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Told one my plates, her hair, body and breath stink

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So one of my plates has always been like that, he hair stinks of sweat, her body stinks of sweat, and her breath stink all the time, its like food that has been in the tooth for long and its rotten.

I told her all of that because its driving me crazy, I hate kissing her or having her body on close to mine. I know men have always lied to women, but I couldn't do it no more, I'm pretty sure she will get mad at me and never speak to me again, but I just couldn't take it. I dropped some hints to her about how we men like women who smell super good, but she never got the memo, so I had to do it.

Have you guys said anything like that to women and how did they react?
 

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This is the message I sent her, its translated from Spanish via google lens, so don't mind the errors. I've never done something like this, so idk how she will react. Still waiting on her response

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Nothing wrong with being honest. However, this is a lecture. Just be direct. This is all you have to say-

“Sweetheart, you smell bad. Breath. Hair. Body Odor. Fix it.”

I told my wife back when we were in the talking phase that her breath stank. She was so traumatized from it her breath never stunk again. She’s now obsessed with oral hygiene.
 

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Nothing wrong with being honest. However, this is a lecture. Just be direct. This is all you have to say-

“Sweetheart, you smell bad. Breath. Hair. Body Odor. Fix it.”

I told my wife back when we were in the talking phase that her breath stank. She was so traumatized from it her breath never stunk again. She’s now obsessed with oral hygiene.
That's great man. I tried to soften the blow. She answered with the typical shaming that I am a faghot and a toxic person. Well she's a big girl she will survive, but I just had to do it.
 

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Well if she’s otherwise hot you could have led:

1. “hey baby let’s get in the shower I want to wash you from head to toe”
2. Have your toothbrush in the shower with toothpaste and brush your teeth and have a spare in there for her, encourage her to at the same time.

Inevitably this will lead to shower sex, kissing and her on her knees in the shower blowing you.

When you’re done just use the power of suggestion: omg your skin smells so amazing and your hair looks so beautiful! Kissing is so nice with fresh breath.

Just another way of behavior modification, which is your job as a man in regards to a woman.

If she’s of no value and you have hot cnts everywhere you need not bother.
 

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That's not the kind of stuff to be discussed over text, IMO. You soften the blow by delivering the message in person with the tone of your voice and body language conveying compassion and the fact you're genuinely trying to be helpful to her. Also, would've been better doing it step by step (fix the BO first, then hair, then oral hygiene) instead of basically telling her in one big scoop that she stinks like a POS.
That's great man. I tried to soften the blow. She answered with the typical shaming that I am a faghot and a toxic person. Well she's a big girl she will survive, but I just had to do it.
 

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which is your job as a man in regards to a woman.
Where does it say that's a man's job? Whats the woma's job? To be a mess and wait for Mr. Savior to save her? Nah, this is the only woman I've had who smells bad. All other woman take care of their hygiene, of smelling incredible. I'm always clean, smelling good, always groomed, is that so hard to take care of their own hygiene?

Also, would've been better doing it step by step (fix the BO first, then hair, then oral hygiene) instead of basically telling her in one big scoop that she stinks like a POS.
Again why is that my job to fix her? If she stinks she stinks, she needs to fix it, I'm not fixing anybody, I got my own $hit to fix.
 

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Again why is that my job to fix her? If she stinks she stinks, she needs to fix it, I'm not fixing anybody, I got my own $hit to fix.
It's not your job to fix her. But you can point out the issues either in a manner that's helpful or that can backfire. Your choice.
 

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It's not your job to fix her. But you can point out the issues either in a manner that's helpful or that can backfire. Your choice.
I did and provided solutions. But not doing her job. Imagine doing it one time, and then what? If she still gonna smell bad, are you gonna take the job of her personal hygienist? Nah pass.
 

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Regardless of OP's tact, it's a positive situation for him, as he's slowly killing his inner nice guy. I'm wondering if she'll eventually come back around.
 

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So one of my plates has always been like that, her hair stinks of sweat, her body stinks of sweat, and her breath stink all the time, its like food that has been in the tooth for long and its rotten.

I told her all of that because its driving me crazy, I hate kissing her or having her body on close to mine.
I honestly have no words. Except to ask why and how in the world you could continue dating (and fvcking?) such a slovenly woman?

A woman's looks are important no doubt but her scent (hair, body, breath) is part of her essence, her femininity, her sexuality
and what attracts men, or most men.

You did her a favor by telling her, but I'm still wondering how you could have stomached kissing her, banging her.

TBH, I gagged a little bit reading and imagining it.




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And you put up with the smell while banging her? Damn bro.

Its over for ProperHygieneHerCels.

Im glad you told her, someone had to. But I agree that it should´ve been in person
 
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I honestly have no words. Except to ask why and how in the world you could continue dating (and fvcking?) such a slovenly woman?

A woman's looks are important no doubt but her scent (hair, body, breath) is part of her essence, her femininity, her sexuality
and what attracts men, or most men.

You did her a favor by telling her, but I'm still wondering how you could have stomached kissing her, banging her.

TBH, I gagged a little bit reading and imagining it.




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Im not lying to you when last night I sae her, ahe kissed me and I felt this rotten breath in her mouth, I try to fvck her and I couldn't keep it up because of her entire smell.

I left and after I left, I kid you not, I was tasting her rotten saliva in my mouth that I had to take a mind.

She's hot as hell, but her hygiene is horrible
 

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Damn, bro. You are a savage. Not attacking you, it might be a good thing sometimes.
 

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She's hot as hell, but her hygiene is horrible..
That's an understatement.

I'm actually wondering about her mental health because emotionally healthy people take pride in themselves - looking good, smelling good and keeping clean.

They go to dentist regularly, brush their teeth, take showers, wash hair, etc.

Anyway, again it's good you said something, has she responded?
 

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That's an understatement.

I'm actually wondering about her mental health because emotionally healthy people take pride in themselves - looking good, smelling good and keeping clean.

They go to dentist regularly, brush their teeth, take showers, wash hair, etc.

Anyway, again it's good you said something, has she responded?
I kept coming back, cause of the idea in my mind looking at her pictures, she doesn't look bad, but no matter how good she looks I just couldn't do it no more.

She blocked me on Whatsapp and I deleted her number, we have friends in common, so we will see each other from time to time, it will be interesting.
 

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