Sounds like you two have different love languages. However, her conflict management skills are dogsh!t.
Depending on how much you want the relationship, you can either try to talk it out with her or say "You're right, I don't see a future with you either" and show her the door.
I personally find it off putting she tried to play the victim to do what she wants. So that might be a red flag.
Tell her to discuss your differences like an adult or kick her out.
She played the victim perfectly, and was crying about it like I did something bad to her. She is pushy about living together, feel pressured with that.
There are things I'd want her to do, I don't go guilt tripping, manipulating and pressuring her about it. I talk about it like an adult.