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I don't get it, what was the problem? Couldn't you have ended the chit-chat with (Lets go to the museum)?
 

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I don't think that's reason enough to eject. Just my two cents.
This.

The chick didn't come off weird at all, nor did I see a dislike for hats.

@SargeMaximus, she probably asked "What's under the hat?" because she thinks you might be hiding baldness and is pre-screening your physical looks before a meet-up the same way a guy will pre-screen a chick to make sure she ain't hiding fatness.
 

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This.

The chick didn't come off weird at all, nor did I see a dislike for hats.

@SargeMaximus, she probably asked "What's under the hat?" because she thinks you might be hiding baldness and is pre-screening your physical looks before a meet-up the same way a guy will pre-screen a chick to make sure she ain't hiding fatness.
Yeah so I should ask her what’s under her shirt. In all fairness. Seriously.
 

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Yeah so I should ask her what’s under her shirt. In all fairness. Seriously.
With all due respect, are you on the spectrum? Your interpretation of many things in your last few threads gives me that impression. That, or you just clearly don't understand intersexual dynamics.

I don't ask to offend you, I ask because I'm trying to understand you...

Men and women operate differently for the most part. Part of that includes many nuances to social interactions, both in-person and virtual, that you're not seeming to pick up on.

You seem to often a) apply how you subjectively perceive interactions as how the women must be perceiving it as well, b) you read into your interactions (interpret) things that just aren't there, and c) take what a woman says literally.


Bottom line from my perspective:
This women wanted to covertly know if you were hiding baldness or a receding hairline under your hat (because you only posted hat pics on OLD), and you deciding not to respond probably indicated to her that you do. If her question caused you to write her off as some weird low-interest girl with her head in her a$$, that says more about you than her.
 

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With all due respect, are you on the spectrum? Your interpretation of many things in your last few threads gives me that impression. That, or you just clearly don't understand intersexual dynamics.

I don't ask to offend you, I ask because I'm trying to understand you...

Men and women operate differently for the most part. Part of that includes many nuances to social interactions, both in-person and virtual, that you're not seeming to pick up on.

You seem to often a) apply how you subjectively perceive interactions as how the women must be perceiving it as well, b) you read into your interactions (interpret) things that just aren't there, and c) take what a woman says literally.


Bottom line from my perspective:
This women wanted to covertly know if you were hiding baldness or a receding hairline under your hat (because you only posted hat pics on OLD), and you deciding not to respond probably indicated to her that you do. If her question caused you to write her off as some weird low-interest girl with her head in her a$$, that says more about you than her.
I was formally tested for autism. I am not on the spectrum but I am close.

Good for her deducing that im bald except that I’m not.

So now she assumes I’m bald because I didn’t show her my head? Good job lady.

Seriously. What a fool proof method to discover if I’m bald or not! Wow she really caught me!

Definitely has her head up her @ss.

And enough with the autism jabs already. Just because I think differently than you doesn’t mean I’m autistic.
 
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And enough with the autism jabs already. Just because I think differently than you doesn’t mean I’m autistic.
It wasn't a jab; it was a sincere question.

Good for her deducing that im bald except that I’m not.

So now she assumes I’m bald because I didn’t show her my head? Good job lady.

Seriously. What a fool proof method to discover if I’m bald or not! Wow she really caught me!

Definitely has her head up her @ss.
From her perspective, she asked a relatively innocuous question of "What's under the hat?" because all of your OLD pics were of you wearing a hat. Many men wear hats to hide balding or a receding hairline – women know this. The fact you decided to next her because of the question would prompt her to assume you're hiding something.

If a chick posted only pictures of her face and you were wondering what the rest of her looked like, then asked her in a harmless way, and she then decided to write you off as weird with your head up your a$$ for asking, you'd think she's either insecure, sensitive, and/or hiding something – especially if she nexted you for it.

The question then is, if you're not bald or hiding anything, why are you wearing a hat in every OLD pic? And why are you so sensitive when people ask?
 

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It wasn't a jab; it was a sincere question.



From her perspective, she asked a relatively innocuous question of "What's under the hat?" because all of your OLD pics were of you wearing a hat. Many men wear hats to hide balding or a receding hairline – women know this. The fact you decided to next her because of the question would prompt her to assume you're hiding something.

If a chick posted only pictures of her face and you were wondering what the rest of her looked like, then asked her in a harmless way, and she then decided to write you off as weird with your head up your a$$ for asking, you'd think she's either insecure, sensitive, and/or hiding something – especially if she nexted you for it.

The question then is, if you're not bald or hiding anything, why are you wearing a hat in every OLD pic? And why are you so sensitive when people ask?
Lol because I’m bald obviously. Not. Look I just don’t like it. Think whatever you want. I don’t care
 

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It wasn't a jab; it was a sincere question.



From her perspective, she asked a relatively innocuous question of "What's under the hat?" because all of your OLD pics were of you wearing a hat. Many men wear hats to hide balding or a receding hairline – women know this. The fact you decided to next her because of the question would prompt her to assume you're hiding something.

If a chick posted only pictures of her face and you were wondering what the rest of her looked like, then asked her in a harmless way, and she then decided to write you off as weird with your head up your a$$ for asking, you'd think she's either insecure, sensitive, and/or hiding something – especially if she nexted you for it.

The question then is, if you're not bald or hiding anything, why are you wearing a hat in every OLD pic? And why are you so sensitive when people ask?
Just recalled chatting to someone on tinder a year or so back. I pointed out she was wearing sunglasses in all the photos, she didn't seem to be aware judging by her reaction, so she updated then soon after.

Like you say, concern is hiding something, in my example she was attractive, but concerned she may have something up with her eyes, but turned out she didn't.
 

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Yeah so I should ask her what’s under her shirt. In all fairness. Seriously.
Nah don't allow yourself to get defensive.

Ask yourself is it reasonable that she wants to see a picture of you without a hat.

If you think it is reasonable..........(it is) shoot her a picture without a hat.

Maybe she fears you are a ginger?

On a side note, I allowed the mentality of this forum or red pill to influence a response I gave to an attractive female:

We exchanged whatsapps and she sent me a photo (there was no need I know what she looks like) and said to me "It's because I have no profile picture (on whatsapp) and you don't either" So I just shot her a picture. I got a "wow" from her (in a pic that I think I look tired as hell!)

Then a while later she asked "what height are you exactly?" It made me think of the posts on height here......I'm 5'10 and I could give a fvck........normally I would have just said "5' 10" and that's it

But I didn't, instead I said "why, what weight are you?" of course she was surprised and said "that's not a question that you ask a woman!"

I continued the red pill manner and copied her question and asked "well, is this a question you can ask a man?" (now, I probably shouldn't have, because it really doesn't bother me at all"

What did the poor baby do? She sent me her weight and her height and apologized if you caused me offense.........she said "ah it was just the photo I thought you were really tall in that photo and was curious"

So put me in a little bind as I wasn't offended at all but my response gave the impression that i was and kind of killed the vibe...

Avoid being defensive I say. She either likes you the way you are or she doesn't. Can't please them all same as they can't all please you.
 
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