Master Don Juan
- Dec 16, 2015
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I think I remember that actually.One SoSuave member did this years ago. I cant remember his name. One of the girls throwed a drink of water in his face and left. The other girl didnt take it so bad and got to enjoy a nice evening with the the guy.
I don’t know why @pipeman84 is bent. This is well known advice that originates from a well known former member here & you can probably search and find that advice.
Listen. High value abundance mindset people realize that other high value abundance minded people have options!!! I always have, the men I date are no different. Now. I’m not a flaker myself, but I’m also super direct. If I’m not very interested I’ll decline giving my number in the first place. So I don’t make plans I might not attend. That conserves my time, which is valuable, and the guy doesn’t waste his time getting his hopes up.
Very few women have the guts to straight up say no from the get go. Most women are terribly conflict averse and would rather flake or not respond later instead of (in their mind) hurting your feelings or your ego to your face. Obviously there is a polite/kind way to decline, an art of itself. Most women comply & flake later in an option rich environment.
Poor character, maybe in flaky chicks. Character is rare in a woman. Remember that.
The other thing you’ll see is lukewarm chicks who maybe you’re the best offer they got going RIGHT NOW but if someone they like better/more/etc comes along later then she’ll bounce in favor of the other dude.
They owe you nothing. It’s your job to value your own time.
My fiancé might have had other dates early on. What did I care? So did I. Desirable people have options. It’s not like we met and that same night agreed to be exclusive, thats ridiculous. I knew he’d see my value because I know my value and I value myself.
I didn’t worry about it at all precisely because I know my value. Voila, here we are.
Double book. If you are philosophically against that? Fine. Then don’t. But don’t complain about time waster girls when you won’t value your own time.