Treat a woman like a dog

[Dirtheart]

The topic of this thread sounds harsh, but hear me out.

If you reward a dog or show them affection just for being cute, they'll do whatever they please. They'll never respect you, they'll walk all over you and they'll never run to you when you call them. But if you are firm and never tolerate their disobedience, they'll look upto you, recognise you as their master and grow to respect and adore you.

I'm not suggesting you drag your date around on a leash, make them eat off the floor or anything that extreme (unless they're kinky), but it's about attitude.

I started to recognise that my sister's b*tch treated me exactly like all the women had during my AFC days. She'd walk all over me, intimidate me, barge past me and basically disrespect and disregard me in favour of someone else. My brother in law, however, is strict with her and would never let her get away with any disrespect or disobedience. He doesn't give her that much attention, yet she completely adores him, begs for his attention and pines for him when he's away. Incidentally, my sister acts much the same way.

So I started to act the same way and take a firm and masculine approach with her (No, not my sister!!). Within a month, she was completely under my control and loves me like I'm her owner.

So my advice to all aspiring DJs, get a dog and practise your masculinity.

 

[Ser_i]

definatly aggree with the concept isn't something like this mentioned somewhere in the DJ bible ?

 

[squirrels]

I think there was something in one of these threads once about treating your girl like she's your daughter or something...you know, show the affection, but lay down the law. Always be the benevolent caretaker, but assert the authority that you know best and you control the "household."

Women base their impression of men off of their father figure anyway...why not take advantage of it?

 

[Titus]

Intersting.

It must be quite hard to be... harsh all of the time.

But remember. What you give you is what you recieve.

 

[WaterTiger]

This is because dogs are pack animals. Everyone has a status in the pack. They call the top dog the "alpha"! AHHHHHH! See the similarity? Be a LEADER! Women will follow.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by WaterTiger
This is because dogs are pack animals. Everyone has a status in the pack. They call the top dog the "alpha"! AHHHHHH! See the similarity? Be a LEADER! Women will follow.

Yes, and that can also be incurred by doing simple things like calling women on their BS and telling them when they do things that you don't like. I've found that women respect and look up to you more when you do this.

 

[Player_Supreme]

You catch more fly's with honey than vinegar. Women respond to pleasure or the withholding of it better than they do a boot upside they arse!

 

[S0LID]

hmm the carrot or the stick

even better use both

 

[S0LID]

jus dun be predictable.

 

[Ebach]

It's not about treating other people like ****, it's about you taking care of yourself -- meaning you don't let a women or anyone disrespect you. She can do something that's annoying but isn't directed at you than you can only try to stop the annoying behavior. But if she's doing something to you personally or saying something about you or whatever then you gotta be a man and let her know that what she's doing is unappropriate. When you tell her be serious. Don't give her any C+F comebacks and let her that you mean what you said. I use insulting as last resort. It's easy to make fun of someone but it's immature so I'll use it if nothing else works.

This master slave thing is bull****. No one likes to be a slave, a follower, or whatever, but yet we all are. The important thing here is that you're not pushy. You might get respect but she might lose interest in you especially a relationship.

I agree with supreme, honey works better than vinegar when it comes to influencing people.

 

[rgeere]

Ok, I'm writting a senerio, say that this actually happened...


Ok, say for example you know two girls and are on good terms with both of them. But the two girls constantly fight and bicker against one another, and maybe one of them causes more problems for the other and they try to get you involved. Say this guy has a college class with both of them in the same class and one of the girls sits nexts to him, and they are always passing notes back and forth, and has gone on for weeks like this.

Here's the senerio...

[Right before a college class starts]

Her: Stick your back pack down like your saving the seat
Guy: Why?
Her: Don't let her sit there
Guy: [does nothing]
Her: Quick, she's coming

[another girl who is friends with this girl pops into the seat]

Her: Never mind

[Guy writes her a note saying that he would like to speak with her after class, they meet

later.]

Guy: What's up between you and this other girl?
Her: She's rude and arrogent, and I want nothing to do with her
Guy: This whole thing is completely silly, and I don't want to be involved.
I definatelly don't want to be an mediator between the two of you.
Her: I can do that for myself
Guy: Good, glad we have come to that understanding.


Then the other girl tries to get you to write notes to her to tell her to stop, what a bunch of witches.

 

[Ebach]

Don't get involved in catfights unless it gets dangerous; i.e. they start a fight in which case you separate them and don't take sides.

 

[rgeere]

Yeah, I stayed neutral. I'm somehow still on good relations with both of them. They were trying to get me between them, and since I saw the girl who sat next to me more often I had to tell her that she shouldn't expect me to get involved. I just ignored the other one. She did respect me more after that incident.

 

[Cheiradawg]

Nick nack booty whack give that dog a bone.

 

[ElleGirl]

Do you honestly think getting a woman to be subservient will work will all women? I highly highly doubt it mainly because I find that most women are very different from either other. I don't know...maybe because I'm one and I kind of have an idea what it's like to be a chick? That said, some women want men to control their lives and have someone tell them what to do and **** but most women don't. It all really depends on the woman herself. From experience...I'd run the other direction as fast as I can if my partner started doing this whole master/slave thing. It's really all about respect. If you treat your woman with respect, she'll love you more for it but if you start treating you like ****, I wouldn't be surprised if you woke up next to a doormat of a person or alone.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by ElleGirl
Do you honestly think getting a woman to be subservient will work will all women? I highly highly doubt it mainly because I find that most women are very different from either other. I don't know...maybe because I'm one and I kind of have an idea what it's like to be a chick? That said, some women want men to control their lives and have someone tell them what to do and **** but most women don't. It all really depends on the woman herself. From experience...I'd run the other direction as fast as I can if my partner started doing this whole master/slave thing. It's really all about respect. If you treat your woman with respect, she'll love you more for it but if you start treating you like ****, I wouldn't be surprised if you woke up next to a doormat of a person or alone.

I think the title gave you the wrong impression.

I completely agree, but I don't think that anyone was inferring that a woman should end up being a slave or a doormat anywhere in this post. I personally like submissive/nice girls, but that doesn't mean I want someone who has no personality, brains, or an opinion.

I guess in a way I am saying that I want a girl who is well rounded, but not manly or domineering. One that acts feminine and non-agressive, although bold I don't mind.

 

[NRM]

If a woman is doing something that you don't like or don't appreciate. Call her on it. It'll only get worse later if you don't. This is a pretty sound theory and it's true. If you met someone who let you walk all over them, you would, it's only natural. Even if you didn't want to be mean and avoided it, it would be the only thing you could do.

Girls want the dominate masculine figure. It is OKAY to tell her what to do instead of ask. If she doesn't want to do it, she'll tell you, but at least you come off as a guy who knows what he's doing if she does. Along with being confident in your decisions, somewhat of a challenge, funny, and unpredictable. I don't think any girl could possibly get tired of you.

 

[WaterTiger]

There is a difference between being a strong leader and being an abusive punk. Since we have the dog training/woman handling analogy, let's stick with it.

Think of it as training a pit bull terrier. Powerful dog, intelligent, unpredictable temper, but you MUST teach it to obey you. You need train it properly from the begining. If you let it get away with everything, you'll have a deadly dangerous animal on your hands that you have no way to control. If you treat it too harshly, it will rip your throat out.

So you take that middle road. When the dog does something well, you praise it. When it doesn't behave properly, you kindly repremand it. Any dog trainer will tell you that using positive AND negative reinforcement is the fastest and the best way to train a dog. For example:

Girl: I saw you were low on beer so I picked up a six-pack on my way home.
You: Thank you Honey! I appreciate that!

Girl: You men! You're just a bunch of stupid....
You: HEY! I don't speak to you like that. It's disrespectful and I will not tolerate that from anyone, not even you. Calm down if you want to talk to me.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

But dogs will jump on you when you come home, excited to see you, defend you if someone enters your territory, and will always listen to you.

Women do none of that.

 

[Evan_M]

Women are more like cats in regards to behavior. Compare your typical domesticated cat to domesticated housewife and the similarities can be striking. Lots of lying around watching tv and napping. The more attention you try to give them the more they try to avoid you. With that said they are most likely to pester you when you're busy with something else. Respect and loyalty comes from the providing of food and shelter. Stupid collections of plush toys....

Heck even part of their anatomy is named after the feline species.

Dogs are much more like men.