I am not obliged to phuck woman if I don't find her sexually attractive or if she annoys me
Either woman has something interesting about her personality for me and is physically attractive up to my standards (which are rather high) and gives off female scent that makes me hard or GTFO.
I totally agree with you. If you read a lot of my recent posts, my goal of a rotation is not to litter it up with low value women (bc those dont exist in my rotation) and women who dont offer more than just attractive looks. I have went on tons of dates with women who were physically attractive but they offered very little more outside of that. The things that you look for in a LTR, I also look for in plates. Socially outgoing, feminine, witty, career driven, financially independent, outgoing and fun, adventurous, etc. I am not interested in someone who is awkward, bashful, anti social, masculine, boring, etc.
If I meet someone new for drinks, I am screening them. There is already physical attraction on my part or I wouldnt be there. The date is to see what else she offers, her personality, etc. The goal is not to bang as many women as possible.
The goal of my rotation is to set it up as if I am in a relationship with 3-4 women. All of those women will have higher value and meet my high standards.
Wanna feel Alpha? Phuck all these chicks I didn't want to date this year. Enough for many guys to feel Alpha about themselves.
Hell I know betas that can plow a bunch of chicks. That means nothing. Being alpha doesnt mean that you can go smash all the time. It is a mindset that should be used in a rotation, dating, LTR, Marriage, etc.
The mindset doesnt change. It is about doing what is best for YOU and the ability to walk away, with many different nuances in the middle of those 2 things.
Some alphas will be in LTR's, some rotations, some just out to smash. Same with betas.
Alphas use their mentality, abundance mindset, confident demeanor and putting themselves first to obtain which ever type of relationship THEY want.
Betas use lots of other things to attempt in getting what they want. Money, food, a house, nice car, fat bank account.
The difference is the alpha mindset cant be taken away. A beta can lose all the tools he has to use in order to get what he wants.....and eventually lose what those tools got him because of a weak mindset. Its inevitable.
Women just want to phuck?
Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
Maybe for some its the first date. Maybe for some its date 5. They more so want a man that will take charge and lead, tell them no, do his own thing, be a man. When they see the beta insecurities, jealousy, neediness.....they dry up like the Sahara desert.
So better take all the things these chicks say to you with grain of salt
Example of what I was talking about-
About a month ago I went out on a 1st date with this chick. Very attractive, high social status in our area. I had asked the woman to join me but she said she already had plans. "No problem. Let me know your availability and we will try some other time. Have a productive day"
3 hours later I get a message from her: I changed my plans. Are you still free to meet for a drink?
So we met up. As we got into the date I asked her why her plans got changed. She had a first date set up with a guy that she had been friends with. During the day he began blowing her phone up. At one point he sent her a message about planning their NYE and her coming to his family's house for their Christmas dinner.
She literally showed me the text messages. They were super cringy. We got a good laugh over it. Then she showed me a few more messages from guys that had their foot on the gas in terms of beta skills. She talked about how most guys act this way, many before they ever meet. And then she cancels on them because she is smart enough to know that if they act like this before a date, they are going to act even worse after the date. And why she shouldnt go out with them after she sees the red flags because at that point she has lost all attraction and interest in them.
Women will give you a lot of good info if you pay attention. Especially if you are calm, cool and collected during a date.
So I disagree with you on this, but I also see your point of view. I dont care about a chick's ex. Most of the chicks I go out with dont bad mouth their ex because they are not low value. They are educated.