yourself.