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Crazy and irrational GRAB A TON of attention and thought which could have been used for instead to better yourself and a positive viewpoint.
Exactly...all the time spent in threads and PM, about women that keep playing you with their crazy, just I n the last week alone...what if that was time and energy was dedicated to something that had true value in your life, something you could show off at the end of the year?

Your choice. You seem to give the crazies a lot of your mental space lately. Maybe you find it entertaining. Be careful that will not help your life or your bigger dreams and goals. Something to consider. I think you can do lots better. That’s me.
 

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Exactly...all the time spent in threads and PM, about women the playing you with their crazy, in the last week alone...what if that was time and energy was dedicated to something that had true value in your life, something you could show off at the end of the year?

Your choice. You seem to give the crazies a lot of your mental space lately. Maybe you find it entertaining. Be careful that will not help your life or your bigger dreams and goals. Something to consider. I think you can do lots better. That’s me.
Thanks @LiveYourDream. I guess with all that's going on, working from home, and not a whole lot going on, I've slipped.
 

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Exactly...all the time spent in threads and PM, about women that keep playing you with their crazy, just I n the last week alone...

Your choice. You seem to give the crazies a lot of your mental space lately. Maybe you find it entertaining.
I noticed that too. Didn't say anything cause,well.......didn't care,really. Just found it odd.

The OP started this thread out by saying this......" This is a different girl than the one I've recently posted about."
So here in this thread,he's talking about a girl who's trying to use other guys to make him jealous. That's THIS girl.

The girl in his previous thread,here,https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/message-meant-for-another-guy.268191/ .......... she also tried to make him jealous by sending him a text,INTENTIONALLY calling him the WRONG NAME.

So,that's two different girls,both trying to make him jealous by insinuating there's another guy in the picture that they somewhat have interest in. Whether these guys exist or not doesn't matter,the point is they're TOYING with this guy in effort to get some sort of reaction out of him.

Why.....I don't know. I just have my suspicions.

I DO NOT BELIEVE this is just coincidence,or "by chance".....and I also don't believe the OP is an UNWILLING participant. Reading his posts reminds me of an drug addict who everyone else around him wants to help,but they want him helped worse than he himself does.


I didn't say that's the case.....it's just the FEELING I get.


Anyway,hope he gets whatever it is he wants out of all this.
 

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I noticed that too. Didn't say anything cause,well.......didn't care,really. Just found it odd.

The OP started this thread out by saying this......" This is a different girl than the one I've recently posted about."
So here in this thread,he's talking about a girl who's trying to use other guys to make him jealous. That's THIS girl.

The girl in his previous thread,here,https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/message-meant-for-another-guy.268191/ .......... she also tried to make him jealous by sending him a text,INTENTIONALLY calling him the WRONG NAME.

So,that's two different girls,both trying to make him jealous by insinuating there's another guy in the picture that they somewhat have interest in. Whether these guys exist or not doesn't matter,the point is they're TOYING with this guy in effort to get some sort of reaction out of him.

Why.....I don't know. I just have my suspicions.

I DO NOT BELIEVE this is just coincidence,or "by chance".....and I also don't believe the OP is an UNWILLING participant. Reading his posts reminds me of an drug addict who everyone else around him wants to help,but they want him helped worse than he himself does.


I didn't say that's the case.....it's just the FEELING I get.


Anyway,hope he gets whatever it is he wants out of all this.
Yes it doesn't matter if there really are or not other guys... The fact is that she's toying with you
in that way.
 

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Yes it doesn't matter if there really are or not other guys... The fact is that she's toying with you
in that way.
Okay. How do you handle a girl who's toying with you in this way?
 

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The fact she is still talking to you after acting like it was such a major deal means she still wants you. I would maintain a little more distance than you're doing to really send her into a tailspin. She is going to come around - just a matter of when and if you want to deal with her.
But if you maintain even more distance, there's also a good chance she'll bang some guy to get you out of her system. Just thought this is worth considering, in case you ever want to bang her in the future.
I'm not saying you should be less distant or something, just throwing this out there.
 

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I'm totally being blinded by her insane body and magical pvssy. This is my problem....I often ignore red flags in women when the physical is soooo good.

She called me earlier while I was at the airport. Remember the other day when she texts me that she'll 'call another guy to come pick her up.' ?

Well this afternoon, she makes sure to tell me on the phone, "this guy Billy, he's a chef, he's going to take me back tomorrow."
Crazy chick that's good in bed?
Well... isn't that familiar...
 

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Exactly...all the time spent in threads and PM, about women that keep playing you with their crazy, just I n the last week alone...what if that was time and energy was dedicated to something that had true value in your life, something you could show off at the end of the year?
This is why I advocate men paying escorts.

1)Not only has it took me the whole peacock dance to get the last 10 women out,
2)the psychological stress of them messing about..
3)the 30 pound minimum per meet..

4)Only 1 appeared LTR material and she soft ghosted me after i was a rebound...

If dating was a business deal men would laugh it off the park
 

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your way to invested brother, she will turn on the Girlfriend vibes soon, probably meet you once or twice then do a 180 on ya
Ha. She actually did that this past weekend. She texted me from this girls' get-together, and said something like 'I want you to come to this thing with me in 4 months, as my boyfriend.'
 

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Ha. She actually did that this past weekend. She texted me from this girls' get-together, and said something like 'I want you to come to this thing with me in 4 months, as my boyfriend.'
I know you made the initial mistake and you apologised...

but think about this? lets turn this into a business deal since your mistake. what part of it is a Deal for you?

for instance i sold my classic car recently, the guy messaged and everything he said he followed through on, he turned up we had a coffee and he paid.

this transaction is what i call a Deal, it was enjoyable for both parties, make sense?
 

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I know you made the initial mistake and you apologised...

but think about this? lets turn this into a business deal since your mistake. what part of it is a Deal for you?

for instance i sold my classic car recently, the guy messaged and everything he said he followed through on, he turned up we had a coffee and he paid.

this transaction is what i call a Deal, it was enjoyable for both parties, make sense?
For sure. Let me ask you a question. This is a casual thing that's at about the 4 month point....

How should I drop her? Like, I want to drop her in a way that she knows I'm doing it on my terms. I don't want to come across as a bUtthUrt b!tch, and that's why I'm doing it.
 

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Ignore her for a bit then when she starts pressing you tell her you're in a committed relationship with someone else.

Be prepared to take legal action if she turns stalker. Record all conversations and save all messages.
 

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I haven't read the entire thread as I don't have the interest, so if this angle has already been covered, just ignore.

I had a thought from the OP's 1st post. There are times in life when it's perfectly appropriate to proactively apologize to a woman. It sounds like this particular woman is a reactive hot-head, but putting her aside, my comment is more of a general principle.

If I fell asleep before going out, I would pick up the phone and sincerely apologize, explaining that I was exhausted, that I sat down for a minute to rest, and ended up falling into a deep sleep. This kind of apology should be proactive.

Rare are the times that a man should apologize to a women, but those rare times do exist. It shows backbone and character when you're clearly in the wrong. Again, this particular woman sounds like she isn't worth the time of day, but when dealing with a quality woman, an apology is certainly appropriate when you completely screw up. You don't have to milk it and labor the point, but a sincere expression of being sorry is a positive thing. Again, it should be extremely rare, but it is sometimes appropriate.
 
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This 2 different women doing the same thing, both "magical pvssy"....yada yada has troll written all over it. Just my take.

But back to the "show" as they say.....

Women does something disrespectful such as throw another guy in my face....she better hope he really exists because I'm GONE with no response after that. Zilch. Nada. Not even a "best of luck". I'm dust in the wind and she is staring at her phone waiting for my response that will never come.

Why? Because she is either crazy, or there is another guy. If there is another guy, then she has been entertaining him for a while and this was her chance. Either way, Glassguy's interest is gone and she is left to her own devices.
Woman does something STUPID AND DISRESPECTFUL and she doesn't hear from me again.

Why? Because I have a surplus of self respect and would never entertain giving such a trash hole woman another ounce of my attention.

Now back to the regularly scheduled programming of the trolling......
 

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anyway, an hour ago, she texts me "I'm calling another guy to come pick me up in a few hours."

Deal breaker. Eject.
 
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