Stagger Lee said:Man if I have a date like that, I'd think she was good to go home with me. I can't say I've been on a date with a Polish girl in Poland but she sure sounded like she wanted you to lead her there. You got to take the lead. You can't go stuffing yourself and being all tired and not lead lol. But I can see you know that.
About the bartenders in Poland ignoring you especially if your running solo in a club sounds exactly like what a lot of sh!thead Midwesterners do. It's not discrimination, per se, they're just passive c0ckblockers. What I was told, that the guys in Poland won't even try for a girl until they see some other guy try and then they get jealous and interfere. Don't know if that's true but that also sounds like Midwesterners.
Well initially I tried to suggest we go cook and eat at my place right after the segway tour didn't work out. But she said it was late and didn't think the supermarkets were open so told me we'll do that the next time we meet and yes I definitely agree about the thing about taking her home. We had walked quite the distance though as we talked. I think we walked for at least 30 minutes or so outside of the town square where I have my apartment. The only option I think I could have done was get a taxi but I think I would have needed to make a physical move on her first like kissing her on the lips before suggesting that. Anyways I'm fcuking pi$$ed off at myself for being such a pu$$y. I don't frigging understand why its so hard for me to just go for the kiss. Its like in the past I might not have recognized the signals but now at least some of the time I can pick up on a few of the signals the girl is sending me. I'm able to pick up some of the non-verbal cues such as her getting closer to me, playing with her hair, looking at me longer, touching me, etc but even though I'm able to recognize it my god damn body won't react and capitalize on it. I only manage to do that once so far and its fcuking pathetic because I lost so many girls from my lack of inaction. I'm trying to desperately break out of this pu$$Y social conditioning I have ingrained so deep inside of me, but its taking me ages and I'm bleeding girls left and right because of it.