If I started doing face peels, botox, chemical peels, exfoliatiation, and applying skin crème the women I date would think I was GAY! All of this sounds like what a bunch of women would do. lol, you wear skinny jeans too?
Don't hate the player...hate the game. I am with guru1000 on this 1000%.
You laugh at skinny jeans, but seriously unless you live in Alabama you need to be wearing skinny (or at least slim fit) jeans.
Interesting - I have two groups of friends:
Good Ole Boys - Half of my friends are outdoorsmen. These are men that get their haicut at procuts, have belly's, drink lots of beer, wear baggy clothes, and old suits.
Metro - Half of my friends are uber metro. These are men who really care about what girls think and like being known as "hot." They get their haircut at designers salons, wear expensive clothes, excellent shape, etc.
While my sample size is about 20. I can assure the ladies love the "metro men" and the "outdoorsmen" are invisible. I can go out with the good ole boys knowing that we will not be approached by women and girls will quickly get out of a conversation with them. On the other hand, a night out with the metro crew will be filled with IOI's, girls buying us drinks, looks from all the girls, etc.
These guys are the same age, income, education. But at 40, there is a huge gap between guys that let themselves go because they are real men and don't care about looks and the guys who really care.
If I can impart one piece of wisdom on this site it is:
Attraction Starts with Looks (physical appearance)
This difference is two groups is amazing!
PS - I can attest to guru that guys like him and other metro are dating the young models, while the "real men" are dating the older woman with kids. This is the law of nature. Be your best self!