MinusoneAFC
Don Juan
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- Jun 30, 2003
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Have been using the system and DJ bible for sometime, about 6 months now and my game hasn't gotten great. Have gotten more #'s than I have ever gotten in a lifetime and more dates than ever. So here is the deal. I have started seeing this gal for an more. I was dating a few different girls at the time but have gotten rid of the others and am just seeing this one. We have been on about 10-12 dates and have been having sex for sometime. This issuse is I am find myself falling back into my old AFC's ways. I am starting to lose confidence when I am around her, less of a challenge to her and honestly I don't the way I feel when I am act like this. She wanted to get together this week but I told her I was real busy but that I would see her on Thursday. We are suppose to hang out Thursday with a bunch of her friends and then spend 4th of July together. I think by taking the space it will help reasserate my space. I guess the fundemental issuse is that I am falling back into my old ways looking for validation from her which I haven't done over the last 6 months in working on my DJ attitude and skills. I know its human to slip but I wanted to know if anyone had any recommendations or strategies of what they do to get themselve back on track once you see the AFC rearing its ugly head.
The other rub I have is I meet a girl out Friday night and I would like to take her out but I kind of feel odd about it. Me and the current girl I am dating haven't had any discussions about 1-1 exclusive dating and of course I am not going to bring it up so is it safe to go on a date with the other chick?
The other rub I have is I meet a girl out Friday night and I would like to take her out but I kind of feel odd about it. Me and the current girl I am dating haven't had any discussions about 1-1 exclusive dating and of course I am not going to bring it up so is it safe to go on a date with the other chick?